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I just got back from a two 1/2 week vacation to california. Me and my best friend hung out so much before I left. When I got home I called her immeaditly and she was like Hi. I told her i wus home and i missed her and she said Uh-Huh. *not in a sarcastic way* Shes busy hangin out with all of her other friends right now, i dont mind that she hangs out with them, but Ive been home for a week and she never calls me or anything and she didnt act like she cared I came home! Whats going on?

Hey! This normal for a friend to do. You haven't been there when they needed to call you or whatever so they feel like you might talk too much about your vacation and they can't talk to you so whatever you do, don't talk about your trip, at least not too much. Be like, "I had a great time but i really missed you." That way they can ask you questions if they want, if not, drop the subject. Invite them over, don't talk over the phone cause then it looks like they aren't good enough to be seen in person. Hope this helps!!

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Ive got 2 groups. One of them has the guy that I like ALOT. I want to hang out with that group, but I dont want to diss the other group. And if I tell that group that I want to hang out with that guy, she will think im crazy or something. I dont want to diss that group. How can I tell them I want to hang out with the other group without them feeling ditched?
Thanx so much.

~Ana~

Why don't you tell one group when u can hang with them and then tell the other group when you can be with them. That way you will have a shared amount of time with both groups.

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I have been friends with a guy for 2 years and we have had little crushes on each other, well FINALLY! he asked me out and i was totally all for it until i woke up the next morning and went to church and saw him.It was so awkward betwee us and we finally broke up after a DAY!! we both had had second thoughts and promiced to still be friends, but the thing is we're not acting like we did before we dated and it realy upsets me ALOT!! I'm acting like i did before but he is making me feel funny like nothing will ever be the same ever again and i don't want that to happen becuase we have such a good friendship and i don't want to lose that be i cherish it alot! Help what o i do!!1

Hey! don't give up on this guy! Talk to him and ask him to go out for a movie and hang out. it will amke you seem more like friends and you will get to know eachother better. I have a friend who dumps girls after like 2 days and they are still friends afterwards, they just aren't dating.

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