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Q: im rilly confused my mom hits me but its kind of my falt so it just dosnt seem like cild abuse to me but my best friend was over one day and saw what was going on he ses i need to tell but i rilly rilly dont want to . what should i do????

plz tell me what i should do
thanx
13/f
Parents have different ways of disipline its not starnge that your mother hits you but its not right either, try telling her about your friend and maybe she will stop if not consult to an adult friend of hers to talk to her.
Hope i helped,Goodluck
Love Emily

Q: I am 15 years old and pregnant. my boyfriend is working two jobs. but we have been fighting alot. and we barly talk any more. my parents just got seperated a couple months ago. my dad got into the whole religious thing. my mom is always out at bars partying staying at guys house having guys stay the night i eel nelgeted and alone. im not sure how to deal with this please help
You are in a very hard place, there are many many many places for young mothers that need help, i dont know where you live so i can not give you any number but look around because they know what you are going through and can help, Talk to your mother and Father and explain to them how you are feeling.
Goodluck, Love Emily

Q: Im dating a guy who is cousins with one of my closer friends they talk about me and i know they do, because she feels that we shouldnt date anymore we've been together for almost 2 years (few more months to come) but my bf feels that i've stolen him away from her like i hog him to much & she feels the same way. I dont want them to think that. Im not heartless i think family is important so why'd i want that for them right? i want them to know that i do believe its important that they still do see eachother, I want to write her a letter explaining that i do think its important they hang out, spend time together, u no? So could you help me get started with a letter or tell me some things to put in the letter?
I think a letter would be a very understanding way for her.Explain to her that you really like her and her cousin and care about them both and would never try to split them up etc, maybe you could organise to go to a movie and stuff with your boyfriend and her so she doesnt feel left out in anyway.Explain this to your bf as well so you can all move on with it.Keep me posted with what happens!
goodluck
justaskemily xox

Q: my parents have just got a divorce and life at home is very hard as dad is moving out, i love him so much and don't want him to go please help
You have to stay strong for your mother and siblings if you have any, many children go through parental divorce and feel the exact same way as you, things will die down after your dad moves out anbd talk to you mum about going to see him and stuff
goodluck
xox

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justaskemily
I love animals,reading and writing stories and hopeful that one day i will be a vet or a author. I am 14 and have been through quite alot like parental divorce and heaps of friend and boyfriend troubles i also have 4 cats and a turtle!
so post in a question and i will answer it to the best of my ability.

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