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I am 16 years old and I just got this new boyfriend. He is super nice and a really talented musician. I dont find him physically attractive at all actually. But his personality, humour, and talent make up for it. I like him, I really do. But I feel really akward being around him when it is just the two of us. I am trying to cope with it but it doesnt seem to be working. I dont want to break up with him because people are telling me that he really likes me. They tell me that me going out with him is the best thing ever for him because he is sobering up. He used to be into drugs and alcohol and smoking but now that he is going out with me...he has stopped doing all of that. I like how much he has changed but I still feel akward being with him. I dont want to break up with him! Is there anything else I can do? If so then please help me. I would really appriciate it. Thx in advance. (link)
Breaking up with him is the right thing to do. It isn't fair for you to stay in the relationship if you aren't truly happy. Talk with him and explain how you feel and maybe you two could be good friends afterward and you can help him stay on the right track. Hope this helps and remember it takes time to heal so if he needs a little time after you two talk try to understand.


so we have this powerpoint project in my computer class. where its like a powerpoint of our life. with pictures and stuff. i was wondering if yall knew and good ( CLEAN ) songs for it. there are slides on it for like family, baby me, child me, friends, sports, future plans, sooo if yall know anything for that, i would really appreciate your input. thanks. (link)
these are the special times by christina aguilera.
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my best friend is moving . we go to a private school but it was really hard for her single dad to pay, and he just got a job somewhere 45 minutes away. our head of school loves my best friend and really wants her to stay because our school is small and shes a really good student and athlete. anyways she can't get enough financial aid. It's not entirely final and i'm just wondering what i can possibly do. I would be entirely devestated, absolutely miserable if she left, we are really close and I don't have many other close friends at school. what should i do, I have no idea how to cope, i'm so upset. please help (link)
Try starting a fundraiser. Get all your friends together and think of crazy ideas on how to raise money.

But if the worst happens and your best friend does have to move throw her the biggest going away party and vow to hang out once a week or when possible and to call each other at least once a week to stay up to date in each others lives.

As for coping with her leaving try to make new friends at your school meeting new people or getting closer to other friends will keep your mind off your sadness and staying busy should help too.

hope that helps.
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