Yo, wazzup. My name is Matt, I am no longer single, but i shall talk to any one taht still wants to, anyways, I have experienced many things and i am quite knowledgable. I do not judge any one, if you ask me for advice i shall simply give it to you.
Ive taken a look at the categories they have, im pretty good with all of them, minus the stuff that would have to do with adults, so even though my fav category isnt wat your asking doesnt mean i wont answere.
So i guess if ya gots a Problem, jus tell me bout it and ill do the best i can! :-)
P.S. in the pic im the white kid, greg is like my best friend.
E-mail: Anubis989_4life@hotmail.com
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what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do? (link)
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well you sound right bout like my ex gf karen, to stop urself from "feeling" liek doing these things is kinda hard. best thing you can do or that helps me is listen to music that isnt depressing. like something fast, heavy, hard, and up beat.
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alright well i had this one friend in the beginnin of our school year n we like considered eachother best friends and stuff. but we grew apart or whatever and she told people she didnt like me because someone told her stuff that wasnt true. i mean we used to have a good friendship and all she was such a great girl but its weird being around her now because we talk and stuff but not like friends do. but we have mutual friends so we gotta get along, but i kinda miss laughing with her and our inside jokes.. got any advice???
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try talking to her in private about, find out wat the hell happened. tell her to not belive stupid ppls rumours. its always a bad thing to loos a good friendship.
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ok my old friends from my jr high were all DRAMA.. especially this chick erynne. well i was so used to the drama thing that i didnt even realize people( like my new friends) could be so laid back. i dont really talk to that many peeps from my jr high. but then again most of them dont make an effort to talk to me nemore, when i used to always be the 1st person they called on the weekends. now they always act like they r mad at me so i just decided to find new friends. should i ask them if they r mad at me for sumthing or just forget them..??
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well i would try and see if you can salvage a friendship with them just in case. but its also a good idea to keep on trying to make as many friends as possible.
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I used to be popular with a lot of friends but now I gave all that up about a year ago cuz the people were so stuck up. And now I have like no freinds....I dont even know if I have one and I have a boyfriend who I love soooooo much and weve been together for 7 months and I wish i had some real friends tho.... I am so fed up with the people in my school tho and I think I want to meet people outside of school I just want to make friends who I dont know yet....I want to start over.... what do i do?....should I stop being "friends" with the people Im sick of? i have been so stressed out lately and I dont know what to do about my depression! (link)
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try goin out intot he public alot more often. be brave and talk to ppl you have never talked to be for. you shouldnt sit there and try to deal with the ppl that your sick of.
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alright well i was best friends w/ this one chic like really close we couldnt be seperated but then she moved like a few cities away. for a while it was no big deal in fact for about a yr and a half we still hung out and everything but then she started getting into drugs and hanging out w/ the wrong type of people u kno so we kinda ended up drifting apart. she still lives close enough that we go to the same mall so occasionally i or some of my friends would see her there. and whenever i saw her she would be all happy to see me and nice and stuff but everytime another friend sees her they tell me she talks crap about me. i recently got her AIM sn and we talk online and shes kool but im not sure i wanna let her back in my life (link)
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if oyu dont want her to be back in ur life then dont let her. some ppl just go there seperate ways. it is how it happens some times
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i just got into a fight with my best friend and i know i am wrong but write at the same time and then my best friend told me our other friend said goodbye forever meaning killed herself and i just dont know how to deal with any of this i know my best friend will read this becuase she is a collumnist on here but can anyone help me please?
~*~ Rachael ~*~ (link)
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..........jeevus...
that is not good.
um unfortuantly there isnt much you can do.
ok, any one who tells ppl or gives enough evidence of them possibly killing themselves arent actually gonna do it. if some one REALLY intended to kill themselves they would do it, with out tellin anyone so no one could stop them.
If im late answering this Q then i give my sincerist apologies.
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hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do?? (link)
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well, if the stuff she asks you to do is bad or makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, then dont do it. just be the best friend you can be for the time being. these things usually sort themselves out. but if it doesnt, stay true to your self, no matter what.
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hey ok im 14 and um female... n e ways... my best friend and i have been friends since 1st grade and we have litterally been thro EVERYTHING together. im the type of person who will give u room to grow and branch out but be there for u when u decide to come back. and thats kinda how its been w/ me and her. no big right... well i am also very well known for my apt ability to give advice and stuff. i have helped my friend out of nearly every problem shes ever had and i have no problem w/ this but she freaks out and suspects things of me if i dont have the perfect advice right away. like if im dealing w/ something else and i come back to her she freaks or if i am shocked and momentarily dont know what to say she thinks i dont care... what do i do?! (link)
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well, you need to let ur friend know that you have a life as well and you cant always be there.
as far as the part were she thinks you dont care, well that is mostly her problem. you guys have been friends for a very long time and you havent done anything wrong and just because you cant answere a Q right away doesnt mean you dont care.
really you just need to sit down have a talk with her.
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