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My names Michelle.


Unlike all the other little 12 year old girls on this site, I can ACTUALLY give advice. Without slang, too. I wont answer if a question is like this: OMG MA BF WANTZ ME TA HAV SEX WIT HIM BUT IM NAWT SUR IF I SHOULD?!

Im very nice. & friendly.

So, feel free to talk to me, via inbox? :] thatd be great.

My myspace is: Myspace.com/x0forever.

kthnx.♥

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ok so i hav this guy friend and hes usually so nice to me and he teases me a lot but i know he jus kiddding but today he was really bein mean to me and i dont know why!! he wasnt jokin i could tell he had like no expression on his face and his voice was all serious. everythin i said he was jus like "i dont care" and stuff like that it hurt my feeling so bad i dont wanna be friends w/ him. and by the way i like him a lot he doesnt know and i dont understand why hes actin all weird. he was fine yesterday and i dont want him coming to my party if he doesnt want to be friends w/ me anymore, could i just uninvite him? im so confused.. .

Guys can be REALLY confusing and not to mention moody! One minute their fine and funny, and the next they're mean and throw out rude comments. We dont really think of GUYS this way because they always criticize US (girls) for it, right? Plus, they dont have PMS and arent known to have the same chemical imbalances that girls have that make us sometimes moody. BUT, guys do get it. They just wont admit it. Sadly, the girl below me is wrong. I dont think you should talk to him about it, for the reason that he probably DOESNT want to talk things through and have drama (most guys dont.) I think maybe hes been having a lot of stress on his hands lately. Sometimes, thats how boys reacct to things - by being mean to other people to take out their frustration. And you probably (not offensively or anything) might have gotten in his path at a bad time and he lashed out at you for no reason.

I would invite him to your party - theres no reason he would be nice to you and then hate you one day. Maybe talk to one of his friends and see whats up with him lately. But, still he would probably be really bummed if you didnt invite him.

Sorry this is so long! Haha, I just had a lot to say! ♥

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So i spent the night at my friends house.
Her brother and I were watching a movie.
He got up to get something to drink.
I put my feet on the sofa,then he came back he didnt move my feet instead he grabed a pillow and layed on me.
Then later on her grabed my hands.
Awhile after that,i was on him.
As in he was siting down,and my legs were over his.
He out his face on mine.
As if,he wanted me to kiss him.
But i just huged him.
Later after everyone fell alseep,he kissed my on my forehead.
We talked a bit,then he stole my pillow.
So i was forced to get up and sit on the floor and take my pillow back.
He didnt let me have it back,so instead i layed down with him.
He held my hand,kissed are hands.
And kissed me couple more times on my forehead.
Then fell alseep.
Next day,It was like nothing happened.
Im confused,i mean did he just want someone to lay on and hold hands?

Please,dont delete.

Im not sure,what to think.


Wow, well it really seems like a lot of stuff happened that night. You have to realize how awkward that is. He acted like nothing ever happened because you were in front of everyone else. Plus, he was probably embarassed. He just didnt want people (ESPECIALLY his sister!) to find out. If you like him, I would talk to him about it. And figure out if he likes you or whatnot. BUT, if you think that this will ruin your relationship with your friend, then forget about it!

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My friend *Agnes and I have never really been close, but I know most of the things that go on in her life. She has a myspace and has tons of people on there that she goes to shows with and hangs out with. I want to be as outgoing as her, but I don't want to do it through myspace. I mean it's harder for me because I am afraid of being rejected. I'm not as pretty or skinny as her and I am not"scene" so people don't make it a point to talk to me. How do I get up the courage to talk to people, mainly boys, and what do I say?

You dont have to be scene to get people to like you! Trust me. Im not scene and I have friends. The reason why people LIKE her & a lot of scene people is because they do their own thing and to be flat out honest - theyre not scared to be themselves and they dress how they feel. And if people dont like them, they dont really care. Thats a good personality to have as long as it doesnt go TOO far & the person ends up snotty or isolates themselves from everyone that isnt EXACTLY like them. Just realize, if you go up and talk to people, theyre probably not going to reject you. Why would they? Just be confident and nice and yourself! Thats really all GOOD people - who you should care about liking you - want.

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me and my friend are in a fight, what do i do?

Just dont worry. From my experiences, its probably just a little argument thats sure to blow over. Try to forget about it and dont talk to your friend. This will give them time to think & blow off steam. Then, hopefully they will realize its not worth fighting over or they will just forget about it after a few days. In the mean time, relax. Watch TV, take a bubble bath, read, go outside, nap, etc. to get your mind off this. If its not just a "little fight" then talk to them & apologize, maybe. But, I would just let them be. If your true friends, nothing will happen - you'll be fine.
♥ MichL

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What is your opinion of hippies?

Hippies started in the 70's. In fact, if you want to know more about what they were and believed in back then, ask your parents! They were around and they could have been a hippy themself. So, ask. Basically, hippies were people who were out of the loop so to speak. And they cared about the environment, cutting down trees, etc. and world peace. They also had many "peaceful" protestings against many things, riots broke out, and the police would arrest many of these hippies - which is what my Dad has told me. There are still hippies, but theyre less obvious now and harder to label these days.
♥ MichL

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Hey, here's something quick. My friends and I have nothing to do today! We really want to go out! It's raining and is supposed to continue all day! Have any fun ideas for teen girls? Mucho Gracias!

I have the same problem. But, theres lots to do. Heres some ideas.

- Go to the mall
- Go get your nails done
- Go to somewhere like CVS & get new makeup
- Go to the movies
- Do make up // hair
- Go to a museum // aquarium
- Go see an IMAX (3D & big movie)
- Dress up in funky outfits
- Take pictures
- Rent lots of movies
- Call guys
- Invite guys over if you know them!
- Dance in the rain =)
- Get your friends to help redecorate your room
- Make funny videos if you have a video camera
- Bake or Cook

Dont worry, you'll think of more stuff as the day goes by. Be creative ! Im going to the mall today ; haha.
♥ MichL

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