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I am a blonde and my friends are always making fun of me for it. How do I ask them nicely to stop. (link)
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Well my friends sometimes do the same thing. I don't mind it anymore because I joke around with them. You could also tell them that it hurts your feelings and for them to please stop. Hope I helped!
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Well I'm pretty sure a lot of ppl readin this will know who I am talking about. But lets say her name is Clara. Clara and me and my bff used to be bff's until clara decided she wanted to be popular. She is such an ass hole. She c?ompletly acts like sumthin shes not and treats me like dirt. What should I do (link)
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Tell her how you feel dont be afraid to tell the absolute truth. This happened to me once but it wasnt to be popular and i didnt realize i was doing it untill 2 of my friends got the guts to tell me. I wish they had told me sooner cause i still havent got everything completely back together. Thats probably what she needs to work on getting back to how she was. This is also happening to one of my friends right now which i think i might know who this is that your talking about but ive been meaning to talk to my friend about it but shes at camp so i have to wait until she gets back.
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I have this friend, let's say her name is Karen. Well Karen used to cut herself and says she stopped but i don't know. I know she has some emotional problems and insecurities. Sometimes I'll see cuts on her legs, ankles and knees, thats where she used to cut. I want to talk to her about it but I'm worried what she will think if I'm wrong, what should I do?
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Ask her how she's been handling her problems. And ask how she got the cuts. If she trusted you enough to let you know she did before she might tell you. If you don't get an answer or they keep coming up straight out ask her. This happened with someone i know and all that person needed was someone to talk out her problems with someone who would listen and if they started to cry they would have a shoulder from someone they trust to cry on. Maybe thats what your friend needs. Hope I helped. If if keeps happening ask me about more advice.
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My friend, say her name is Kara, well kara always says shes my best friend, but i dont think she is. She is always ditching me for someone else. When we're in school, she totally ignores me and goes to flirt with the boys or to hangout with some other friends. I sit across from her in art, and sometinmes see doesn't even talk to me when i'm sitting ight there!! help! (link)
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Tell her how you feel. She might not even realize she's doing it. I know I didn't until two of my bestfrriends told me and what they felt about it. She might get a little mad at you at first (i know i was) but if she does she'll get over it pretty quick. Hope I helped!
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hey- I know this girl who I was like best best friends with last year. We did so much together, like staying up until dawn talking about things in general. Now, this year she started hanging out with the freshman girls and treats me like a slave. She makes me hold her books between classes then goes to talk with other people. I told her I kinda liked her boyfriend so she slapped me across the face! she even has started calling me thunds, short fror thunder thighs or her slave.She says she is only joking and that she loves me as a friend, but i'm not sure if she is teling the truth. what do you think i should do? (link)
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Stick up for yourself! next time she asks you to hold her books say know. Sit down and tell her how you feel. Tell her to stop calling you names. tell her that you feel like shes not being truthful when she says she loves you like a friend. And SLapping you across the face cause you kinda like her boyfriend is unexceptable you shouldnt take that from her. Tell her its not a joke to you and to stop. hope I helped!
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ok there si this gusy who is acting like a total jerk to me he says i dont deserve anythign i get casu eeveryone think im annoying form a certain town on a certain team and he says im annoying and he cant stand me why they heck would he be i doing this to me (link)
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Sweetheart first of all what you need to understand is that guys can be really big jerks sometimes but sometimes they can be really sweet. Don't let him bring you down. He's probably jelous cause your better than him at something or have somehting he doesnt. I'm sure not everyone from a ccertain town on a certain team thinks your annoying. people like to exaggerate. Find out why he's been saying this and get back to me ok?
Hope i helped!
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I think my best friend is drifting away from me because she moved away to Maine, and we dont get to talk much, other then online, and occationaly the phone. I miss her so much and sometimes i cry, it sounds cheezy, but it's true. I really want to find out whats going on, what should i do? (link)
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Maybe you should try calling her and finding out whats going on. Maybe because you just have one person to contact and she was a whole ton plus all her responsablities and friends in Maine it's hard to be able to contact everyone. She might cry sometimes too cause you or other people haven't been calling her or writing to her She might feel like they've or the people who havent been calling or writing her have forgotten about her. Since its summer call and plan a time to get together for a week or more. I'm sure she's just been really busy abut a reunion would be a wonderful idea. Hope I helped.
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Ok, i have this friend, and today i went to the beach w/ her and a bunch of other friends, but this one in particular ignored me. She wouldn't talk to me, i went to sit alone, she didn't talk to me, went off by myself somewhere she didn't come find me or talk to me when i got back, i got mad but she wouldn't talk to me, on the bus back she laughed and wouldn't talked to me, i started crying, she still didn't talk to me, she just laughed she didn't care at all! And she always said that she cared about me, and finally she left laughing and i'm not gonna see her for a long time, what the hell should i do? It's killing me how cruel she was. (link)
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Hunny,
a true friend should not completely ignore you especially if your crying. Do you know why she wouldn't talk to you. Have you tried sitting down and talking to her about it? If not you should and find out why she wouldn't talk to you. Was she laughing at you when you were crying? If someone she was trying to impress was there than maybe she was trying to show off. Although if i were that person i would not be impressed. You should always be there for your friends especially when there crying and stuff. I hate to say this but if she's treating you like that then maybe she doesn't care as much as she says she does. If there is anyway you can contact her while she's away i.e. phone, email, letter then do it and find out why she was ignoring you. Make sure you tell her whats bothering you. You desrve better than that. Maybe she's not worth the pain but only you can decide that. In the mean time hang with some other friends and have a good time try and get your mind off of it. Hope i helped get back to me about it okay..
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I'm 13, girl, and my best guy friend is moving tomorrow morning, and last night I w/bein a jerk, and I cussed him out. I have never made a worse mistake in my life. He's always been there for me always, and now he hates me. What do I do? (link)
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Tell him how you feel. He's always been there for you right so he should understand. Maybe bring him some homemade cookies or brownies for the trip. Wish him luck tell him you'll keep in touch. Tell him it was the bigest mistake of your life and that you really do care for him.
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Ok, i have this friend and we're rly close. But now every night i have night mares about her killing me. And i've had about 7 in all. And then she tells me how she's had a dream about killing me twice. And isn't the myth that if u have a dream over 3 times and it becomes tru? Well, now i'm like totally afraid of her, and she's scared too that i might be right. And one day i took a stick and scratched a 7 on her arm on accident, and she realized that 7 is just too much of a coincidence. What should i do? I love her a lot, she is one of my best friends but what if she rly does kill me someday? (link)
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Ok hun first of all i dont believe in myths or superstitions or whatever and its probably nothing at all. Next time you have one of these dreams trry focusing on something else in the dream there may be soemthing else in the dream that will happen or is trying to get something through to you. dont be afraid it will probably just make things worse. Maybe the dreeam means the friendship is dying out and you need to give it more life. Get back to me after seeing if theres anything else in the dream k?
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Hi see im stuck in the middle of 2 friends that are guys and their both my age , they boh want to go out with me me Im looking for MR Right , what do I do??? Jenipher PLz help (link)
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You either need to pick one or just not go out with either. The one or both not picked should be let down easy. Guys are fragile but may not show it. Neither of them could be MR Right but what you could do is just go out on a date with each of them separatly and see which one you like better. Sometimes you just need to take a risk.
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