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Hey im a freshman in High school, and would love to help you with any questions you have about life and dont worry all if this is confadetial.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I love dancing, that is my thing (even though i am not the best at it...), i feel like i am free and that what ever i do it is all good and no one will judge that. I also am am into art, mostly 3-D, i love working with clay and doing models out of ne thing. I am also involved with the drama department at our school. My first year at dawson my friends got me hooked, and im not saying that is a bad thing.
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Hey...im 13/f! This is most likely gonna be long...but sorry! Ok...this year has been an absolute living hell for me and my friends arent making anything better! it seems like the worse my life gets...the more i CANT depend on my friends. Like there are all these rumors going around my school that like ive had sex with like all these guys and stuff and in the bathroom there is this one stall that people write all this shit about me and start more rumors about me on! I have a lot of boyfriends...and i have been to the counselors office a couple times and each time its the same thing "Stay as low key as possible and DONT have any boyfriends for a while" and i did that for a while and nothing was changing and so i said what the hell and when this guy i really liked asked me out i said yes...and things with the rumors got even worse...and my friends are starting to bleieve the rumors when they should know me better than to believe i would be like that and have sex and other gay ass things! I dont know what to do and i dont know how to stop all this drama at my school...please help me!
This is going to be long but it is important...I no exactly what you are going through, i whent through taht were i used to live! If the rumors are not true... which im asuming they arent. your friends should be there for you. from what you have discribed for me your friends arent there for you through thick and thin. find some new people that you can talk to, tell your family what is bothering you. and screw the counsolors at the schools they dont no squat! if things keep getting worse i would sign up to see a real one that can help you... trust me i whent to one, they are nosey but they no what they are doing. Im and optamistic person, and in these situations you kinda have to be, nothing can get anyworse. so it soon has to get better! hope the problems in the family work out, dont stress. hope i helped! drop one in the box it you need any more advice. :)
ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!!
I would not be friends with them if they did somting that horrible to you... then you can never trust them... and like you said "do i say yes n get hurt again". my answer to that would be yes you would get hert by them, but i would not hold a grudge. just dont call them or talk to them to give them the idea that you are friends with them again. im sorry about what happend to you, all your other friends there for you! hope i helped!
What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!
Ok you may like this guy, but if he does not respect your choice in friends then i would dump him he is not worth it. or talk to him and make him listen, if that does not work dump him. good luck. hope i help!
Ok, I have this friend who I've known since like kindergarden, and she started to hang out with the people who I absolutly despise. They (I'm sure of) are using her, just to get back at me. Becasue they hate me to. So one of the girls she is haging out with, started to call me a Lesbian because me and my friend (who is a girl) were walking down the hallway locked arms (which I think is harmless). So my friend started to belive it. I thought she knew me well enough to know I'm not. I love boys I flirt with boys not girls! OMG she got me so mad. Well anyway the rumors stoped because I set everyone straight, but my firned is acting like nothing happened! She didn't even apoligesed to my face! How am I supposed to deal with such a back-staber!?. Plus I don't want to loose her as a friend. But right now, we are kinda on the edge of ending the friendship! PLEASE help!
ok girl you deseirve a better friends. from what you are telling me she is not a very good one, if she is taking the side of her "new" friends. There are alot of other people looking out for you! Dont even try to deal with her. if she want to still be friends with you then she can come to you and apoligize. hope i helped.