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ok so sorry this is sorta long. well i came downstairs today and my mom is sitting at the computer looking at flights and she goes, "ok so there is this mothers weekend thing at ur sisters college, but its the weekend of your birthday." (she was asking me what i thought, but ovbiously she was already looking at flights so she wanted to go there.) so i told her it was fine whatever, to go. then i just walked away. then i hear her quickly call my sister and say, "shes fine, im coming." i am so mad. not only is it my bday its my sweet 16. its like she likes my sister better and cares nothing about my birthday. would anyone else be offended/upset if this happened? i just dont know what to do. i feel like crap. (link)
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Well, I was born in Europe and then I moved here in America. My family and I had to start all over again. My parents had to find new jobs, buy a new home, cars and everything. Now, we're living life like normal people and we have more then most people.
Neather of my parents went to collage because thier families couldn't afford it back thenI love my mom to death but I feel like she's working soo hard just to make us happy. My dad had a great job and he's very happy with it but I feel so sorry for my mom. She cleans for a living.. I know it's sad but I feel so bad. Sometimes I just wish I was more supportive and that I didn't argue with her so much because she works SO hard for us & at times I can be ungrateful for the things I have but I always want more.
Since she didn't go to collage, is there any way she can get a new and better job. She always talks to me about how she just wants me & my brother to do good in school and someday that we will be very succesful. I don't want her to wake up everyday for the next 20 years going to work and clean! I want my mom to be happy just like we are and not have to do what she hates for the rest of her life.
I try to be a great kid and not argue and help out but I'm just a regular 14 year old teenager and it's normal to fight with parents but after that I feel soo bad and sorry for her.
Any advice on this? I get tears in my eyes just thinking about her. I want her to be happy and do something that she loves. I want her to get a better job but that seems to be hard for her. (link)
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wow you surely love her i only hope one day my daughter will grow to be as in tune to things as you i also work really hard but i deal with mentally retarded people all day wiping thier butts and being attacked and cleaning drool and throw up. i do it because i love her and want the best for her . with the money i make i buy her clothes and pay her tuition for private kindergarten. it takes most my money im left with a little bit of money when all is said and done but luckily i have a wonderful man in my life that is strong and takes the wheel. i do all this because i love her not for any other reason then the mere fact that when you have a child there is a thing in a woman that comes out of her. its a strong will to survive and keep her children happy at all cost. it is a natural instinct. your mom im sure loves you immensely and all i can say is dont ever question why or how she does it hun. she is a mom and it is what she needs and wants to do. now of course there are days i need a break and feel like giving up... im human but on those days just kinda help her out and let her know how grateful you are for all she does because sometimes i wonder if my child will ever know the extent in which i had to work and how tired i can get to make her have the life i hope she will be comfortable in. i think it would be great if you told her what you said in this letter. it was very heartfelt and real and it genuinely shows the love and gratitude you feel for her. im sure she could get a better job hun. maybe she likes the cleaning job because it works around her schedule. that is a HARD job i have done that. maybe she should look into working at the supermarket they have great benefits and flexible hours. great pay to i worked at safeway grocery 10 years and made 17 a hr. good luck and god bless
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ok my dad does weed and i just know my mom does it too. and well they are always saying how much they hate people that do drugs and here they do it. well i hear that if your parents smoke and stuff well the kids are liable to start and well i smoke ciggaretts and my parents dont know about it. my point is will i start doing drugs since they do? an help will work thanks jennie (link)
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you probaly wont do drugs if you keep your mind focused on how drugs can destroy family, people, and lives. just do good things hun. just cause your parents do something doesnt mean you will. if deep in your heart you feel something is wrong dont do it. trust me i have watched peoples lives be destroyed over drugs and its so not worth it. hang in there and keep an anti drug attitude. you will get further in life without it.
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I am a 17 year old boy, the only son in family. I have four sisters, three are elder and one is younger. My all family members love me a lot as I am the only brother. I also love them. But I don’t know why I have dirty feelings about my sisters. My mind always filled with dirty feelings about them. My mind always work on dirty schemes.But they all think me a innocent boy.I share a room with me eldest sister she is about 24 years old. She has a fat body. She snores during sleep. When she is in deep sleep I touch and caress her body and feels the softness and smells her private parts, specially her hips. I also try to hear the sound from washroom when she use it. Many times I have shown my male organ to her as I come out after taking bath in towel. I like to see her impressions when I (posing that I am unaware) give her view. Twice I have also shown to my youngest sister (she is 13 year old).
My sisters are friendly in nature, I have habit of slap and pinch their hips. Some time we fake fight with each other and during that I touch their private parts posing my self innocent. They believe this brotherly love but I have dirty thinking. I try to see them using washroom or taking bath from the backyard and when ever I succeed many days spend in dreaming about that
In spite of all this I have no sex thoughts about my sisters, I never thought about that. I just like to do the above mentioned things & enjoys.
Please give me an advise, how should I control my self to avoid such things. IS I am sick?
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well first have you ever had sex with a woman? if you havent i think you should but not with your sisters. maybe if you read a magazine instead it will take your sexual focus off of them. i really feel it is wrong for you to touch her while she sleeps and fantasize about them. i think that your sexual curiosity has really gone a little to far i think you need to not get physically close with them like that. i hope that you are persuing women outside of the family. that would be a good thing. your little sister should not be looked at like that and i think that can be a dangerous situation. i think that you need some counseling hun. i dont mean it in a bad way but i feel you should seek anoymous counsoling. it can be done in private.good luck hun and i dont think you are sick i just think your hormones have been way too high and you need to stop playing with the sisters and meet women and have sex with them.
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My mom recently got remarried over the summer and my step dad and I do not get along at all. I've always loved my mom and loved living with her but I cannot stand her husband and he doesn't think too much of me either. I tried to make it work with her but I can't keep trying.
Yesterday we were in an argument and he suggested that I move in with my dad. At first I just got really up set that he said that and called him an asshole. But then I realized that it might be a good idea.
My dad is great and he is a good parent--I'm just used to living with my mom. My mom refuses to let me live with him. But they have joint custody of me so can I still move in if my mom says no?
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pray about it hun
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