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OK i have a friend. She is really nice and we met when we were really little. We used to be like the best of best friends. I moved to a schoo, in a diff city for 3 years and she stayed here. Now we moved back and we are still friends. We go to the same school, we in the same grade and we get along. So on somedays we couldn't be closer and everything is great, but the next day she is ignoring me like I hurt her feelings or something. She sits beside me in this one class and she'll turn away and talk to naother one of our friends and won't say a WORD to me. Then I'll ask her what's wrong and she will be like nothing. And continue with what she was doing. Today was one of those days.
WHAT DO I DO???






this may sound mean... but to make her jealous: talk to other people like all the time in front of her. ignore her and make her jealous. she'll be crawling back in no time.

xox- amber

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Hey so I have a boyfriend and hes really hot but I like him cause I like his personality. So my friend Allie kept on telling him to dump me and go out with her. She already has a boyfriend and I told him and we are both really pissed at her and we dont know what to do. Should I just ignore the fact that shes trying to steal my boyfriend or something else?

Thanks xo0ox

definitely don't ignore she is being a B**** and she is DEFINITELY not ur true friend. You, your boyfriend, and her boyfriend should play an evil trick on her... like him "dumping" you (but not for real) and "going out" with her (again not for real). Then like two days later or something he'll tell her shes fat and can't go out with her. haha mean i know..

or just talk to her and tell her you hate it that she does that... and it makes you want to stop being her friend.

xo-amber

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I moved here in 6th grade and I've always wanted to be popular...So I tried hanging with the white popular people and it seriously was HARD work!! Each year, things got better..and now I'm at that point where we'd be better friends if I'd invite them over (I haven't invited them over yet because I'm embaress that they will say that my house is small compared to theres..or that they will make fun of my lifestyle..and everything) I'm now in 11th grade..and I really want to be friends with these people..I don't think I can keep a close relationship with them if I never invite them over...I'm just very embaressed of the way I live...Compared to them, I'm so much uglier and poorer..and they're rich...Please don't judge..Thanks

wow, I think that these people are not you're friends if they won't like you because you're not "rich" friends are supposed to accept you for who you are... this does not sound like what they're doing. Just be yourself around them, invite them over, show them the good qualities of your "small" house... If they still like you... GOOD! Then maybe you can really start to be friends, if not, their loss! and you should find friends who can accept you for who you are!

xoxo-Amber-

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i went shoppin with my friend the other day and we kept running into my dad there and everytime my dad would ask me a question shed answer for me. well a little later my dad got rly annoyed and raised his voice at her and told her off for doing that. i got a little pissed because he had a point but i didnt like the way he was talking to her. so i told him to not yell at her because shes not his kid and he took her home just because i said that. then later he told me how my friend is a liar and she bossed me around and she takes advantage of me and all this shit. i kind of agreed with him on some parts but some of the other things she said was totally out of line. now i dont know what to beleive because my dad got me all confused. is it fair what he said and am i being bossed around? ill rate high because this is so long. thnx

i think that maybe ur dad over reacted a bit, but he's probly rite... he probly knows best and can see what ur friends doin.... i think the rest of the problem is in ur hands. Maybe u shud take what ur dad said into consideration and talk to ur friend about what u think!

hope i helped!

xoxo *mwah* - Amber

ps- also u were probly embarassed about what ur dad did, so maybe u shud apoligize to ur friend for what he did..

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my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do?

Tell a trusted person now!!!!!! This is SO serious and cannot b left alone. even if u think they might b mad.... would u rather.... them b mad @ u or them die?

Hope I Helped!!!
xoxo *mwah* -- Amber

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ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!!

Ok, i was in a similar situation... this is what i did... they had been really rude and were ruining my life, so i talked to them about it. Then i gave them a second chance, but one blew and one didn't! So my advice:

1. Give them a second chance, forgive them, but don't forget what they did and watch out for replays of the past

2. If they blow their 2nd chance screw them they're losing the friend... find new friends... ignore them... but wait and watch... they'll probably want you back!

xoxo *mwah* - Amber

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