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hey yall! whats up! well my name is haley, i am 13, i go to ctms, which is a pretty awesome school bc i have really awesome friends to help me through everything! my best friend moved tho, waAaAaAaAa, and i miss her like no other, but we still hang out all the time and are still like sisters! i am pretty tall, '5''6, brunnett hair, dark brown eyes, and i'm pretty much everyones friend, at least thats what i think, but you know i could be wrong! i have a boyfriend that i love more than anything in the world! and well yah, i hope that you'll let me help you with your problems bc thats why i'm here!
love yall bunches!
xoxoxoxoxo
Haley
p.s.- please please PLEASE rate me, whether its good or bad, i would love to know if i helped or not! thanks if ya do! if you dont, well ok i guess thats fine too, lol! thanks yall!

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ok tomorro night my dad and i are going out for a steak dinner and maybe some shopping. My friend tutored me for free a few times, which was really nice of her. My mom suggested me taking her tomorro.. my dad said he didnt mind even though he did mention he'd rather it be just the two of us. What should i choose to do?

i would just take your friends another time bc it sounds like your dad wants you 2 to spend some time together! you can always repay her another time for being so nice, and i think that your dad would like it better just being yall!
hope i helped and have fun!
~Haley~

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my sister broke up with her bf last night becasue all he did was talk abotu ho upset he was abotu things. tom orrow is christmas and i dont want her to be upset @ christmas usualy she tells me things but right now she won t talk to me what can i do to cheer her up.

well, dont bug her about talking about it, but what you could do to get her in a better mood is this. go rent her favorite all time movie and get a bunch of her favorite candy and yall just watch the movie and maybe it'll get her in a better mood. if not then just dont talk about, i mean at all, and maybe you'll help her forget about it. i hope yall have an awesome christmas and that she feels better!!!
lots of love!
~Haley~

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ok well this all stared when someone close to me passed away and i still haven't really gotten over it he pased away in october so you can imagine how much i loved him and now it seems like everyone is dealing with the same thing like have you ever had something happen to your family like a death or someone gets cancer and then it seems like more people are going through the same thing and u didn't even know it before well thats how it is and it is kinda stressful for me does ne one have ne ideas on how i can kinda get it off my mind thanks

thats nothing thats strange, believe me i know. all you can do is think of all of the good times you had with the person and think to yourself, would they want you to just mope around all the time! you have to stay postitive no matter what! *good and bad happens but you just keep living and believing*~annomynous
feel better sweetie!
~Haley~

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love his family to death. Since he's away at college they invite me to visit them alot and I stop to see his mom at work whenever I go to the mall. I have a problem, though- I got his Christmas gift and everything, but should I get something for his family? His mom seems like the kind of person that would get something for me, but I would feel really bad if she did and I didn't get them anything, and I bet she would vice versa. He has an older brother, a younger brother, a sister, dog, and mom and dad. They're really nice to me, but I'm lost on the dating/present etiquette here. Should I get them something, and if so, what?

this might sound kinda corny, and idk if you like to cook, but if you do and you would be ok with it then invite them over for a christmas dinner. dinner is always a really nice gesture. if not, or as an addition to dinner if you wanted, then get them a gift certificate to like sears or foleys or some major store like that and put on the card that its to the whole family, that way you can save money, time, and alot of looking around for something, and no feeling will get hurt!
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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hey.. my parents r super protective like they wont let me "date" 1 on 1 till im 16 and they have to meet him and all that crap..althou im dating now and its really hard to go out w. him kas i need to have my friends go w. me so my parents dont explode.. what can i do so i can go out w. him but not get in trouble.?

you dont tell; they dont know! :)

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MJy stepdad is a real jerk, and my mom always chooses him over me, is that right:?

that is totally not right!!!! tell your mom how you feel! i mean it wont be the easiest thing, but it needs to be done!
lots of love
~Haley~

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Ok.. hi. See me & my sister are like 9 years apart, she's 23 & I'm 14. She is always talkin bout how I shouldn't be mean to her, but she used to ditch me for her friends & crap. Ok, well, she's all of a sudden wanted to be "sisters" and I'm just like, no. She's all whiny & she's babyish. It really gets on my nerves but, when I wanna spend time with her she's always "busy". Ok well we have alot in common but she wont open up to me & tell me about her problems. She goes & tells mom (BIG mistake). Then mother goes & tells daddy & they talk about her so bad. I dont know what to do! I know I don't like her sometimes but hey, she's my sister. Please help!!

i would try and go along with it. i mean my sister died in a carwreck when she was 5, and i was 6; i would jump for the chance to know her better, i mean we were so young. just think, if she died tomorrow, think about how much you wouldnt have said to her, and wouldnt have gotten to do with her. take the chance, you never know when your going to loose someone you love.
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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