Me and my mother were in the mall the other day and we went into Hot Topic, And you know those little sex shirts that they have, well my mom bought one!, ya and she is over wight so it was kind of gross, But that was not the worse part, then i hear her and my step father haveing sex, for the theird time! one tims my friend was over to! My problem is that when ever i talk or see them its like mad awkward, i cant help but want to say whats your problem or mom how was your night? how to I handle this?? And i dont really like the way my mother is buying clothes that I should eb wearing not her. what do i do??
sit her down and talk to her about it. maybe she is going through some kind of mid-life crisis. you are not a baby anymore so now your mom is trying to act like she is 19 again. i think if you talk to her and connect with her she will understand. and maybe ya'll can go shopping together at a place where she can find cute clothes and it might even bring ya'll closer together :]
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My family (husband and 2 kids) have not had a real family vacation in 8 years. My kids asked to go to Disney World. They are ages 15 and 12. I booked a 1 week vacation about 4 months ago. We are scheduled to leave June 28th. My mother has since been diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer. Her surgery is June 27th. My only sibling is flying to NJ from CA to be with my mom. I told my husband to go on the Florida trip without me because I felt that the right thing for me to do would be to stay with my mother. He is refusing to go without me and blaming me for ruining our vacation. Is it right for him to blame me? We can’t cancel without losing a lot of money. We will not be able to book another trip anywhere in the near future because fuel prices are sky high, and we would have already lost a bundle. Do I go on the trip or stay with my mother who may be dying in the near term?
first of all your husband is not seeing the full picture. your mom needs you and would you really have fun knowing that your mom might need you?
sit your kids down and explain the situation, they are old enough to understand that you need to be with your mom. tell your husband to go with your kids so they can still have fun and you can devote your complete attention on the one who needs you the most right now, your mom.
ps i hope your mom gets better and i will pry for yall :]
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