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Hello everyone. My name is Marissa Sage. Many call me by one of my many nicknames; Ritz, Rissy, Rissa, or Miss Sage.

I am 18 years old and I live in the state of New Jersey. Many of you might know it as the harborer for Great Adventure, the amusement park. For those that don't live in the U.S. it is one of the 50 states.

My education is mostly different from those my age. I am an early graduate of highschool. There is a program called Jump Start that allows us to graduate early and attend a community college not to far from my house. We are allowed to take 3 college credit courses that will be transfered to a university or the college of our liking. That of course will not happen until after two years of completing the required classes.

As for my major I am still trying to decide which path I wish to take whether it have to do with writing or another interest of mine. In any case I am poetic. I not only put words on the paper, I illuminate the page with the essence of my thoughts. A picture will evolve with just a few strokes from my pen. The words will have a life of their own. The rhythm of my words, flow as the streams of the mountains which drain toward the pool of dreams. Easily my emotions leak from my pen onto the blank pages, projecting the inner sight of my soul. The enthreal world, I enter, to capture the purity and truth. Eternally will the universe listen, with or without you.

I have a boyfriend, Alex, whom I care very much about. He is a musician, a bass player. Being with him is all that I really need, he has made so many drastic changes in my life. For that I am thankful. March 17, 2005 marked 2 years for us. Many of my friends are envious of the love that we share. Though we have learned not to let anyone come between us.

Thus, comes the end of my tale. If this is anything you want to talk about I will always be around to listen. I am glad that I could express myself, hopefully everyone will read it. Sorry if I made it so long.

Yours Truly,

Marissa Sage

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well my friend that i liked this year asked if i was coming to school the last day of school ...i said that there was no point becasue we get there at 8:00 and leave at 9:30 and were only going to be allowed in are first hour class and watch a movie ..he said that it would be my last time for me to see him and that he wanted to see me.i like him alot ..i was gonna kiss him but i think that would be to werid wat can i do ?! please help me

Maybe there is no point in going but maybe in this case school is not the point. It seems like he likes you since he wants to see you. I say go to school and see what happens. I hope I helped, good luck hun.

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ok.. i have this best friend.. he means like the world to me.. i love him soo much.. but as a friend.. not as a stocker obsessed way.. and i always talk to him.. and my friend.. like LOVES him.. like she wants to go out with him.. and whenever im with him.. she always gets mad.. so what do i do.. shes my best friend.. do i leave him alone.. or do i stay friends with him.. just never talk to him?? do i stay friends with him.. and risk loosing my best friend?

signed congused GIRL

Before completley loosing touch with him try talking to your best friend, explain to her that the feelings you have toward him are not those of love. Tell her that the situation she is putting you in is driving you nuts. Hopefully after you talk to her she will drop the subject. I hope this helps, good luck hun.

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Me and my friend have been friends since Kindergarden. (currently in 8th grade) And in 7th grade this girl moved here and we've been friends ever since. But i try very hard to include both of them in all that i do.. and not ignore them. But then when she was in 5th grade here and this other girl became friends and ever since and it seems like i'm always being ignored by her. I understand that she has to have other friends and stuff but i feel like i should be indluded in some of the stuff she does. like occasionally go to her house. and when i invite her to my house.. it always seems like something 'comes up' and she never gets to come.. either that or she already has plans with the other girl. I don't wanna break the friendship.. but i just don't know what to do.. Any suggestions?

Talk to your friend about it. Expain to her that you are feeling left out and although you know that it is probably not intentional you just wanted to bring it to her attention. I'm sure that when the two of you talk it out all will be well again. Good luck, hope this helps.

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15/f. My best friend has been ignoring me for the past week. Well, not exactly ignoring. She'll talk to me for maybe 3 minutes then go talk to someone else for a long time. I know it sounds like I'm jealous or something but I'm not. She always talks to her other friends and I was never jealous of that, because I have other friends I talk to too. But lately she's been acting like I'm not even there. Then one day this week I had some of her make-up (I don't know what it was exactly) and it came out of the pen looking thing it was in and I told her I was sorry and I didn't think it would come out and she got really mad and said "That was the last of that stuff I had! Now I have to go buy some freakin' more" etc, but that's not what started it because she started ignoring me before then. I don't get what I did to make her act like that towards me. I know no one else would know either, lol. But I just wanted to know what I could do/say to find out why she's been acting like this. Thanks. =) And no stupid or rude comments please.

The best way to find out what is wrong is to confront her one on one. Talk to her directly and ask her straight out what you've done to make her start acting this way to you. That one you can fix it if you indeed do something. I hope this helps, good luck.

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look,my best frriend just started dating my brother. I am upset b/c she tell's my brother anything I tell her and she yells at me jumps to defence and is acting like she hates me what should I do

Talk to her about it. Explain to her just because she is dating your brother does not give her the right to tell him everything you say because when she tells him it gets back to you from him. Ask her why is it that as soon as she started dating your brother your friendship changed. Hopefully this will help, Good luck.

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So my good friend got a job at this place where each summer performers come and perform their music and stuff, like a concert everyday. And I kind of want to work there too. But I kind of like this friend of mine. If I got a job there, would he be all like, it's just because he's working there and stuff? WE used to be really good friends, but now we haven't spoke much to each other. What should i do? I mean i could get a job somewhere else. thanks

If it's a job that you really want then go for it. If he questions you just tell him that you are allowed to have the same interests as he is. Good luck hun.

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Ive got 3 groups, and I dont know which one to hang out with...I dont want to reject any of them. 2 of the groups have only girls in it, and the other has 3 guys and 5 girls. I kind of want a group with guys in it, but i dont want to tell my other friends, because they'll think im crazy.
And if I ask them to all hang out together, they wont want to, because Sarah (one of my friends) and 2 other friends, dont like one of my friends from the other group. And 3 other friends, dont like Sarah, because they think she's too much attention. Im in a bad situaton! I dont want to diss anyone, and i dont want anyone to hate me!
Help!

Alternate between groups so that no one feels left out. For instance, hang out with one group one day and the other group the next day.

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how do you know if a girl is lying to you like when you ask them out and they say something. How do you know if they are telling the truth or lying to make you feel better??

You can tell when they are lying, usually they look down, bite their lip or do something that you can catch onto quickly. If you want the truth just ask them to be straight forward with you and not to sugarcoat anything.

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so u might have remembered me bcuz i asked about the girl who i called "summer".

now she knows we all hate her and shes acting all innocent! and shes totally not and it really bugs me. shes mean and talks about everyone behind there back. and now shes all goody-goody bcuz we all hate her. i mean WHAT THE ****!! and today she goes "why does everyone hate me?" and i just shook my head and walked off. i mean is she really that stupid? please help!

i also rate *high*!

There are two solutions to dealing with people like this, one is to just not come in contact with them anymore, ignore them everytime they approach you. The second one is to confront her and tell her straight out what her problem is and see if she'll correct it.

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