Ok...im 14 and i have been made fun of since 4th grade....everyday i get called gay and it just makes me feel terrible...and i dont know why they do it ...i make good grades and im a good person... i jsut would like to know what to do...
There are alot of mean people in this world, (Im one of those mean people) It sucks to be made fun of, and if you dont do anything to those people to cause them to call you names. More than likely they are just jealous,they might be jealous of your good grades, or just the way you are nice person.Theres no way to really stop kids from doing this, I mean you could tell the principal or dean or someone to talk to them and tell them to cut it out. But your 14 years old being a tattle tell aint really something you should be. Just next time one of them say something to you, be like listen Im so sorry that you dont feel good enough about your self so you have to talk about me to make yourself feel better. Let them know that they dont bother you (even if they really do) Because if you let them know they dont have any effect on your life ..sooner or later they will cut it out. Dealing with it personally to yourself tho, just know that you are a good person. And when they call you names just be sure to tell yourself they only want to be you.Trust me those kids have just as much of a hard time as you do in life. They all suffer from something just not everyone knows.
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Ok for my birthdya this year(14) im going to have it at a theme park. I was only invite 5 friends intill my whole class some how found out.Should I tell them im not having one then invite only the ones i was gonan invite or ininvite all the girls, it really expensive and for sure we are going
HELP
I think you should just tell the people in class that your plans have changed for your birthday, and just let the 5 girls that you really want to go with you, go to the theme park. You'll have more fun because it will be less people, and you wont have to try and make sure everyone is haveing a good time, plus if your paying for everyone its cheaper on you. Happy 14th bday also.
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Is there a way so find out someones screen name (like on the computer) on AIM if you have there name?
(besides asking them...duh)
Thanks
That info thingy, but you have to type in information about them, and it will give you a list of screen names, (its kind of a guessing game) But if the person doesnt have their name listed in directory you wont be able to find it.Goodluck.
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Hey, i hope you don't no who this is because the person that i am in love with is you! So will you please tell me what i should do, or like tell me who you like!
Okay..Im not sure who this is but then again I think I do know who this is, sorry to tell you but I aint the person your in love with, but maybe you like me...As for me being in love or likeing someone..I dont like or love anybody. And Im not looking for a relationship.
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my fingernails are pretty long...but VERY thin! everytime i go to do something they either break or bend easy! i want hard findernails and not for them to bend as easy anymore...does anyone know how i can do this?
Buy some fingernail polish.. (Sally Henson) hardenin polish it will prolly help. Or see someone who does nails and ask them what they would do.
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this month is my birthday and i dont kno what to do since im turning 14 and i am 2 old for a sleepover.. so what should i do?
I know you said your too old for a sleep over, but I dont think so, your never to old to invite some friends over and watch movies, eat popcorn and all other junk food, and talk about anything and everything. Just have fun with a sleepover, and dont worry bout bein too old for haveing a sleep over.
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is there any other way to get rid of moles besides a dermatologist removing them? i have some in embarrassing spots that i could never tell my mom or a dermatologist and i was wondering if there was any way that i could do it
Go to the doctor, the doctor will not care where there at, plus you should have them checked out to make sure theres nothing more than a mole there and you dont have cancer or anything, Not tryin to scare you but you can never be to sure of anything.
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Hey guys! Okay, so theres this guy, and well the whole story went, I liked him and I was scared to tell him that I liked him but then one day on the phone he went and told ME that he liked me...I was really happy and everything, well I recently found out that he's been saying stuff about me behind my back,I dont go to his school being that he is younger than me, but yeah, hes been saying that Im obbsessed with him, and that he doesnt like me,and that He just plain doesnt like me and ALLLLL this stuff to ALL my friends and stuff, so. I found out that i have to see him next weekend at a play...Im SO EXCITED. My friend told him that I was going and he looked reallllllly nervous, so! I need help! Whats something I can say to him to make him completley shut up and like pee his pants...I want something to diss him really bad! im 16/f! thankss
Since hes younger than you,or a grade behind you or whatever. Just be more mature than him because he sounds immature and ignore him and act as if you dont know him and could careless. Then he'll realize him talkin bout you is not hurting your feelings a bit. Plus you can do better your older and theres no reason for him to be acting stupid like that.
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I've just had my train track braces removed and been given a retainer. I didn't think to ask my orthodontist, but...if I wear my retainer more (like round the house after school as well instead of just at night), will it make my teeth more likely to stay in place or move quicker or whatever? Would wearing it more than just at night do more harm or good?
