I'm a 19 year old girl who lives in Arizona...nothing really more to say about that. I am engaged and will be married in October of 2006. Uh...I'm pretty much a nerd at heart. I like to play video games, tabletop RPG's, and cosplay. People always say I don't look like I'd be a nerd, so I guess that's a good thing? I think I give decent advice, however I do like to joke around so sometimes I will post witty/sarcastic advice, especially if the question is stupid.
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Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
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At 13 you should NOT be having sex. It doesn't matter how upset your parents will get, they only care about you. You need to tell them so you can take proper precautions.
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Okay so I need yalls help! My Grandma got a phone call monday night at like 10:45 and it was a prank call...(Of course they blocked their number so we cant find out who is it) so heres how the convo went (the letters represent the peoples names):
Granny: hello?
Them: Hello, is H there?
Granny: Who is calling?
Them: B
Granny: Who?
Them: B, You might want to take H to the hospital, he gave me aids last night.
Them: (Someone laughing histerically in the background)
Keep in mind "H" is my grandfather and the "B" represents me. Now i'm sorry but that isnt even a cute prank call...my grandmother lives alone most of the time so she was scared to go to bed. But anyways...we have an idea of who it is...me, my mom, and grandmother think it was my brother's friend..lets call him N. and also my brother's other friend...we'll call him J. Now the only reason with think it's N & J is because N is the only friend of my bro who knows my grandpa's name. And I'm sure J was the one who told him to use my name. Now hopefully your still with me LOL. We were trying to think of some clever ways to get them to confess...I think we should do some of these:
1) Sit them down and frankly ask if they did it
2) Ask them if they know how to block your number when you call sumone
3) Ask if they know anything about a prank phone call my grandmom recieved
I'm open to opinions on this so please feel free to come up with some ideas of your own (that was the whole point of this lol) and let me know. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll rate high (5) and please, NO SMART-ASSES! Thnkx a mil (link)
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Wow...uh anyone who uses AIDS as a joke seriously needs to get the crap beat out of them. I think you should take it to the police as serious harassment.
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My cousin/best friend is basically giving up on life. I had her join an after school activity with me but then she quit. Then she said shes just gonna stop working well in school and not worry about anything anymore. This is basically because of her peers and family. People think shes a pothead, and i siad "well maybe because you put on your myspace you smoke pot when you really dont" and her sister tells her shes a screw up and doesnt deserve to be on this planet. What can I do to help my cousin out and turn her back to normal and if not better? (link)
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If she is a pothead then she needs help.
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13 - Female
Me and My mom fight constantly. Wether its about the clothes I want to buy ( like their price ), the friends I hang out with,my cell phone, driving the golf cart around the neighborhood, how clean my room is, my grades, even what razor/shaving cream I want to use. We fight over everything. I`m not a bad kid, I don`t smoke or do drugs or get bad grades, but she treats my like I`m 5! What should I do, I hate that we fight all the time, she purposly says stuff to start a fight. ( Like she does things that she knows annoys me ! ) I`ll rate. (link)
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You're 13 years old! To me it sounds like you are living a pretty awesome life right now. Maybe you're a little spoiled.
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My Mom & Dad are having problems. Atleast that's what my Mom said. My Dad is worried about money issues and is mad at my Mom for not having a stable job (she helps the hospice with living assistence and doesn't get solid hours) He's also worried about my Mom's heart procedure coming up. She's getting her heart..."zapped"..I guess you could say..And he won't talk to me anymore. He shows no emotion other than anger. When he goes out he just leaves without saying where he is going. And he totally favors my sister, even though he says he doesn't. For my birthday this summer (august), he didn't get me anything. And my sister's birthday is in March..and he just recently bought her TWO electric guitars...and she doesn't even play!!! I just get so mad around him and I want him too atleast talk to me...at my softball game I got a homerun and he didn't say anything. I just don't know what too do anymore. =-/
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Honestly, I don't know what to say but I can't stand seeing something this important sit up there with no answer. I'd suggest talking to your school counsler because what is going on is an extreme form of abuse, and it's very wrong.
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OK so my mom and me never really got along but she was okay to live with and everything
now a days shes getting unbearable!! And I cant live with her anymore she drives me crazy... ON WEEKENDS she gets drunk sometimes and yells like crazy and she told me last night
"if your grades dont improove im going to make your life a living hell" basically meaning no phone because I usually talk to my b/f since he kinda lives like 30 minuts away and we dont see eachother often.. if I loose him I dont know what I will do.. Im in love with him and loosing him to me is just not an option
what can I do?? (link)
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Maybe you should get better grades.
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