ask oneandonly345



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators




Website: myspace
E-mail: jay_knab@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
Member Since: October 30, 2004
Answers: 596
Last Update: February 14, 2007
Visitors: 31161

Main Categories:
Health
Fashion and Styles
Friendship
View All

Favorite Columnists
ThugGirl041790
hopeihelped
luv2swim109
ok,well this year im a 32A,first i want to ask,im 4"10, do you think 32A would be regular if im this short? (im 13) alsoo,about bathing suits....are there any bathing suits that enhance less-busty girls so i dont look compleatly akward in a bikini? acutally,what kind of bikini would be best for 32A girls? also where can i buy these? hah thanks...one more,(sorry) is it possible to go up a size within 5 months? thank you!! (link)
i'm rather small aswell, so i get some bathingsuits at victoria's secret (you've got to get them offline). they have a pushup built in .. but it looks very real. they're having a big sale on their suits from last year, and they are very cheap. so i'd check it out.

a way to go up in a cup size would be to eat a lot .. because boobs are made up of a % of fat. so work out, but then eat a lot.


i'd have to say... i think im very unique and i kinda like that about me..so i've decided i want to make shirts of my own,or send in deisgns and people can make then for me. few problemsss...

1) i cant draw at all
2) i dont have ANY idea how to make shirts...
3) theres a design on the shirt i had in mind...but i have no idea how to put that on the shirt (NOT something you sew on,i mean like really on the shirt)

so do you know,if theres ANY sites that will help me make a shirt design and help me learn how to make a shirt? also if you've made a shirt...is it hard? thank you (link)
when i want to make a shirt for myself or people i go here http://neighborhoodies.com/ndev/index.php?osCsid=1c1d42e28fcb0cef81231aa833e15702

they are really helpful!


hey justine. i go to bishop shannahan. do you have any tips on how to do hair? i usually leave mine down. and straighten it. but i wanted to try curling it but i can never get it right. and it looks bad straighened? do have any tips like how to part it and get it curly and such. thanks! (link)
you should try french braiding your hair and night, while it is wet, and let it dry over night.
put a little gel in it before you, or some one else, french braids it, then put some hair spray in it after wards. and in the morning it should be dry, if not blow dry it a little.
that usualy works.

if not, try curling it with an iron, loes curls. those are always cute.

just have fun with it.


what is the best color/ style of shirt to wear for picture day?
im a 16 year old girl and i have medium/light skin, kind of tan. i have hazel eyes. the background for the photo is a blueish color. what will make me look good? lol please help.

(link)
i wouldnt wearing anyhting with writing on it.. cause in a few year you'll be like wtf. or dont wear anything that's "in" now.. you know? like tye-dye.
plane color shirts or polors with cute jewlry looks really nice.

best of luck!


I just got some hair curlers. (The kind you're supposed to sleep on) I have no idea how to put them in, how long to keep them in, if my hairs wet/dry, etc. Help? (link)
you should do them when your hair is slightly wet. the smaller the curlers the tighter the curl will be. you can put some gel in your hair before you roll them up, and then wait for them to dry over night or blow dry them so they dry faster. when you take them out you can shake your hands through your hair to losen up the curls and then spray some hair spray in it to make the curls last.

fyi i would try it one day when you have nowhere important to go, they sometimes can be tricky.

best of luck! ♥


I am going to the beach and I was wondering what some cute but quick hairstyls would be can anyone help? (link)
during the day at the beach i wouldnt spend too much time on your hair. if your hair is naturally straight, i'd wear it straight. and if it's wavey, i'd wear it wavey.

quick and easy things :
-easy way to get it wavey i would wear it wavey a lot. that's what i do. when you're sleeping if you french braid your hair wet, then let it dry over night, you're hair will be wavey and cute.
-messy bun
-low side ponytail

but at night i'd either straighten it or curl it. depending on the humidity. very humid curly, not humid, straight.


sorry, you didnt really tell me what type of hair you had, so it was kind of hard to answer. best of luck, have fun! ♥


i get my hair cut on the 15th and i was looking for ideas. right now my hair comes about 4 inches past my shoulders and is brown with highlights in it. its parted to the side and has a few layers too. my hair is sort of thin and straight and i dont want it to be too short. any ideas? im always looking to change it up because i get bored w/ it being the exact same. thanks so much! (link)
i would keep the length, but get a lot of layers and then medium side sweep bangs.
with that hair cut you could part it down the middle with the side bands or down the side. and both look cute.

