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Q: Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this?
i'm a Christian, and i do believe the world is going to end. i just don't know when. and it won't be because of crime or w/e. it'll be because of all the signs in revelation. one of the sign is jerusalem will be rebuilt. and they already have the design. sooo yea. thats what i believe.
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Q: Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?
dude... that was mean. God loves you soooo much. He sent His son to die for YOU. because He loves YOU that much. you should be on your knees thanking Him, not insulting him. you said, "Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." no it's not! fun: hanging with friends, playing outside, playing with pets, hanging with family.
not fun: sex before marriag, stealing, hurting others (physically and emotionally), drugs, drinking under age. that's just a few examples. Christianity doesn't teach the world will end in your life time. the bible does give signs as to when the rapture will happen. some of the signs have already happened. so i do think that there is a chance the rapture could happen in my life time. why would you choose hell over Heaven? i really feel sorry for you. i hope to see you in heaven with me. i really do. oh yeaand what makes me believe? faith.
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i'll pray for you, and for all non-Christians

Q: Ok well here's my problem, my mom is like super christian and I think I wanna follow by the rules of buddah and I want to be boodist! but I still belive in god! I dunno what one to choose. And plus if I do decide to become budist I dont wanna tell my mom! I dont know what to Do! arg! help!
i think being a christian is the greatest thing ever!!!!

Q: Does anybody know any good bible scriptures? I know that Psalms is good.. but anybody know any on wisdom?
proverbs 2 is mostly about wsdom!
hope i helped!
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Q: hey i'm 13 and i'm a Christian! i would really like to know more bible verses for i'm going through so much (parents are like yea...and my friends are failing me...and i have like 2 major issues of being easily angered and jealous, i'm praying about it too) so if you know any bible verses that might help me with the above or just any good ones tell me!! thanks soooo much *i rate*
for friends:

So watch yourselves. "If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him. If he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times comes back to you ans says, 'I repent,' forgive him."
Luke 17:3-4

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcomeevil with good.
Romans 12:21

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.
Romans 12:14

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody.
Romans 12:17

these are to long to type out:
Psalm 41:9-13
Romans 12:19

for jealousy:

this is a pretty long verse so im just gonna write where it is found.
2 Corinthians 10:12

hope i helped!


Q: Well...honeybunch, You stick to your principles, girl! Stay pure! You are worth waiting for!

Blessings!
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=mylordwon
hey!
thanks alot!!! ur awesome!!!! u to, stay pure!! you are definetly worth waiting for!!!!
God Bless!
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Q: Hi, what I will address won't mainly be asking for advice, but for the input of the columnists on advicenators on a very controversial issue of morals against faith in the latter of sex.

I know that among some religions that premarital sex is sinful and highly prohibited without any exceptions, but what are your opinions?

I myself am a Catholic-Christan, and believed in the "sex until marriage" thing when I was together with my boyfriend. But as we got to know each other over the years, we got into intellectual conversations about this topic and if it's argument is valid and reasonable. I'm not saying that our relationship prompted a shift in mindset on this issue, but knowing him and being with him for so many years along with witnessing other married couples made me think about this a little more thoroughly.

I started to think about it as I grew older, and I began to feel differently. The divorce rate in the U.S. is at an amazingly high rate, and more couples are breaking it off even after saving the sex until marriage "policy". On some occasions I even think that these breakoffs are due to the quality of the sex. If the sex isn't good, usually lovers leave and commit infidelity. Unless the couple is really committed to one another, they will keep trying to make the sex work out.

The way I think about this scenario now is that I believe that it is acceptable to have sex before marriage, under certain circumstances. Because a couple must establish that intellectual intimate bond with commitment, devotion, loyalty, etc. Even then does that take years to accomplish, and the time spent shows respect to each other that both partners are willing to stick it out this long and wait for each other to take action that is of great importance. Also after all that is done, the relationship goes to the next level in the stage of sex. Having sex before marriage lets the couple know how how much they really love each other and how much they are willing to commit to each other. In a sense it tests us on how much we value sex and what factor it plays in our life. And if we don't pass the test in avoiding adultery, it was never meant to be with that person, so how can a couple get married if sex and passion got the best of them to steer them toward someone else?

To conclude, although you could say I'm going against my religion, it doesn't mean that I don't have faith. A lot of the "rules" that we have to abide by sometimes do seem unreasonable, in order to understand love and all the goodness that it brings, I really don't think marriage is enough to keep someone faithful.

In no ways am I encouraging premarital sex, especially on advicenators with teeny-boppers running around having sex with their semi-erect penises, but what I am saying is that before sex comes commitment, loyalty, devotion, understanding, civility, and vice versa. But I do believe that before marriage comes sex. Why because marriage is the highest level that a couple can go through to show their love toward one another for all of eternity, and how can you reach the highest level without sharing everything of yourself to your soulmate, including your most prized possession?

I apologize if I come off a little bias, but that isn't my intention at all. I'm not promoting anything, nor am I objectifying "sex before marriage." Those couples who are able to succeed through this lifestyle, I admire you, I really do. Especially in a society that is centered around sex nowadays. But I would like to know the opinions of others to better understand this controversial subject.

Thanks and sorry for the long read! I hope to hear a lot of responses!
you did make alot of good points! have you considered being a lawyer? you would be good at it!
ok, well, you mentioned that a couple having sex is to see how much devotion they have for each other, or something like that. well waiting until marriage can also show how much devotion two people have for each other! it shows they love each other enough to save that special moment until they are married. it also shows neither of the two people are in the relationship for just sex. and that both people are more mature than that.
i don't know about you but i'm saving myself for my husband. it will be so much more special that way!!
hope i helped!
good luck with this debate thingy!
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Q: I know having bulimia,anorixia or anything like that isnt pleasing to God...but is it considered a sin?
i'm sorry but yes it is a sin. when you have anorexia or bulimia it means you are not happy with Gods creation. and that makes him sad. you are also hurting yourself. and that also makes him sad. and you are sopposed to treat your body like a temple. and if you have an eating disorder then you ain't treating your body like a temple.
"Don't you know that you are God's temple and that God's Spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy him; for God's temple is sacred, and you are that temple."
1 Corinthians 6:19-20
hope i helped!
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honeybunch
hey ya'll!!
i LOVE to help people! ask me anything, i've probably been there! i've been through alot!!
alot of my advice will probably contain some refrence to God! i'm a strong christian! God is awesome!! can't wait to hear from you!!
love always!!
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