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hi :) 14/f. sorry if its long, but please helpp! okay so i have two best friends, one is a guy and one is a girl. lets call him peter and her jessica. ive been friends with peter since i was like 3 and ive gone to school with him all middle school. this year were going to different highschools because he is going to an all boys school.. but we still see eachother alot. jessica is someone i met at camp like 3 years ago and we live about 20 minutes away. but we hang out so much, you would never guess that we live that far. anyway, one day they both came over and met and they started liking eachother. they hung out a few times with me there (like 6 times in two months) and then he finally asked her out. she realllllly likes him and stuff and he reallly liked her. but now, they dont see eachother a lot and he isnt sure how its going to work with them living so far away. he called me and told me that he wanted to break up with her because his feelings for her werent that strong anymore. but then he asked me not to tell her. but i feel that i should because she is my best friend and i know she is gonna be hurt. if i tell her, then i will lie to peter cuz i told him i didnt. but if she finds out that i knew before he did it, then she will be like mad. i know i would if she didnt tell me. can anyone help me please? im like torn and i really dont know what to do!! :( (link)
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hey you aren't doing anything wrong; peter should have told jessica what he told you but obviously he's too shy to tell her. that does not mean its up to you to break up with her for him. just stay out of it for now and if you want let peter know that he should tell jessica because if he doesnt tell her hes being dishonest to her by not telling her how he feels and hes putting you in the middle of this. hope i could help if you need anything else drop one in my inbox!!!
love always
xoxo amanda
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Okay so i just moved to another state and left behind 6 of my best friends. I havent met any friends yet because school hasnt started so im really lonely because im used to ALWAYS being with my friends. I talk to my friends on the computer and phone and thats great but for some reason i still get really jealous and feel left out when they hang out. i mean i shouldnt fel left out cause not like they can invite me! what can i do to not feel so depressed????
Thanks,
Lonely Lady. (link)
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hey its hard to meet new people in the middle of summer, especially when you are new. if you have any neighbors who look your age, and if you happen to see them around, start to become friends by talking about school and other stuff. if you dont have any neighbiors a great idea is to stay tight with your 6 friends from your old city until school starts in a month and then just wait until then to make new friends since it might be hard to start over in the friends department when you can't join any activities or meet people. if you need anything else just drop one in my inbox. hope i could help & good luck!!
love always
xoxo amanda
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im going in to my sophmore year and we got our schedules yesterday. last year i got in a big fight w/ one of my best guy friends, he blocked me on aim and swore hed never speak to me again (the fight was over something stupid that makes absolutely no sense so im not really mad at him) anyways, i was talking to some of my friends and they told me that hes in my chemestry class. what do i do? i have about 3 other friends that i kno of in that class so its not like ill be forced to speak to him but do you think i should say anything to him? or just let him stay mad at me. i hate that we arent talking weve known each other since 6th grade! thanks so much (link)
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hey i think that since the fight has sort of blown over by now since a year has gone by, it's okay to talk to him again and he probably won't even remember why he was mad. it might be a good idea to talk to him in class because then it won't be totally random. just talk to him like you are talking to someone new and ask him a question about chem or something. then if he doesn't act mad at you, it's probably okay to go on a different aim screen name and see if you two are okay. i had a fight with my friend on aim and i waited a long time to talk to her and one random day like a year later, i went on my old screen name that she hadn't blocked me on and randomly asked her if we were okay. your guy friend will probably be mad at you at FIRST, but the little convo you guys share in chem will make it a little less awkward because he will realize that you are willing to forget the past and he will too. if you need any more help just drop one in my inbox! hope i could help you and good luck!
love always
xoxo amanda
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so my friend and me were going to hang out tonight..and we had talked about this lastnight and we were planning on having a sleep over but now her and another friend are doing something n havin a sleepover..but arent including me..what should i do? (link)
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hey it really bothers me when people do that. so don't let it get swept under the rug: call her asap and explain that she really hurt your feelings when she canceled the plans you had once she got a better offer. either that or confront her with your feelings so that she knows you are pretty upset about it. hope i could help & good luck!
love always
xoxo amanda
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