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i have this friend and she likes our other friends brother so she starts hanging wit her more and i kinda left out. and we're drifting away so wat do u think i should do and plz dont say try 2 talk 2 her thanx (link)
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i'd say to have your friend over to your house or invite her to go some where with you. so you'll be with her.
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sorry this is gonna be long ok like i need help i have like issues with trusting people like my best friends ok heres the story last summer i used to always be with my best friend(lets call her mary) her boyfriend(lets call him mike?) and his friend(lets call him bob) ok so i liked bob like alot and i was like BEST friends with mike like i would have trusted him with my life. and one night after we all got back from the movies mike told me bob liked me and then like a week later bob told mary that he doesnt like me and he never did. and i dont no i didnt really no who to believe bc i mean i was best friends with mike and i didnt think he'd lie to me and stuff but idk. thats not really the issue. the issue is i cant trust people like i want to but im afraid to bc im afraid that it will end up just like it did with that whole situation. and i like have issues falling for guys bc he hurt me so much like bc i liked him soo much and ever since then i have not liked another guy like really liked. i dont no what to do, because like i want to move on i want to like other people and gain trust back with some of my friends (link)
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Well this sittuation is kinda defacult. Trust issues is all personal, and its kinda a thing you just have to over come on yourself. Some things just break peoples trust for others, and its pretty hard to get back, and truth is, if its something that can/does scare you for life then gaining back trust will be pretty hard. But in this sittation its not too too big. Just start talking to other people and your friends, soon your'll find yourself kinda forgetting about the past. The past is the past, so just enjoy now, then again it is called the present :)
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You are sitting on the ground, as your friend is sitting besides you, they slowly gets close to you and then grabs your arm and holds your arm and hug it as they lay their head on your shoulder and cruls up to you.
but thay are the same sex (females).
Do close friends do that to each other?
or is the one who is the toucy person is trying to tell you that they like you? (link)
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haha wow. well that it kinda odd, but it could kinda mean both things. If she more of a friendly person then most people then i would just say she was like doing it as friends, and nothing else.
However if you have questioned her about ur sexuality it could been that she does like you...more than friends
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me and my best guy friend used to be friends with benefits for about half a year. we both promised each other that we wouldn't say anything. ok so i couldnt take it anymore and i told my most trustworthy friend that we felt each other up which was only a tiny bit of what we did. she swore she wouldnt tell anyone. well about 2 months later, drama started and my "friend" decided to tell people that me and my guy friend made out. i did not tell her that. ok so anyway now this guy wont talk to me after i apologized everyday for two weeks because people were coming up to him asking him about the things we did. now its about two weeks later. i thought me and the guy were good and going to start being friends again. at a dance we danced together and we were joking around. now today i talked to him and he said he doesn't want to be friends and that he thinks we can never be friends again because he thinks i told everyone for some sort of social status. he knows im not that type of girl. how am i supposed to get his trust back because i really care about him and he was a good friend to me. i can't apologize anymore because its obviously not doing anything for him. i can't convince him that i didn't say all of what the rumors said. i want a fresh start and he wants to forget i exist, what am i supposed to do? (link)
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Well that deff. stinks. and i hate to say it but of course trust can be broken pretty fast, and its mostly kinda hard to get it back. But does he have myspace or do you guys email or soemthing? write him a nice not too long message saying pretty much what ur question is saying. You didn't tell everyone, and that you do care about him. Just try talking to him settleing things. but don't be too pushy for now. maybe give him a little time for things to settle a little more, and try again?
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See me and and a friend lets say 'Mandy' have been friends since kindergarden. I've always thought of her like a sister but lately its more like a twin. When I told her I was going to get an Ipod she went out and got an MP3 player. When I got my ears pierced, she did. I have straight hair she has curls, for her b-day she got hair straightener! She's been using my words, my style, my life; and I'm sick of it. She's been using me, now I want to lose her. But how? (link)
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well if you want to just plain lose her..then tell her what you think. don't be afraid to be rude
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need someone to talk about my problems with in a conversation.
they are mostly friendship ones.
is there anyplace i can find people to talk to who will kind of give me a total other point of view?
since they are not my friend?
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i would totaly be willing to help you, you can either just send me the question or w/e or just talk to me on bree21221 (aim) i'm on everynight and would love to help you :)
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i am like a total break-down right now. my friends and i have this "group" that we hang out in, there's 7 of us. one of them thinks she is so popular and funny, when she is really just plain ANNOYING! i'm not jealous or anything like that. when she makes a comment, and then laughs, then everyone laughs. it's like she's the center of attention. my friends like ignore me now, and it's not fair, what should i do? i've already tried talking to them, and that made it worse. my best friend is in that group of friends, and she loves her as well! should i hang out in another group? (link)
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no, i wouldn't start hanging out with anyother group if you like all the others girls but her. Some people just don't get along and you just have to acept that. Just try to ignore her, and act like you don't care, even if you really do. When she makes a joke just lauhg and act like its funny. Also i would try to maybe come up with some jokes of your own or something? So that you can get a little attention for a while.
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