Thanks!
It will do better, and might speed up the time of haveing to wear..Just wear it and night and if you want more than that. It cant do harm, then when you go back to the orthodotist ask about wearing it more often.
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In my school people get picked on school temas basically because they are friends with the coach. they could be not as good as one person but if they know the coach they will still make it. well i dont know the coach and im trying out for basketball but i dont know if i should because they probally wont pick me cause i dont know the coach cause im ok at basketball im not the best but im not bad (sorry if this is confusing) my question is though should i try out or not?
TRY OUT, you should always have confidence in yourself to do something, it doesnt matter if your scared you wont succeed, just go for it. I tried out for basketball my freshman year of highschool, I wasnt even half way decent but I wanted to play, I got out there on try out days and tried my best, I didnt make it but I left knowing I tried my best. You do the same, but I hope you actually make it ! :) :)
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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.
I completely agree with you, because I have asked a question to recieve good advice, and this one person responded in a sarcastic way. But it doesnt really bother me I pay no mind, to those who are immature and cant think of a real way to answer a question. I dont really think we should suspend them, it doesnt really matter, because compared to those 30 or so people who are rude, we have hundreds of people who actually care. Plus your always gonna have rude opinions, because people see things differently.
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I got my cartilage pierced in august, and I didn't have a problem with it until now. Everytime I take the earring out to try and put a new one in, it seems like the back of my ear scabbed over in the 5 seconds that an earring wasn't in. I have to push the earring in, and eventually I get it in, and it's usually fine. Today I changed it again, and I tried to put a new one it-a post hoop, and I couldn't get it in cause it hurt. Then the back of my ear started to bleed a little. Does that mean it's infected? Or just irritated? Should I take the earring out and let it close up, or is it something that will go away? What should I do? I don't want to take it out. Thanks
I got my 3 hole pierece last june and the stupid thing would stay infected, (with puss) and they were sore, and scabby. I never took mine out, and now their finally healed completely...Your ear might just take a long time to heal. And to keep it from getting worse dont change the earring because each time it infects it an irritates it even more.The best kind of earring to keep in the hole is surgical steel. Just leave it alone and every night before you go to sleep or just when ever you think about it, put alcohol on it and turn the earring, sooner or later it should just clear up.
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what are some movies with belly dancing in them? i really want to learn how to belly dance and i try and try and it still doesnt work, so anyone that knows any belly dancing movies please tell me or any other advice! thanks
honey
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13/m
hi,
i've taken the whole am-i-fat testing and stuff from different websites, and they all say the same thing, that i don't weight enough. i don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. my doctor i guess knows about this, but hasn't really told me to do anything. so... what can i do? i eat until i'm full, and thats it. please don't say "eat more!". i'll rate you if you give extremely good advice, give extremely funny advice, or give extremely bad advice.
yours,
the thin one
Sounds to me like your just naturally skinny, just be happy with yourself. You will gain wait when the right time comes.
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well, about a year ago, i got hit by a car and broke my thigh bone, the doctor put two screws in it.. recently, the doctor told me i had to go into day sergery to get them out, i asked what it was, i he sed that you had to be awake throughout the whole entire thing! i got so scared... should i go though it, cuz he sed i have a choice, does it hurt alot?? help!
It might be painful, but the doctor feels its time for those screws to be removed, so do it. Dont be scared, it cant be too painful otherwise they would put you to sleep, plus they might just numb the area where their removing the screw and you can just lay back and try not to think about what their doin.
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ok i need a serious answer on this because i am really confused. i want to shave "down there" but i don't know how because last time i did i got major razor burn and itched forever and it was soooo uncofortable so i don't know how to do it and how much to take off... do you shave all of it off? please help
I rememeber the first time I shave "down there" it sucked, I walked around for days with a crook tryin to scratch unnoticeably. The first couple times you shave its going to itch like crazy ! But sooner or later you'll get use to it. And dont shave day after day or you will get razor burn and lil red bumps. And when you shave always use shaving cream or you will get razor burn. And depending on what you want to do is how much you shave it? Like if you want to shave the lips but leave the stuff up above go for it, but the best way is to shave all of it off. The itch is something you'll have to get use to, and if you hate it that bad just keep your self trimmed around your bikini line and keep the hairs trimmed to a minimum.
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