bestof luck ♥


I`m going to be asking this guy that I like out tomorrow or sometime soon, whenever I see him next. I want to look cute / sweet / pretty, you get what i mean. But I dont want to look to sluty or anything! what should i wear? p.s im pale so sometimes i dont like wearing skirts but i kno its summer so yeah..

any suggestions? (link)
i wouldnt go out and buy something that you'd never wear, cause that would just be weird. but i understand that you want to look cute for him.

if this was me, i would wear a cute form-fitting pair of jeans and a low-cut tank or a babydoll shirt with cute bright jewelry and a pair of flip flops.

also, since it's summer go light on the make up and if you can do wavey or curley hair .. most guys thinks curley hair is sexy, and it's more summer'ish.

also, smell cute .. like good perfume =]

best of luck! ♥


i am very fair skinned and so i do not tan naturally- i burn. well i've tried lots of different sunless tanning products in sprays, lotions, and foams in all the brands pretty much and i can't ever seem to accomplish an even tan. are there any tricks? thanks! (link)
i'm very fair too, and those lotions just turn me orange. i tan in a tanning bed. i start in march then i stop when summer comes. but summer i am tan'ish and i'll tan in the sun. you might want to think about that for next summer.

but for now i would just use a high spf oil. and just reapply it a lot of your outside a lot and if you burn a little either put on a higher one or go inside for a while.

best of luck ♥


Ok, well i have medium length, kinda thin, layeredish,side bang, side parted, brown hair. I never really do anything with my hair. mainly i keep it down or i put it up. is there anything easy i can do? or is there any sites that i can find hairstyles on?

PLEASE HELP!!

kailyn (link)
you hair kind of sounds like mine. what i do is some nights after i take my shower i let my hair dry a little bit then i put some gel in it and i french braid it or have a family member help. then i sleep with the french briads in my hair and let it dry like that. then when i wake up i take them out and my hair is curly, and looks really cute.

seventeen has a lot of cute ideas:
http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/0,,,00.html

you can just look in mag. too!

&hearts'


Hey. My mom won't let me buy tanning oil because I'm fair, but my arms have a little tan. She says I will burn wayyy easy. I saw one with spf 15, but she still wouldn't let me get it. Are their any tanning oils with a higher spf than 15? If there are one's with higher spf , will it be the same as using sunscreen lotion? Thanks, i rate 5's (link)
if i were you i'd use just lotion for right now, with spf 15 or something to get a little tan. and half way through summer i would start to use oil. i have very fair skin as well. so i start tanning in a bed in March then by summer i am tan already. so i dont burn badly at all. it works very well. so maybe you can thank about that next summer.

so start off with the lotion then go to oil. or do lotion and oil. like use a spf 30 lotion and a oil with nothing in it. that's just an idea.



okay soo everyone knows that its summer. but i dont have any cute suits and the ones i like are like $90 bucks and i cant afford that. where can i get really cute suits for a affordable price?
thanks! (link)
target.

target has really cute ones and some are on sale. they are so adorable. ilove them.


I am 13/f and really want more noticeable eyes. how can i make them pop? what are some good products? thanx so much! (link)
i would use eyeliner, that makes eyes more noticable. i put it on my bottom lid and the inside of my top one, i used black. it's nice. you could also use color eye liner.
the more colorful, the more people are going to notice.
also use mascara. the bigger the eyelashes the more people are going to notice.

if you are going to use a lot of liner and mascara, i would do some basic eyeshadow, like a brown or gold.

just have fun with it!



i suck at styling my hair, i try curling it and it never works, what are some ways that i can make it actually stay ? (link)
after you get out of the shower let it sit for about 5 min. then put some strong hold gel in it and scrunch it. blow dry it half way, still doing to scrunching motion. then put more gel in it and scrunch it and blow dry it the rest.
it's best to do it before you sleep, do you can sleep on it and it'll go down some.

if you are talking about curling with an iron, do it in the morning or before you go out.
curl it in layers spraying it with hairspray as you go. when you are all done you should put another spray of strong hold hairspray through you head shaking it.

best of luck!


im graduating 8th grade this year and i need a dress. what are some stores that have pretty dresses for someone like me. like size-wise. and nothing too innapropriate. i dont kno what stores to look at! thanks ;] (link)
www.rampage.com
they have the cutest dresses.. ever.
they have a store where i live, im not sure about where you live. you could check online. but they are really cute.
Macy's is a good place too, they have a big selection when you go to a store
any department store really, they would be cheap and cute.

