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Location: South Carolina
Age: 13
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my dad came home drunk 2 nights ago and it got out of control. he packed his bags and left, and scared the shit out of me and my brother and my mom. hes done this like 6 times over the last 15 years when hes been married to my mom, and he cheated on her once when my brother was 7 and i was 6. my mom hid it from us, but had him arressted for a night. most ppl are funny and let go when their drunk, but he's a mean drunk. hes an alcoholic and he cant stop it, so my parents are getting a divorce, my dads gonna live by himself and me and my mom and my brother are moving to a smaller house sometime before december. its by our house now, but i've never lived in a small house and i'm going to miss my dad so much, i don't even know if they are going to give him visitation rights to see us unless he is sober for a certain amount of time. if you can say anything to make me feel better or if you've been through the same thing, i appreciate some advice.thanks (link)
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Well first of all I just want to say I am very sorry to hear about this. Also my dad goes nuts sometimes too. Although he is not drunk, he gets into these moods where he is so mean, and he blames stuff on everyone else, and he cusses and stuff. So I am not going to say I know what you are going through, but I will tell you this. My mom cheating on my dad and now they are divorced. I dont like my mom at all, but I thought I was going to miss her so much. But now, I realize that it is better off without her. And believe me it will be better off without your dad. Of course you are going to miss him, but in time you will realize that being without your dad is the best thing for your family, as well as you. Trust me, and I hope everything turns out ok.
Hope I helped:)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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Can your dad/father/parent be arrested for slapping/hitting you?
Heres the low down.
My mom doesnt live with me and my dad.
He blames everything on me.
He calls me everything in the book.
Uses the word fuck in every sentence.
Calls me worthless piece of shit, little fuck, bitch, bastard, remarked about braces and he said fuck your teeth, says "I'm getting sick of you", "go live with your mom".
He accuses my mom of EVERYTHING.
He says that people break into our houses, just to justify that he's better than my mom.
He apologizes, but it's getting to be worthless sorries. I get it all the time.
He's stubborn and he won't listen to anyone.
He's over protective.
I'm getting sick of it. I mean I can take it.
I've been taking it, but sometimes I want to just run away to friends houses just to get away from all the shit.
What should I do?
THANKYOU IN ADVANCE. (link)
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Well you should turn him in, because that's pretty strong verbal abuse. Also you should definetley move in with your mom. I mean that is where you will go anyways, if your dad goes to jail. But you should definetley turn him in.
Hope I helped:)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
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When I was little, my parents never spent time with me, never talked to me unless it was about something i did wrong, and really brought me down.
Now I'm 16, and I'm used to living without my parents basically. They're there, but not there for me.
I think my childhood led up to the reason why I don't have any esteem at all.
I'm trying to make up for those years by hanging out with my friends- and they're calling me "clingy".
I need to try and make up for those little positive moments i never had as a kid, I need to get my esteem past the level of zero.
Any advice on how I can do this? (link)
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My dad was the exact same way. He picked favorites and as you probably guessed, I wasn't it. What you have to do in order to get your self esteem up is go out with someone. (boyfriend wise) And as for your friends, they're not true friends if they say your to clingy. When it comes to friends, there is no such thing as clingy. I am 13/f and my whole life, I didn't have anyone I could talk to, until about a year ago when I met my BEST friend Mikey. He is there to talk to me about anything, and even my personal stuff, I go to him to talk about it. So what you need to do is find you a special friend, who you could just go to with anything. I mean you could be open with him, tell him anything, cry on his shoulder, or just laugh with. That will get your self esteem up for sure.
Hope I helped :)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
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My parents will not let me go one day without them getting on my case about anything. When I've done my chores, they're getting me on my case about my driving. When thats done, they resort to just saying I need to shape up.
I've got a busy schedule, and I just want one day to relax when I dont have anything planned. I tell them I want a day off to myself, but they get angry.
How can I get them to just give me some space when I need it?
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Well my dad is the same way about me. Although I think it might be for a different reason. Anyways, just tell your parents that you really need a break. And I think the person below me put this, if your old enough just stand up for yourself. But no matter how old you are, you can't have them push you around like this. Just tell them "look I really need a break, yall are pushing me to hard, and I just need to have some time to myself" and if they don't understand then just explain to them why you need your space. I am sure everything will be fine.
Good Luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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No one understands me. At all.. I cannot talk to my Mom okay?? It's just not that easy. Through school I try so hard to be someone, loved by teachers, known by friends.. I mean I have friends and most teacher love that I get awsome grades but my Mom doesn't. It seems like she couldn't careless if I dropped dead. I came home early from camping because I had my periode and my Mother tweeked saying schools not everything (love story**summer reading stuff like that**) Well it is to me. Im a staright A student and my mom could careless. I mean if my brother Scott actually got a D she'd be SOO proud! I know people might say she expects more out've me but everytime I do my best she ssays I could do better, or to try harder and she acts like im not her daughter. (link)
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Well I am sorry your having such a rough time but the only solution is to talk to her. My dad used to be the same way. All your mom is doing is trying to make it stay that your a straight A student. Like she knows you want to impress her so she always says you can do better. And deep down she knows you are trying your hardest, but you should talk to her. Just go up to her and be like "mom I know you expect a lot more out of me but I am doing th best I can, and it really hurts me because sometimes I feel that you couldn't care less about me" and just tell her how you feel.
Hope everything works out ok!!!
-MCRxoLoVeR
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