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i'm Brittany and though I'm only 14, I'm really good at the psycology of teens. I usually don't use the answer "you should go to a counsler" or anything similiar to that. Although that is a good idea in many situations, I tend to realize that most teens have thought about that and most of them refuse to talk to a counsler about it. If you want a straight up answer without all the "you shouldn't have done that" talk, let me know.
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hi guys i have this big problem. first off, i am almost 15 & my parents are in their 50s they are very old fashioned. they only let me hang out w/ girls im only allowed to talk to boys in school or on the phone in the daytime. they always see hanging out with boys as a "date" & never let me hang out w/ my friends that are boys just because they are boys. i think this is unfair ive tried everything possible to convince them otherwise please help me pleassse
when your telling your parents about convos and stuff tht you and a certain guy had, say stuff tht shows u don't like him. For example, something like "He tripped today, haha, he's such a dork". It worked with my parents. If he's younger than you (as in a grade younger), you can say something like "Yep, he's another 7th grade dork." Then tell your parents on how 7th graders are immature and stuff. Don't actually flat out say "I think it is unfair that I can't hang out with guys" and so on. You need to use psycology on them. Let me know if you need any more tips.
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-brittany
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ok heres the situation. your 15 yrs old. u never liked your dad, you hated him and you had this huge fite. and then he beats you wif a wooden stick until it broke. your mom was yelling at him and everything. and he hits your mom because she tries to stop him from hitting you. and then and then... a couple days later they act like nothings happened. yout mom doesnt want anyone else outside the family to kno this so she doesnt calls the police. you realli cant stand it that everyones living on fine and you get mad seeing your bruises. wat do you do?
My friend had the same problem as you, except not that extreme. Then one day during gym, one of her friends saw the bruises on her legs and asked her what they were from, she said it was from her parents. That girl told the school counslers who notified child services. I carpooled with the girl that got abused, and right when school got out, she told me she had to go to the office. It took a while before she told me what happened. When her mom picked her up, she had to speak to the child service lady. She still lives with her parents and I don't know if anything has changed.
The advice most people would give you is go to child services. But if I were you I can honestly say I wouldn't do that. I would probrally just try my best to stay out of their way. Right when I know I would be able to make it on my own, I would move out. So save up and good luck.
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-brittany
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