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ok so my friend sabrina is coming to sleepover either 2morrow or the next day. (she lives a few towns away from me) when she comes over sometimes i cant think of anything to do. we're both preteens so i need some ideas of what to do! please can u guys tell some fun games, or what should we talk about? keep in mind we cant go driving all over the state to do stuff, but we might be going to the mall, and pool, but mostly staying home. also keep in mind we arent babies so dont say like hide n seek or truth or dare. thanks and i rate high for any helpful answer!

You can do prank phone calls and gossip about shit and talk about boys----I don't know, I'm 13/f but i have like no friends---otherwise good luck.


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18f
situation: my best guy friend has invited me up to his farm to go horseriding... i will have to sleep over there.

Problem: last time i went to his place we got totally blind and ended up making out. he got my top off before i came to my senses and stopped.(it went no further) i told him that i thought it was wrong and i didn't want to ruin our friendship. he said that it was okay and we worked through it and saved our friendship. i know he still likes me - he told me so - but i dont like him. i told him that i would only go if he behaves himself. he said "i wont do anything, dont worry." but i'm not sure.

question: do you think he is being honest? he has tried to kiss me since 'the incident' but i backed off and he apologized. i said i'd go... should i try back out? or just go to his place?

Girl, I don't think he is being honest, and he is trying to make another move on you, so beware. You can go horseback riding with him, but don't let him do anything. Tell him if he does, then you can't trust him as a friend. Hope I helped. $$$Babii D$$$

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hi ive got this friend and shes usin our group of friends. like one minute she would be with us, the next she would be with these other people and then she would go onto another set of people. we've all told her but she wont listen!
wat should our group of friends do?

Girl, I think that you should just ignore her and if she still hangs around and dosn't get the point, then curse that bitch out or something!!!!!Tell her to get some new friends.
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I dont know if this is the right cateorgory but w/e. Ok well let me put it this way my classmates most of them are jerks. Well see the thin is i am smart like really smart and my classmates make fun of me for it because i get all 100% on my tests and quizzes. and they also hate the fact that when we have a huge test and we have to write stuff down i dont take notes because i rember it all and then i get higher grades then the people that wrote it all down. so i guess what i am asking is how can i get my class to stop annoying and makin fun of me because i am so smart.

First of all, don't ever let anyone tell you that being smart is a bad thing. It is a gift from God, just like any talent in the world. Don't be ashamed!!! But if you want people to stop teasing you; than do something outrageous! Like throwing a desk into someone who messes with you cuz thats what I did and it. Just try to do something about it.
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You see my best friend has this boy bofreind right. And to me she is spending way more time with him then me. Thats the only person she talks about to. I have been her best friend since the 4th grade he just been her bf for a couple of months. What should I do?

Girl, tell your friend that she should start hanging out with you cuz best friends are forever, but boyfriends come and go. When she and him breakup, you might not be there for her like you are now. $$$Babii D$$$

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okay i keep haveing the smae problem with my friends. This one girl always takes the other ones side because she is like obesessed wiuth her and she doesnt want the girl to get mad at her and then i am left with no friends what do i do.

p.s. this happens about every week

Girl, I think you should sit them down and ask them why they act so grimy to you and if they continue, then get some real friends, cuz they obviously aren't real friends if they treat you like that!!!!Nobody deserves that from a "friend"!!!!!!!!1
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Ok so I have these 2 best friends, they are always soo clingly, they do everything together and i hate it!!! Like one day I came to school we were all cool and everything, the next day they were mad at me for no reason!! Then the next day I went to ask them what was wrong and the "leader" of the two (one of them follows her every move) said they were just kidding! I was so upset. They always talk about me behind my back too. They even tell me they call me abd names behind my back. I'm not even mean to them!!I'm not like jealous or anything it's just i'm the third wheel and i want things to go back to the way they were b4 all this drama... (middle school drama) and I really need help I am stuck and I have no clue what to do!! PLEASE HELP ME!! I need help fast!!!!(i rate high)
Thank you!!!