but i recomend rampage. im not sure how much you're will to spend though. but i love their dresses.


i wanan get extensions
but i heard they are very expensive, whats teh range?
and i would have to dye my hair for the right color right? (link)
they are pretty expensive.. anywhere from 75-200. depends on how much you want. and you dont have to dye your hair, if you go to a good salon they can find some to match your color, but those are also more pricey.

then there are 2 types (that i know of) one is that they weave it into your hair, and the other is that they straighten it, and the glue melts around your hair. the weaving one is more expensive.



Doe anyone kno any good hair styles for medium length hair, not fancy just every day look im tired of ponytails and just leavin it dwn boring. thanks (link)
you could wear it curly, or scrunch it, or buns, and straight. half up, half down, braids, and twists. there are a lot you can do. i look though hair mag. and i find cute things to do with my hair. also seventeen (the mag) has some cute hair ideas.

if your hair is one length, you could get layers, those make hair look really cute, or get bangs to change around your look!

good luck! ♥


Hey, Im 13 and a female. I would like to start tanning because I am very white/pale. She says that 13 is too young to start tanning and that I should wait until I am 16. I really dont think that I would be willing to wait until I am 16. I mean come on that is 3 years! Is there anything that I can say or do to make her agree. Please dont say you should wait till your 16. Ill rate high. Molly ♥ (link)
maybe you can talk to her about doing a spray on tan? they have some really good spary on tans.
or you can tell her that tanning beds are safe, if you wear the right cream. and it gives you a base coat so when you go out in the sun you dont burn as badly.

that's what i do. when im about to go on a trip i go to the beds and i tan, so i ahve a base coat and then when i get there i dont burn.

best of luck! ♥


well my hairs naturally wavy/curly so after I shower (at night) I usually scrunch it with some gel. But when I wake up, my hair flattens out and I lose my curls. I cant stand curling my hair and I was wondering if theres anything I can do to not make it flatten out or what to do in the mourning to fix it? thanks (link)
when you put the gel in it, blow dry it.
then in the morning put more gel, and blow dry it again.

that's what i do.
and it looks wonderful

good luck!


I am 17 years old and have had braces for the past 3 years. My teeth are no where near being fixed even though my ortho says that he'll have them off in 4 months (by Grad) but I doubt he will because they were supposed to be on for only 2 years. I had two teeth pulled out and the gap for the large part is gone but now my teeth are spread a little farther apart (you can't notice). I was also supposed to get my overbite fixed and that has only improved by 20% over the past few years.
So I need a little bit of advice on this:
1. Do guys care if a girl has braces? Please be honest on this. I want to know if this is a factor to support me taking my braces off.
2. So he hasn't been able to fix the gap in 3 years, will he able to do it in four months? What's the point in keeping them on for now if they won't be fixed by May anyway. My ortho doesn't act like it's a big deal, "Oh we'll have it done by Grad" but he doesn't understand that I spent the majority of my high school career in BRACES and that's not how I wanted to be remembered/remember myself.
3. So should I get them taken off? (link)
1) i dont think guys will mind, but all guys are different. but if a guy doest like you because you've got some metal in your mouth ..that's lame. and if he turns you down because you've got braces. he'll be running back to you when he sees your beautiful smile

2)Before i got mine on, i had a ton of gaps. and they didnt fix them for about a year. After a year tehy put a "power thred" on, and it closed them up in about 2 months. it was also VERY painful. I would take your parent and your ortho and sit him down. Say " Look, i've had theses on my teeth for that past 3 years, i know i was supposed to have them on for only 2 years. I havent really seen a HUGE difference. Am i going to have them off by Grad?" Let him know that this is important and it's frusterating you because you dont want to be known as the girl with braces (though no one isgoing to remember you that way)

3) I'd get them off when your teeth are ready. Because if you get them off too soon, you will have bad teeth and you will have to get them on again, in college. You can ask about the clear braces they are more expensive but you cant tell you've got them on, barely, and you have to make sure you dont eat really colored food. but they look good.

There are also things like porcelain teeth. you can ask your doctor about those. you can get laser sergery to move your teeth, so if you've got money that could be an option.

best of luck, and remember when you do get theses suckers off. you'll have a beautful smile. it'll all be worth it ♥




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker