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Q: Hi ive been having this brown discharged an i havent ever had my period and now theres a little bit of blood is this the start of my period? And im not sexually active

by the way im 13!

Thx in advance
i would say so.

if not then it could be that your hymen could of broke. you dont have to be sexually active for it to break you could have done something as simple as hitting the bar on your bike when you fell off or something like that. or even jumping from the high dive in the pool.

you can also tell if its your period if the blood keeps coming, if its just once then its not your period. your first period normally doesnt give you cramps, but other things might be weird like if your breast kinda hurt to touch, like they are tender or sometimes its even in your armpits (i know thats weird but it is what it is) or even the small of your back kinda hurts.

hope i helped!

Q: ok so when ever i eat something or drink something sugary like ice cream or coffee from starbucks i get like shaky. not like hyper or anything but my body literally has tremors. what is this? it would be nice if you had any medical information on what might happening to me. cause it sfreaking me out and i just stopped eating anything with sugar in it.
thankyou any advice is wanted!
my dad and friend are diabetic. the way they found out is they were wicked shaky and then when they went to the doctors they found out thier blood sugar was too high and the hospital ran more test and found they were diabetic. Diabetes (SP?) is hereditary so if other people in your family (parent grandparnts, aunts/uncles)ANYone it is more likely you can have it. I dont know if yo knwo what having diabetes means but its like your body doesnt make (i cant spell it) inselin. and thats what keeps your blood sugar at a reasonable rage. so i would talk to your parents about family health background and then tell them and ask to make a doctors appointment =)

Q: this is regarding the hair on your eyebrows




why is it that when you pluck them, somtimes theres a little black ballstuck to the bottom and somtimes its white and somtimes there is none?
its just how much you got out of your skin. the ball on the end/ the white stuff means you got the whole thing out. like you pulled out the root. if there is nothing then you jsut got the hair that you can see on the outside of your face. =)

Q: When i read in the car, i get sick. well, i feel queasy. what can i do to stop this?
thanks
it might be the lighting. you can buy things that attatch to your book with a little light on it. it could also be car sickness.. possibly. you should take medincine for that too. =)

Q: i have scars from my zits and i really want to get rid of them but how can i ? plez help mee!

-marissa
Coco butter... it wont work over night, but put it on your face when you go to bed, and if you keep doing it, it should work... it will work better if the scar hasnt been there for while (like if its new)if thats the case you should see results(sp?) in a week also you cna but them on acne and it takes it away.

Q: 13/f this may sound stupid, but i really don't like braces, they gross me out and soon I have to get braces. I know theres pretty much no way i can get out of them, and i can't use invisiline or anything. the only thing that will work for me are real metal braces. Is there a color or something that will make it look less gross? And is there a way that I could make the whlole braces process go quicker. Any tips or just anything about braces would be greatly appreciated.
okay so heres what i would do get light colors liek pinks blues purples dont get green or black they make you teeth look bad (i think) some ppl no but justto b ont he safe side. also i would bring a tooth brush to school and after lunck brush them it might be embarrasing but believe me they keep hem clean. another thing you could do is always keep on your rubberbands idk if your going to need them but there these little ruber bands that go on your braces to make them go a sertain way. always keep those in! i promise you it'll pay of in the long run hoped i helped. :]

Q: I really have given up.
There's no point in even trying anymore.

All my dad does is yell and scream at me and then tell me to get over it. I'm too scared of him to stand up for myself.
I don't smile anymore. There's not a reason to. So, my mom gets mad at me for not smiling, which is really stupid.
I have hardly any real friends.
I don't have a boyfriend.
I never get anything I want.
No one listens to me. They just ignore me.

I don't know what to do anymore. Nothing good has happened in a long time.

