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so im 20yrs old and i just had a son with a 18 yr old. hes been doing really good with coming over (we both live with our parents) anyways, the problem is that once in awhile he'll say hes coming over and then doesn't even show up or call to say what's going on...i dont understand a little bit because i had talked to him about it and he agreed that calling would be the best thing and he also agreed that he should be calling when plans change, yet somehow he still seems to do it>>he'll tell me the night before that he's coming over and then just not show and not call me until the next day and talk as though nothings up...its bugging me so much i tried talking to him now what do i do??? (link)
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tell him that your son gets upset when you tell him that daddies coming over and when he doesnt show he crys. tell him you wont let him see his son anymore if this keeps happening because you dont want to see your son upset because of him.
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my mother 2 months ago got married, to a man she met over one of those dating websites, hes from england, and in the one week he came over to visit, they married. he left for a couple a weeks, and now he will be here till january. hes been here for 2 months so far, and hes annoying my mom, (me also) and he won't pull his weight, and hes not helping with bills or anything, so now my mom said if he doesn't bring in his money for a job he got then shes divorcing him in january. well with that now said how do i explain to my friends, that now i prolly wont be going to england, and that my mom is going to be divorcing the man that she recently married, and met over the internet... its put so much stress on me about my mom coming to talk to me about how she can't stand him, and my grades are slipping and shes mad about that, but she doesn't realize shes putting it on me... what do i do?
-sometimes im miserable, but thats so typical-
-but of all the things i am-
-i am beautiful- (link)
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tell her the truth and explain to her that it puts stress on u with ur school work and other stuff 2. and tell her if she h8s the guy so much then divorce him she doresnt want to be with sum1 who doesnt pull his weight around the house.
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hi im elle. im 13. Heres where i need advice...my mom doesnt know how to control my brothers. at all. so they are insane. all the time. she constantly blames it on me. "well its because youre not the perfect sister!" im a good student. im know im not perfect. but she could at least treat me with more respect. she grounds me all the time. and my brothers run wild. they are constantly fighting and everytime she hears them fight she goes "elle what did you do?" wtf? thats not right. and my dad has the worst temper ever and always fights with her. we're poor and i can never do anything. they dont trust me. its like i dont even exist to them. and they do some really bad stuff. i mean like drugs. i just want to know what i should do. i have a hard time talking to them just because everytime they ever talk to me in private its bad news. always. so what should i do to make my life better?
thanks. (link)
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well dont worry love im in the same boat as you always getting balmed for everything and grounded all the time. it crap itsnt it but trust me talk to your mum and dad tell them what you think of them and tell how you feel when they treat you like shit. but make sure that you are the one in control telling them what you thing of them. tell them exactly what you have written to me. the worse part is if you the oldest and 'you have to set the example' that annoys me but just try keep out of there way. but please do tell them how you feel.
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