Guaranteed...I'm probably younger than you think. I know there's a time and place for everything so at times I seem pretty mature and serious. But believe me when I'm with my friends I'm the biggest goofy goober around XD. Don't let my scary girl picture fool you. I'm just wise beyond my years.
Life is unpredictable. All the mysteries and surprises, you never know what may come your way BUT that's exactly what makes it worth while. So don't panic because you don't "have it all together" because in all honesty no one truly does. We all need advice sometimes and I love giving it out. Don't be afraid to inbox me because I'll be more than happy to try to help you with any problem. In closing: Peace, love and happiness.
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my twin sister has a boyfriend and they've been going out for like 4 or 5 months now and i cant stand it! i havent had a boyfriend and its already my third year in middle school and all the boys i like dont really like me like that! i always end up getttin hurt! im not ugly or anything but im kinda of jelious that my best friend (my twin) doesnt have time for me anymore! all i do is yell at her for any little reason, like kissing her fucking boyfriend in front of me or something!!! (link)
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Umm...you are really young. Guys will come to you eventually. But you should also go for them too. You want a boyfriend so put yourself out there, flirt. Like I said your young. Things will happen soon.
You shouldn't get mad at your sister and yell at her for kissing her boyfriend. If it does bother you just pull her to the say you would rather her not kiss him in front of you.
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My dad just recently told me he is gay. He hasnt told anyone his whole life accept for me. This is really difficult for me and I was wondering where I could find people to help support me through this hard and confusing time. (link)
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I'm sure this is hard to swallow but you can do it. Obviously your father trusts you to have told you something he's never told anyone else before.
So now let's think. What's so confusing about it? If this makes your father happy you should be okay with it. But it is hard to deal with. I suggest going to the website gurl.com then to the shout out boards. There should be a board about sexuality and people who know how to deal with it.
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I am 19 and my parents dont really allow me to do much. I feel like a child. My friends all make fun of me for being under such close watch and not being allowed to go places and do things like most 19 or 18 year old do, because i always have to ask my parents and hope that they will permit me to do something... I have no freedom. I've fairly recently gotten in trouble for trying to go out, because I said so, and I was like... its time to stop being controlled by my parents and get out and have some fun.
I had to deceive my parents so that i could do what i wanted to do. I couldn even leave the house without my mom looking out the door to see who was picking me up and to see if they were there yet...etc.... I didnt know my mom was going to follow me to the door, so that foiled my plan. I was going to walk up the road, but my mom was like "no, tell your friend to come pull up infront of the door". And then she saw that it was a male friend and not the female friend i told her it was. I got in a lot of trouble and got yelled at and lectured.. Now my parents say they dont trust me and i cant go anywhere or do anyyything. My friends say "you're 19, you can do what you want....etc."..
I want to know if it would be f***ed up or not if I were to just slip out the house and move one day and not tell my parents anything until I get there. I want to live with a certain guy, but, i mean, when i am ready to move in with him and when i'm sure thats what i want to do. And I will call my parents from my new residence, or better yet text them and be like "umm.... yeah.... i moved..."
They dont even want me meeting with this guy. They dont want me to meet with no guy or do anything. And I am so tired of my parents! I need to get away from them! I'm not going to even bother with introducing them to the guy, because they wont want me with him cuz he's 22 and i told my mom a little bit about him and she's like "you dont need to be with him. you dont need to be with anybody. You need to focus on school and focus on gettin yourself together first (work on myself in terms of anxiety problems etc.)" They just want to keep me as their boyfriend-less child for as long as they possibly can.
And I dont want to bother with telling them i plan on moving out. So do you think it would be messed up if i just moved out, and in with this guy, and just told them about it after the fact? Just so they know what happened to me.. and that way they cant do anything about it (link)
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Let's understand that your parents only do these things because they care about you but it seems like they have a problem with letting you go and letting you do what you want. Are you by any chance an only child?
If you do decide to move out, I suggest you tell your parents about it and then you could try and get your own place with their help maybe. I think this would be your best option.
But if you still want to move out with this guy. You should still tell your parents beforehand. I think they deserve at least that.
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i am 16 i really neeed to move out of my house.my dad just drinks all the time and my mom is always angry.because of my dad a have a sister that lives with me and she is constantly beating on me and yelling at me. how can i move out? (link)
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Let's really think about this situation. Do you have anywhere else stable to go? Do you think that you can support yourself? Do you have another guardian in mind?
If yes, to all three I say go for it. Pack up your stuff and go. Are you worried your parents will not let you? If so, I suggest seeking legal emancipation. This way your parents will have no rights to you. I just hope you have a job to support yourself.
Please get back to me on your situation.
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