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My uncle and aunt had a fight the other day and my uncle has this stupid bitchy attitude and my aunt was supposed to come. Oh yeah...whoop de doo she's not again because of my stupid mother n uncle. My grandma is sick in the hospital and they don't care. IT's so sad because they not guna tlk again...EVER!!! What dO I do....?

Well actually my family is going through the same thing right now,and i'm not sure what to do about it either,all I can say is just wait it out and God will help you through everyhing,God bless,

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Okay, I know this might seem weird, but it makes sense to me.

Everyone in my family is doing extremely well with their financial needs. We all live pretty comfortably. But, every family has suffered to get where they are.

And I mean EVERY single family.

My aunt from my mom's side, and her family started getting rich about 15 years ago. Once they started racking in all the money, she was diagnosed with kidney cancer. She might not live for another year.

My Uncle from my mom's side always owned his own auto repair business and has always been making an above average salary. But, a few months ago he decided to open another shop across town, since his original one was doing so good. Well, for the past 6 months he's been in the hospital getting treatment for his blood cancer.

On my dad's side, my uncle also opened his own business and has been making good money. His wife and him now can't have any more children. The past 4 times she's been pregnant, she's had a miscarriage.

The list certainly goes on.

It seems that every time something happens to someone in my family, it's after they start making more money.

Well, my dad owns a law firm and he just closed a 15 million dollar case. We were all excited until a few days ago when he ended up in the hospital. My dad never gets sick and hasn't been to the doctor in over 20 years. But about a week after the closed his case, it started. We first thought it was the flu so we didn't worry. But one night he woke up with a sharp pain in his side (or stomach I'm not sure) and we had to rush him to the hospital. They told us if we waited even 30 more mins. he would have been dead. His gallbladder would have exploded.

Now I don't know what to believe because it all seems so crazy. But it makes sense. It's gotten me so scared that I don't want to make much money when I get older. I know it sounds weird but what do you guys think of this?

wow, this really does sound like some bad luck, but this sounds stupid, but maybe, it has to do with your family's feeling towards all this wealth, sometimes, if you get too greedy,when you get that kind of money , it's gods little way of showing you where that money really came from, it's a blessing, so don't let it get to your head, so go ahead and think about his, you are welcome to go to my coulmn and e mail me about this if you would like, or anything else,

Jasmine,

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Well I'm 16 and female.

Well I know that it is somewhat expected that siblings will be jealous of each other but how long is it supposed to last? I have a sister who is slightly less than 2 years younger than me and I have been jealous of her ever since she could walk. She is always the pretty one, the athletic one, the funny one, the outgoing one. She even got a boyfriend before I did. My sister and I are basically complete opposites and we don't get along. I've always thought she was perfect and I was nothing. She always gets asked to dance at school dances while I sit in the corner and cry. Maybe I'm just a bit too emotional. My mom says that in many ways I'm better than my lil sister but I don't believe it. Is there any way for me to stop being jealous of my sister?

wow, this is a bit tricky, i can understand how you can feel this way, i also am not athletic, and have not been to so many dances, but don't compare yourself, your sister could be jelous of you too actualy,and yes it is defintily a sibling thing, later down the road you will see that you and your sister aren't as different as you may have thought, you'll need her later down the road in life, so i would let your sister have her life and let you have yours, later on in life you'll see how it all comes together, hope i could help you!!

Jasmine,

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My brother's birthday is coming up next week he is turning 24 and i have no clue what to get him. He doesnt play video games and he doesn't like band tee-shirts. It can cost no higher then $30. If anyone has any helpful suggestions it would be very helpful.

lol, this ^_^ is just a little happy face with it's eyes closed, hope ur brother has a good b day!!!

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My gramma just died a week ago, and my parents just told me yesterday that they are getting a divorce. All of this just seems like too much for me to handle. I have incredible faith in God .. so I pray to him ... but sometimes that doesnt seem like enough? How can I deal with this? I dont really wanna talk to my friends about it ... cus all their parents are still 2gether, what should i do?

wow, it does seem like your going through alot right now, but i'm a christain too, and also have or at least try to have faith in god,and i understand it does'nt feel like enough sometimes, but i assure you god is always there with you!!, and my parents are also divorced, but it is actually not as bad as people make it sound,but i wont lie it is a bit hard to chose who you are going to spend your holidays with every year, and i would actually talk to your friends about it, and see their spin on it, but don't stress yourself out too much about it, I hope i could help you out even if it's just a little bit, and i'm always here if you have more ??? about anything ^_^

Jasmine,

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