I am a single mom of a three year old little girl who i am pushing to be te best person she can be. I am striving to find myself a literary agent so that the words i write dont die with me but change the lives of the people who read my work.
E-mail: jesswilliams06@verizon.net
Gender: Female
Location: Baltimore
Occupation: UNPUBLISHED AUTHOR
Age: 21
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Hi I am 22 years old living with my mom. I know I should move out but I don't have a job yet. I can not stand her she is always annoying me and everyday it make me think of moving out getting my own place. Her behavior is really immature and whenever she speaks to me its like deep down she thinks I look stupid. My face looks to soft for her and my body is too fat. I hate it I had been trying to loose 70 pounds but its impossible cause I don't even go out. And I know in a few years I 'll be able to work but I wish it was sooner. I hate her she can never like me the way I want her too. I feel like she has this really strong personality and I just quiver when she tells me I am wrong. (link)
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as a child with whose mother has a strong personality, and if your mother is anything like mine talking to her is not an option. but im not understanding why you cant leave the house or get a job. even if you go for a walk just to get away from her. and if your stuck in a house you can still lose weight.... try push ups or running in place and drink more water. unfortuneately you cant chnage your mother so dont try. if you can sit down with your mother to talk to her then try it... i apologize for the generic advice but unfortunatly thats all there really is if you cant get a place of your own
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hi ! i would like for you to help me with what may seem to some, a little silly.. well i have been seeing someone for almost 4 mo. now.. he is the most kind and loving man i have ever met and i know he loves me, my problem is that when i ask him how he felt about my 16 year old son he said " i think the world of him would do any thing for him , but i dont know him enough to love him.." i dont know if im right for feeling kinda hurt ??? should he have told me he did even tho he dosnt, ??? shouldnt he love him JUST because he's my son ?? or am i just being silly ?? my son and i have been alone for many years since my divorce.im an overly protective mom !! p.s. my boy friend has no children of his own.. hes 50 im 45 .. thanks !! (link)
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it is a bit silly. i mean would you rather a man lie to you about the way he feels? a man shouldnt have to lie to you about he feels, we, as women get that enough so you should appreciate his honesty. and if your going to seriously consider spending the rest of your life with this man then maybe he and your son could get to know eachother better but try not to give your son a reason to get to close to him until your sure that he jsut wont walk out on the two of you. as a single overprotective mother myself i wont let my daughter meet someone unless i am sure they are going to stick around
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My friend went to the hospital last night because she was bleeding and pregnant. She miscarried now and I'm completely shocked. I don't know what I should say to her but I'm certain that she is pretty upset about this whole ordeal. She hasn't called me just yet (her husband let me know) but I want to say something really nice and supportive when she does. I expect crying and the works.
What do I say to someone when they have a miscarriage? I know it's hard but other than, "I'm really sorry..." I'm lost! (link)
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tell her that her baby is with God. that her baby was so special that God decided He wanted that baby with him. and that when she has her first baby he/ she will be all the more special and all the more loved because of how hard it was to have him/her. and instead of waiting for her to call you should go see her... be her shoulder to cry on... sometimes words arent even needed
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If you get married AFTER you have children, should you go on a honeymoon? My boyfriend and I are expecting now and are not married. He wants to get married after the baby is born. I think that sounds alright, but then we won't be able to have a proper honeymoon, right? We can't just leave the baby somewhere and if we take the baby with us then it won't be us "getting away" to be together. What do you think? (link)
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leave your child with someone you absolutely positively trust!!! even if its just one night all newlyweds deserve a honeymoon... its not just about the sex its about the intimacy of knowing that no matter what happens that one other person is your only person for the rest of your lives. its about so much more then sex
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I've been questioning my gender identity(whether i am male or female)(i'm physically male, 15) I'm wondering how to tell my parents, if i decide I want a sex change. (link)
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you dont tell them because you dont do it your 15 years old you have your hole life ahead of you dontr ruin it by havin a sex change god madev you the way you are for a purpose
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i am 14. Ok... me and my mom are always fighting. (about the smallest and STUPIDEST things) i know it's because we are so much alike, but i just found out we are moving in a month, my parents said they will take me to my high school if i have a good attitude (that means no fighting).. so i need tips on how to suck up to them and to avoid fighting with her. (link)
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dont suck up but maybe clean up when your mom is out clean up the house some if your mother says somthing and you cant keep it inside tell her calmly hoe you feel
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Here's my problem, I am the youngest of 6. I'm 14 a gurl. (the yongest next to me is 24) I have 2 sisters and 3 brothers and about 1 week ago I found out that my brother is gay. he is almost 30 and the fact that he is gay does not bother me atall but I don't even know what is bothering me. My church does not beleive in being gay or anything. I dn't care what other people think so don't go telling that my church is awful.
i think 1 of my sisters is gay and I just am a stake of shock and don't know what to do. I also have a cousin that is gay (my aunts son) I feel like everything I thought was right and everything I thought I knew is out the window. I don't know what to believe and what not too.
My mother has such weird ideas she doesn't care what ian does but she almost act immbarrissed at the fact that she has a gay kids. I sometimes feel that maybe I am (befroe my bro came out) but I know that I never want to explore that part of me.
really was wondering if I could get some advice from some advicenators that have experience in what I'm dealing with.
I Love my bro and I will never turn against him for what he is but I just feel so confused to what to beleive.
signed,
lost (link)
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you said your a church goin gal so pray the lord will tell you what 2 do
luv your brother for who he is not what he does
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I reallllyyyy want to start my own advice column for the kids in my school! My parents don't really think that it is a good idea. I mean, I sort of agree because I'm telling a person what to do with their life and it only takes one wrong piece of advice to ruin a friendship! Please help me with my problem!
signed,
Puzzled (link)
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talk 2 ur princeple or couvselor and ask them. remember 2 respect your parents
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ok, my dad hurt his leg a while ago, he twisted his foot all the way around once-falling off our deck, and he lost the nerve in his right foot to pick up the foot (not the leg but the foot). i see him doing this tuff work out side all the time, and its almost like i can see him getting hurt again, he trips over himself all the time, i just dont know what to do. please help. (link)
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your father doesnt want 2 be held up in the house all day just keep an eye out n if he looks to b doin sumn he shouldnt just walk up n say ill tale care of that.
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I'm 24 and I recently got married. The problem is that my mother is horrible to me. She has always been. She refused to be involved with the wedding in anyway, she refuses to have contact with my kids because she says they are bad(how bad can a 4and 2 year old and a 10 month old be?), she hates my husband and says its his fault she won't come around. She does not "allow" me to talk to my 17 year old brother unless she is there. And she won't allow me to see my daughter that she conned me into letting her adopt. That's not how mothers are supposed to treat their children. She recently told me she doesn't want to see me anymore. Should I just cut her out of my life and let it be? (link)
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mayb a law suit would help u get joint custidy of your daughter
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I have a very screwed up family. But my problem is that my oldest brother is in the Army and has been in Iraq since November. Well, he came back for 2 weeks and I only got to talk to him once while he was here. He was to busy with his wife and 3 adopted daughters. Then I find out on the day he left that he called the rest of my family ie my twin brother, my sister, and a couple other relatives and NOT me! I am the youngest girl in the family and my brother sticks up for me but why would he not call me when he left? (link)
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since your broyher had to go back mayb it was 2 emotional fot him to call you mayb he was scared he would cry. write him n ask y but b polite
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