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Q: Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever

Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?

Thanks a bunch

y don't u try and hang out wit him more and c if he is someone u would wanna go out wit or just b good friends cuz u never know u might really like each other. *hope i helped some* *STEPHANIE*

Q: Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??

Signed NEED HELP FAST!

you should tell him if u feel comfortable wit tellin him and what will it hurt 2 tell him u like him. if nething he might like u and then u could b more and both b happy and he might have been wanting 2 say it 2 hehe hope i helped *STEPHANIE*

Q: my friend whose a girl and 14 told me a few days ago that she cutts. i was devistated wen i heard this. i asked her wat in the world wud make u so miserable as 2 kill urself? and she sed that her family was messed up and that shes ben feeling really depressed. i told her 2 think bout wat life will bring her in the future. youll have kids a husband a job and a happy life. i dont think it convinced her. wat should i do?

awww that is terrible. u just need 2 tell her that it isn't worth and look up clinics or support groups for teen in ur area that she can go 2 and mayb u could somehow get her 2 go and even tho u don't cut mayb u could go wit her just for the support and tell her u r there 2 talk 2 about ne problems and if she needs nething that u would b there for her. *STEPHANIE*

Q: the only way i can get a cell phone is if i pay for it, and i was just wondering how many ppl felt that it would be worth it?

yea, i think it is worth it cuz if u have ppl that would call u alot then u don't have 2 worry about parent/family always on the line or listenin in on the conv lol *STEPHANIE* *X*O*X*O*

Q: uhh yeah.. i have another question...how can u tell if your best friend really wants to hang out with you or talk to you? Lately, my friend has been kinda acting like i don't matter to her at all. She doesn't really talk to me, and she always puts stuff in her away message like.."jenn, nathin, and alli in a chat room, what could be better?" and it gets me mad...it seems like she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore or sumthin....i... i need help.. im confused

I know how u feel. u should just talk 2 her about it one day and just put it right out there " it seems like u don't really wanna talk 2 me or hang out wit me that much nemore whats the deal?" and c what she says and keep askin her question like that but not 2 many cuz she may get mad. hope i helped *STEPHANIE* :)

Q: Me and this girl are good friends when she first cam to my school she told us but she was pregnant and i was like ok but then all the other kids stoped beliving her because lets face it she didnt look or act pregnant and I stuck up for her and all but it did seem kinda suspicious when she had the baby while we were all taking our regents then she was back to take the next regents the next day ? how quickly can a 15 year old bounce back from something like that? . its not that i dont want to belive her because shes a sweet girl and aLL i think she just wants attention but thats a little extreme. now i feel bad because no one bleived her and shes kinda isolated im still nice to her but no one will listen to me and just forgive her. what should i do??

it normally takes like 3 or 4 days 2 start feelin good after givin birth and expectally at that age i won't believe her either but i would still b friends wit her and did she keep the baby cuz that way u would b able 2 c it and if not then she may b liein but i hope things work out wit u and her but i honestly don't think she would have had the strength 2 go 2 school or whatever it was the next day! *STEPHANIE* :)

Q: Hi well i need ur advice!!! I just wanted to become friends with this guy I just met and when I went to talk to him , he just looked at me and then looked at his friends then looked at me again and started to cuse me ou t like heck , Please help me , it hurts bad!!!

well i won't even waste my time on him if he is gona b like that u can find better guys then that cuz he wouldn't b a true friend. as much as u wanna b friends wit him i think it would b better not 2 cuz he seems like he would b really rude if he does that when ever u try and talk 2 him *STEPHANIE*:)

Q: ok well these girls i dont no keep instant messangeing me sayin that im fat and ugly because they saw a picture of me on my profile and they say all these mean things to me and im not the kind of girl who can take stuff like that and everyone tells me oh dont worry about them ur pretty and all that but i cant just ignore them they go to my school now too

someone please help me figure out something to do

try not 2 let them bother u that much and maybe take the picture off ur profile. i have people say i am ugly and stuff 2 and it hurts i know how u feel. and everyone says just don't worry about it when u really can't cuz it was already said and it hurts and u can't really forget it. but i would say take the picture down for starters and just keep ur head up and find friends that will b there for u that u can talk 2 cuz that always helps :) i hope i helped and u can ask me ne ? u have ne time *STEPHANIE*

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hey everyone even tho i am only 17 I have been and gone through alot so I might be able to relate to your problems or atleast i can try my hardest to help you. So feel free to ask me any questions you might have or IM me if u want thanks *STEPHANIE* *x*o*x*o*