Girl, they might not be your real friends if they talk about you like that. that's horrible!! Tell them how you feel and if they don't straighten themselves out, leave their untrue lil a$$es behind and get you some real friends cuz u dont deserve that at all!!!!!
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my 2 best friends, lets call them mary && cindy.... mary and cindy are having like a sleepover tonight, and we just finished finals so its like a celebration. but all 3 of us are best friends and i`m like the 1 being left out and i`m rele kina pissed... i know we dont have to do EVERYTHING together, but i can`t help myself.. i`m pissed. is it rong to be mad??? Ox

Girl, it's ok to be mad because i would be mad too. The friends I used to have always left me out so i decided to make truer friends and i left the old ones out. and we hav'nt talked in like a year and a half---yea I regret it sometimes, but these people were madd grimy to me
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i'm a freshman in high school. so is my friend, kendra. she's dating a senior at our school. they have been dating since the day after christmas.. i talk to kendra almost day, and all she talks about is her boyfriend. my friends and i can't take her talking about him all the time - like them having sex, and all this other worthless crap. we want to talk to her, but we don't know what to say.. ya mind helpin?

Tell that girl that she's getting anoying and if she dosn't shut her mouth, then girl, get rude on her a$$ and tell her that you do not want to hear abouther sex life!!!!!
$$BabiiD$$$

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i've been hanging out with the druggies and gangstas at my school. my best friend which is none of those got mad at me because shes going to think im going to do drugs or change my style. i was always hanging out with the gangstas though so shes mostly worried about the druggies. she makes fun of some of my friends and i act like i dont like them but i really do. i dont want her worring about me and who i hang out with but its sorta hard. i've always been the one getting in trouble or bending the rules but shes never really seen that side of me because i act like a totally diff. person around her. what should i tell her so she can stop telling me who to hang out with? and make her stop talking about my friends???

thanx

Ok......first of all....Have you ever had a gangsta boy???? mmmmmmmmmmmmm....thats all I gotta say bout that. Yo I hang out wit tha gangstas in my school....shit...I AM one of them. I can't help it, the boys be lookin good, the girls be hatin', and almost every other social group is threatened by you (like the preps).I think you should tell your friend who you really are and she could join you, respect you, or drop that girl like its hot. You don't need no one to tell u what to do.
$$$Babii D$$$

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me and my friend have decided to get eachother presents. well, we are like best friends so i got her something special that took me a long time and trouble. it coct about $30 but she is my best friends, so she deserved it. today she said she would tell me what she got me if i told her wat i got. it turns out she got me a $3 key chain!!!!!! i smiled and said "thanks, can't wait to see it!" but inside i was screaming. she already knows what i am getting her so i can't return it and she said she was so excited it was a great gift. im mad, is that wrong? what should i do? i dpn't wanna hurt her feelings but c'mon! please help, i rate high.

Girl, I think that you should return the gift for reel cuz if your girl is gonna play you like that, then that's not right at all. My best friend gave me this necklace that I thought was really nice, but later i saw the price tag was on it!!! It was $3.99!!I got so maddddd because i went to the mall and bought her a nice bath and body works set for $22.00. But if I had'nt already gave it to her, I would've returned it or kept it cuz that's not right.

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I have this friend and she is really nice on weekend
But when we have school she id do mean to me and using bad words. She sometimes can be nice but not
all the time. Help me


Rachel

That dosn't sound like a real friend to me at all. Girl, do you think that her friendship is worth it if shes mean to you 70 percent of the time? (100 (percent of the time) divided by 7 (days in a week) is about 14, then 14 times 5 (because she is mean 5 days a week)= an estimated balance of 70%. Thats definetly not good. So talk to her about it. And if she don't listen, drop that bi**h like a rock---she's not 4 reel.

$$$Babii D$$$

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I have this friend and her birthday is in a couple of days. We are trying to figure out sumthin ReaL CrAzY and alot of fun to do, but we cant think of anything-- ANY sugestions?!!?

haha well you could always do the old bra-in-tha-freezer thing
or
If you eat pizza, leave it out for a while, then when it gets all crusty and shit, put green food coloring on it------trust me it works. it looks like real mold. Then put it on one of your neighbors doorsteps..and wait.......If you're really bold, put it on your doorstep----and then people will have to tell u theres a nasty piece of pizza at your door!!!!!!!!

Hope it works 4 u it worked 4 me

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