I love my sister... sooooooo much..
But there is a teensy weensy problem:
She is EXTREMELY flirtatious. I have a loyal boyfriend, thank God, but my best friend, Layne, and her boyfriend, Connor, came over... and...things got a little heated up between my Connor and my sister. Layne and I were watching a movie, but Connor went into the kitchen to make popcorn or something and my sister was there so...
And when Layne and Connor were leaving my house, myy sister came and kissed him good-bye! On the lips! Right in front of Layne!
Is Connor loyal? Or did my sister do this against Connor's will?? Layne is so upset and Connor is mad at ME for some reason. They're both my friends and I don't know what to do.
I replaced my sister's skin cream with mayo... but what other solution is there??
well A.gold star for cream switch..A+ lol that made me smile.B.you need to talk to your sister about that.and most likely if connor is pissed off then she did it against his will,i think you friend needs to make sure and talk that out with him too.
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My dad has yelled and cussed since I was born. For example, last night his sister called and I went over to him and I had the phone in my hand. I said, "Dad? Do you want to talk to your sister? Here's the phone." And he ignored me, so I put it down and was walking up the stairs, and he heard his sister leaving a message. He ran over to the phone, turned to me, and yelled, "YOU IDIOT! WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER IT?" And I didn't know what to say because I had asked him if he wanted to talk to her, but he didn't answer. I coudn't cry in front of him. I did once and he started screaming at me for it. Do I even have a reason to be upset for him saying that to me? I don't know. Sometimes I feel so stupid for getting upset over things like that and I don't think I have a reason to. I was trying to tell my mom something earlier and he walked by, glared at me, and said, "SHUT UP!" For no reason. He yells and cusses at me and my brother almost every day for no reason at all. I've talked to my mom before and she didn't do anything. The only time she's tried talking to my dad about it, he simply started cussing at me and her. He's okay one minute, then the next he's yelling like a maniac. I can't take this anymore. I'm still crying over something he said to me LAST year. Do I have a reason to be upset? What am I supposed to do?
Ah,this is something I can relate to.Crying is one thing you never want to do ,atleast infront of him.He has anger issues,or mayby hes bi polar.But crying and being upset and letting him know by emotions is just empowering him and hell do it more.but dont let him think its ok either,talk to him,tell him.He WILL yell but if you have to ,yell back.But dont ever think he doesnt love you,you are his child.i really do hope things get better for you.Sometimes its best to just talk to someone either older or more experienced to help you.Freinds,school counsler,or mayby even god.God can help when even the brightest of lights seem to dim sometimes.everything will be ok eventually,god never lets your prayers go unanswered for long.
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Hey I am going to my boyfriends house and I am kind of nervouse. Any advice on how to calm my nerves and any tips to leave a good impression?
Just breathe and tell yourself that they're guna love you.Just be yourself and try not to be too "hands on" with the boyfriend hold hands,hug,a little kiss dont have hands all over him though . Be polite but dont try too hard beacuse then you come off snoty.Good luck to you.I hope it goes well.
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PLEASE help me! i'm scared and pissed to!
my brother (who is 13 and about 270 pounds- i'm 16, f, and only 115pounds!!) is always threatening to beat the shit out of me! what do i do?? my therapist knows, and she says not to call the police or anything, but to try and let it blow over. when he says something to me (he calls me a lebian or a faggot-so does my mom- b/c i'm bi, also he calls me a highschool dropout b/c i failed 1 year of school!) i really just want to knock him out but he's so big!! and he's so much stronger than me!! ive been known to knock the shit out of some ppl, but they were girls and my size too! he really scares me, and he pisses me off sooo bad!!! he just makes me so mad and he's mean to me and my mother backs him up 100%!! what should i do??? i am tired of living like this!!!
family or not a threat is still a threat and is still illegal,im really sorry your going through this i have a friend going through the same thing cept its the other way around with the age,she had to threaten to call the cops to get them to back off but it only lasted for a few weeks and then it just got worst , so my best advice if it gets really bad just please call the police or tell someone at your school, they can try to help you.and to your question about taking someone big down, hit them in the bridge of the nose or with any guy, wack him in the sac.
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Hallo!
O.K. so here's the deal. My brother takes me to school each morning in his car. Usually we would just leave at the last second, and get there in time. Now, we're leaving 30 minutes earlier to pick up his friend. I was o.k. with it, but now they're starting to smoke in the car and I get to school with my clothes smelling like smoke. Normally, I would just ask him to stop, but during last summer him and his ex-girlfriend had a baby when he was sixteen, and now I just feel bad for him a lot and I would feel guilty for asking him, because it's probably his way of dealing with the baby (Not that it's the right way.) What should I do?
P.S. not only do I need advice, I give advice,too. So if you need me..uh then yeah :) PL
if you dont want to smell like smoke id recomend bringing body spray in ur pack or w/e u have it should help
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My mom and dad separated and last year had a fight about me going to New York. Since that i have spoken to him but havent gone to visit him but he comes to see me at school. The problem is he is upset that i dont come to his house and i feel sad that i made him feel that way but i dont want to go because all he is going to do is pressure me with school work and i dont want that because i want to hangout with friends. I really dont want him feeling that way and i want to visit him so waht should i do.
Well,if you dont want to hurt him it wont hurt you to just go and visit. it all depends on if you want to make the sacrifice.good luck,byes.
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