Please...does anyone know something out there that can possibly make me happy?
my friend has this same problem. she sometimes doesnt feel any need to be happy. small things can ruin her day. but i hate to see her like that. with you i dont know why your unhappy. but you could try to make things better. like do somehting you liek to do with a friend if you dont have a friend try to make one. they dont have to be close but for instance if you like o shop or skate maybe invite them over to do soemthing like that and you would "bond" or become closer. as for the guy problem you should try to maek a guy friend the same way you would a regular friend and you would meet his guy friends and there you go. umm not getting anything you want. yea i hate that but you could always get what you want by getting it for yourself. get money by babysitting dog walking things like that and put oyt fliers. if no one listens to you there has to be a reason. if you want something you got to have a strong voice look the person in the eyes. and for the dad problem...hmmm well lets see not when he is angry or yelling ask for a family meeting about how you feel make sure its planned out well (people will listen to you more if you know what you talking about) and if something happenes where your dad gets mad or you get in trouble pretend liek it doesnt bother you just take it in he will be surprise and maybe he'll see that he is over reacting. i reallyhope everything goes better and that my advice helped. if you need anything you know where to ask. :]

*samantha*

Q: NEED TO KNOW IMMEDIATLY

ok so my sis {16} has a red raw patch near her underwear line but lower down almost near her bum but notlike her thigh tho she says it hurts alot and it has been there for a week it is not chauffing she says because her thighs dont rub together there she has never had this before she thinks its an sti hahaha i dont but i am not sure wat it is HELP HELP HELP HELP
it could be a cyst or sist i think thats how u spell it. but if it is one. (i dont want to surgar coat it) its very very painful when other people i know had it they told me it was painful like they have to cut it open and stick somethign in there. its a type of surgery. but it depends on the doctor you have too. anyways i hoped i helped.

Q: 14/f. okay so i've been seeing all of these people suggesting people to use proactiv and that it really works. well i've always considered it and my mom said that if all else fails she'll order it for me. but if i use proactiv and it works, then won't i just have to keep ording it for years and years? because if i stop using it won't my acne come back? i've never had REALLY bad acne, but its enough to be annoying and noticable.

is proactiv worth it?
if i stop using it will my acne come back?
and how long do i have to use it until i can safely stop?
I use proactive and it doesnt work the first time yo u use it. and if you stop using it your acne might come back. umm im not that sure when to stop using it! but if you stop using proactive and acne isnt coming back then you should be good. but you shou ld still wash your face, even with soap or water! good luck!!!

Q: ummmm i was just wondering if anybody can tell me how to use weight im 5'7 an weight 150... i was wondering is it ok if i go on a crash diet just eating whole grians????
No way!! you need nutrience from all the food groups!!! if your looking to loose weight then you should excercise eat healthy and not too much food. no food after dinner because if you eat you have no way to burn it all off the biggest meal should be breakfast. you might not want to hear this but... loosing weight is a slow proccess. it should take a week or 2 to loose some pounds! Good luck though!!

Q: i didnt know what to put this under.
i have been using neutrogena oil free acne wash. and it seemed to be working but today i am breaking out.im not sure if its just the heat (its soo hot) or from the acne wash.. if my skin didnt react well to it? what do u think?
if you been using the face wash for a while and havent been breaking out then all of a sudden you are then chances are its probably something else. but if your break out isnt going away i would try another product. so that you you dont break out again try a little test spot on yous face (apply a little but of the product in a hidden spot so that if you do break out its not all over your face) but if the brak out is because of the heat its probably because your pores are cloged. so wash your face to make sure there's no oil on it. and you dont have to use a product just cold or hot water. splash it on your face and pat dry (rubbing your face with a towel in the long run will cause wrinkles) good luck!!!

Q: are there any good acne scar removers out there that is cheap? i have tried cocoa butter and i have not seen any results at all and ive done this for like 2 months..
i'd use neutrogena acne mark fading peel. i've heard it works like a charm and not expensive.

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livelaughlove96
heyy my name is samantha. I like to help anyone who needs it. I don't have alot of experience in some of the categories, but if you drop a question in my inbox and I don't know the answer ill be sure to find it one way or another. And no question is dumb so don't not ask something cause you feel that way!!! =)

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