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Q: my friedns boyfriedn is mean to me but i dont know what to do. HELP ME!!!!!!! :-(

thanks alyssa,
love mary

lol mary...tell ur friend to tell him to be nice to you and you gotta stop MAKING him be scared of you...lol..hope i helped !! luv ya tons mary! :)

Q: Ok..My friend Max brought this friend with him to my house and like to where we work and everything and like my and his friend, MarC, had a connection you know like I'd known him my WHOLE life and like we were best friends or something and like at the end of the summer he has to go back home to GA and i live in NC and im worried that ill never see him again or talk to him or nething is there anything i can do to like keep in touch since it would be too far to call all the time and im not sure if he has a computer?!?

I rate HIGH!

send letters and go and visit him with your other friend sometime...

Q: I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?

rate high

just dont tell any1 ur secrets. keep them to urself. i wouldnt trust her but thats my opinion

Q: hey guys...im really scared!! ok...i used to be really good friends with this guy and then we didnt really talk for a while, and in the past few months we have been talking alot and become really close again, well about 45 minutes ago i found out that his dad killed himself...what do i say to him? i mean HE doesnt even know yet...his mom called me before she told him...i used to be pretty close to his dad too...he didnt seem the type to do something like that...i have been crying my eyes out since i found out and when this guy does find out, what do i say to him? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wen he finds out try to help him feel better. calm him down and tell him nice things. he will eventually get over it but until he does..help him thru it. it'll be the best for him if a real good friend helps him feel better..like u

Q: My cousin julie is coming over in a few weeks and we are planing on having, well lets say fun. I have allready had fun, but i want my friends to do it. Alex is def. coming to try it, and i really want krissy to come, but i also want ina to come try it. Ina usually tells her cousin everything, and krissy dosnt want he cousin knowing about this. so krissy said if ina gos, she wont. SO i dont know if i should let just krissy go, or just ina go...Krissy said its fine if i let ina go and not her, but im going to feel bad... please help me choose which one i should choose. XOXO thanks!
-Rachel

i think you should invite whoever you like better.

Q: I am good friends with this girl ( I'll call her Hariet) and she's like my best friends. but i have a huge delema with her. she keeps asking me if i like anybody, or if i used to, and i DID used to, but if i tell her, im afraid she'll make fun of me. Should i tell her, tell her i didnt used to like anybody, or, well.... I DONT KNOW! PLEASE HELP ME!

Sincerely,
Ponelope Talk-a-lot

just tell you u dont like anybody then she'll stop bugging the crap outta u

Q: There are these two boys and they came to live with us they are getting on my nerves hitting my sister yelling in the house and being mean to the animals I need some help any one that answers this question I will give you a five please help me

talk to your parents about it. and have them lay down some rules. make sure they can't get to the animals and tell your sister to stand up for herself and your parents should definetly punish them big time.

Q: OK, brace your self, a while ago this guy trent ased me out and he was 2 years older. I said know cus i just got out of a bad relation ship. Now hes reallllly good friends with one of my good friends James. James is going out with alexa and trent is going out with alexas friend ashlyn. well me ash and alexa are all 14 ( im not good friends woth them) and james and trent just turned 16. WELL ANY WAY... I have these to other real good friends Morie (girl) and briana. and one day we (james trent bri morie me) were all hangin out at night and out of absoluty no where briana goes Oh My Gosh I LIKE TRENT!!! ...ALOT!!!! A WHOLE LOT!!!!! .. I WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH HIM!!! and i was all confused , she suddenly likes this guy and just goes to atempt to make out with him (BTW bri just turned 13 last week) Well after she triend to and failed at making out with him she told MOrie to do it. Morie said she didnt want to chus this was the first night she ever met him. well bri said if she didnt so wuold kill herself ( she "cuts") so morie talked to trent about it ( mo turned 12 last month) and they went in the back and made out. well over the night trent began to really like her. They made out like 5 time and he followed her EVERY WHERE!! and they flirted alll night. SO me and james were like "trent arnt you going out with ashlyn???" He said " im taking a break" But later ashlyn called james saying "trent isnt anserwing his fone if u see him tell him to call." James asked if they were still going out and ashlyn said yes. So trent is baisicly cheating on her with morie, but Mo and trent arnt actually going out cus mo likes his little brother(14) who likes Alexas cusin mandy and also because trent is almost 5 years older then morie. And latly he is flirting a lot with me to and i keep telling him hes taken and i dont mess with taken guys. but i do like him a little. And I am just soooo lost! what do i do, what should MO do, Should we tell aslyn, or what should we tell trent... or just help!!

sorry its so long. If you actually read this and anserwed you get an auto 5 ( unless your response just SUCKED!)

ok i think that u shouldnt try to get into the middle of his life. just let him be and if ashlyn finds out then just pretend liike you didnt know. Try talking to mo and see if you can convince her to stop making out with him because its mean to do to ashlyn. Also try talking to trent and telling him that ashlyn still thinks they're going out. c wat he says. Just do whatever you can to try and fix the situation.