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This is probably going to be very long, so thanks in advance for reading all the way through it. I'm 22, my Mom and Dad are both 42. My mother has always been the sensible, more mature, (sometimes overbearing) one, while my Dad has basically never grown up. They divorced when I was 5, and have both since remarried twice. My dad just got re-married tonight actually. To a 35 year old woman named Carla.
More background: my Dad has been partying since he was 15, its why his first two marriages didn't work out. He's an alcoholic (not the abusive to anyone else kind, but the kind who drinks maybe 40-45 beers a day and really depends on it to manage his mood, stress, etc.- its sad) and still has the same old buddies he grew up with who are drunks as well. He's not completely pathetic, he's held a good job for 25 years, never puts anyone in danger, and never drank around me until I was 19.
After him letting me down again and again and not talking to him for sometimes months at a time, I chose to just accept him for what he is, I love him, and want him to be a part of my life. He's my dad.
Carla is really sweet and fun. She acts young for her age, which can be annoying but, we all have a good time together.They just moved into a house out in the sticks which I thought would be a great place to have my Annual Halloween party (its the biggest party I throw), I don't have anywhere else to have it this year. My Dad, Carla and my Dad's old buddy Leroy want to be there and party with us. I feel weird and guilty about the idea. Because I actually think that my friends and my Dad and Carla, all of us would have a blast. Even Leroy's a great time. But, I mean, we've been out to dinner and had drinks before, but I've never partied with them. Do some kids do this? Or is it just weird and thats it? Is it just redneck? Or is every situation different with fathers and daughters?
They're totally cool with as many people as I want to invite, we can get as wild as we want. They have a pool table and room to dance and I know Carla will love helping me get everything ready.
I know he's not winning parenting awards here. I also know that I'm an adult, maybe I should just take advantage of it, I'm starting school in January and will have to buckle down, so. But then, maybe I'm encouraging him to drink and continue to party like he's young. I really do want him to quit drinking like he does. Am I being a hypocrite, or is it his problem? Like, I look at him as more of a friend than a father. He never really fathers me anymore. You know what I mean? What do you guys think? Help. I'm guilting myself to death. Thanks. (link)
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i know im 13 but im just trying my best i know you wanna have a big bash but being drunk or having beer shouldnt be the way a party is when you enjoy eachother company not drink your self to an early grave dont have any alchohol and use fruit punch or anything else to drink that means no one passes out so you can party longer you should have one big bash before you have to buckle down for school i hope my advice works
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Ok my mom and brother argue all the time and my brother hates my mom alot and my mom never did anything to him, she just doesn't let him get away with anything, and my brother get's so mad and breaks things, and all the fighting makes everyone sad and upset, and every weekend my mom goes out with her friends and doesn't come home until morning, how can i get are family to get along.................Please Heeeeeeeeeeelp. (link)
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she doesnt let him get away with things because she knows how some guys are maybe you and your brother should talk to you mom and setting different rules like if you have a 10 dollar allowence and he only has 5 maybe she should rase it up to 10 and you are in the middle im like that also sometimes with my mom and my sister maybe he has alot of stress ask him if anything at school bothers him and talk to him about it and help your family out about it
because violence isnt the answer just talk it out if your brother doesnt want to talk just talk to your mom just you and your mom about it
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ok my mom just came out of a 12 yr relationship and jumped into another one.. well they have been together for a yr now and i don't like the guy at all. the other day he proposed and she said yes. now my mom and her boyfriend act like they don't want me around. and my half brother and sister will look at me and say i hate you.. and stuff like that .. and i don't wonna let them know it gets to me.. but it really does hurt me.. i live with my grandparents [[ her parents ]] but i still want to have a relationship with my mom. what should i do? b/c i really don't want them to have the satisfaction of knowing they hurt me.. but they really do. =[ (link)
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if they are living at your house move back in ok if its your house when your parents arent around take controll they dont run you yes your one person but if rosa parks didnt try to make a difference and ran to her moms every time people bossed her around people will still be sitting at the end of the bus take a stand if that doesnt work talk to your step dad and tell him about his kids i mean he is a dad he needs to take reasposability for his kids tell him what they do try to spend more time with him even though you dont like him i mean he took away the person that means the most to you try to see a good side and dont judge him by the cover maybe you will start liking him and it will turn out good
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Okay so im ushally with my moms side of the family a lot just because they live clother than my moms side. i really love my moms side of the family. and i used to hang out with them everyday. but lately it just seems as if im nothing to them anymore ever since like there has been problems with the family. pretty much everyone in the family is telling me to die. i wanna say something back to them but its just rude to do that. im not sure of what to do.Should i tell them or someone how i feel or should i stop talking to them? (link)
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dont tell them off it will just be worse believe me i have an older sister and when she yells at me i yell at her back but im the one who is crying but we start talkin to eachother talk to your mom about it or keep talkin to them sooner or later they will talk to you if it doesnt work just e mail me at Mmomo54321@yahoo.com and i will find away because i know what it feels like to be ignored sometimes
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my mom caught me mastubating and watching porn and now i'm crying and i'm mad and i don't know what to do.... i feel awful... i cant stop crying i think i'm gonna cut myself... dammit i dont know what else to do!!! please help me i'm not some emo kid but im considering killing myself... (link)
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well every one masturbates well thats what people tell me and they do but killing your self is not the answer talk to your mom about it and i was more embarressed i caught my mom giving kevin aka her ex bf a massage and i thought they were having sex i talked to my mom about it and i felt better i started crying to b cuz my mom and dad just got a devorce talk to your mom about it i mean alot of girls your age are doing worse then masturbating and watchin porn just talk with her i hope my advice works
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