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you can email me: xasktiffany@yahoo.comI like dancing, music, Jake Gyllenhaal, t-shirts, comedy, summer nights, funny movies, and photography.
I hate perfectionists, although I can be one, people who edit their pictures with peace signs and dumb quotes, and flies.
I like giving advice. I don't know if I'm any good at it. Nobody has told me either way.
Ask me whatever, I'll do what I can to help you out.
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What keeps you goin evryday? why do you wake up and do the things you do? making coffee,makin love? is life worth it?
I wake up everyday to find a new thing to live for. Or to make people laugh and to laugh as much as I can.
(although sometimes i feel like there is no point, but everyday i find something new, like friends, good music, or my dog haha)
xxtiffany
Hi there,
I am looking for speaker covers for my stereos. the speakers are in good shape, the covers are just worn. I live in Ontario, Canada, and have no idea where to look for speaker covers.
Any ideas?
http://community.sonikmatter.com/forums/index.php?/topic/34320-making-a-speaker-cover/
That might help. I tried looking up places to just but the covers on google, but I couldn't really find anything :( sorry!
xxtiffany
Monday, August 3, 2009 at 12:19PM
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I have wanted to avoid this subject. I thought that it had no affect on me.
When I saw the breaking news on the television, that Michael Jackson was in a coma, I said , “Good, I hope he dies.”
Then they reported that he had died.
I said , “Good, another pedophile gone.”
Wow, Sometimes I surprise myself by my heartlessness. I am such a black and white person. You are either right or wrong in my eyes, and if I deem you wrong, then may whomever you believe in have mercy on you because I certainly will not.
I watch American Idol. It’s one of my favorite television shows. Last season when they did the Michael Jackson music tribute, I did not watch. I made a point of not watching. I hated to miss an episode, but still couldn’t believe that they would showcase a “known” pedophiles music.
I have made a point as well, to not listen to his music, since the charges were made.
That was difficult, especially during Halloween. Thriller has always been my favorite. I use to set my computer speakers on the porch and play Thriller over and over again. One year a group of parents all started doing the Thriller dance in front of my house. That was the best Halloween ever!! Can you imagine a group of people some in costume, some not in front of your house doing the Thriller dance? It was great!
But then when all of the allegations hit, then I personally boycotted Michael Jackson, as I have a son and found the whole mess apprehensible.
Since his death I have watched all of the interviews, and specials about Michael Jackson and his life.
It has finally dawned on me, that I don’t know for a fact that he was guilty. I will never know. More than likely no one will read this who KNOWS for a fact if he was guilty.
Of course he was found not guilty by a jury. But we all went through the OJ trial and we know that our system is not foolproof. There again, we Don’t know, but he wrote a book….
I read a lot of Blogs, and comments about Michael Jackson, and it’s such a hot topic. Everyone seems to be locked into their opinion.
I was locked into mine. But in death, it seems as though I am able to give Michael Jackson the benefit of a doubt that I couldn’t give while he was living.
It almost seems as though a family member has died. I did grow up with his music. I never knew how strongly I felt before, and I , myself, find it very odd. The human brain and how it works is itself very odd.
If we could give people the benefit of a doubt in life that we do in death, wouldn’t that be a beautiful thing?
The one and only person I have found that can do this is my Mother. She has such a beautiful soul. She emphasizes the good in everyone. And when she recognizes a persons bad traits, she prays that the good will prevail, and only focuses only on that. I am so lucky to have her as a Mother! Some may think of her as naive, but I truly believe that she is more astute than ALL who judge her !
I have to go to ADSAP classes, for a DUI from 2 years ago. No,sorry to disappoint , I am NOT perfect! There is a woman who goes to the classes I do. She is so honest with herself and all of us, I cringe. There are some secrets that you should take to the grave. However, she does share hers and she said how the memories haunt her at night, when she lays down for sleep. So she takes a sleeping medication.
I also, take a sleeping pill. If not, then every bad decision I have made in my life haunts me at night, and I toss and turn.
I started connecting the dots this morning and thought that Michael Jackson, must have some really bad demons if he had to take a anesthesia to help him sleep.
The reports have been that he was in a lot of pain.
I don’t know, the Pepsi commercial was a long time ago. How much pain could he be in?
Maybe he did do wrong to those children and couldn’t live with himself when it was time to lay down.
Maybe he endured so much wrong that those memories hindered his sleep.
Point is , We don’t know. He lived such a different life than all of us.
I don’t even think that most of us could comprehend what his “normal” was.
He was odd to us.
He was different.
But what did he have to compare his life to?
If he was indeed a pedophile then he is in the dirt where he belongs.
But if he wasn’t, could you imagine living in a WORLD, not just a Nation, where everyone thought that he was?
I have very mixed feelings.
I love the video I have posted. I love the beginning where he’s going through a sea of paparazzi,( I know it was green screened) looking very solemn and beaten, and then performs to an empty theatre. And the title “You are not Alone.”
But he was alone wasn’t he. And I think the video shows this. The irony is mind-blowing.
It shows that irregardless of how much money and fame you have, you are still in this world alone.
A world full of fans loved this man. But at the end of the day, he was still one man, alone.
I think that , as I have said before I give him the benefit of a doubt now.
And I may go so far as to say that I am in mourning.
I suppose my question is :
did anyone else have a change of heart with Michael Jacksons death?
My opinion about him didn't change.
I loved Michael's music and he was such a talented dancer.
You have to take a look at his life. He was in the spotlight at such a young age, and he didn't have a very good home life. His father was abusive, and it showed that that had a lifelong impact on him. For example, his dad always told him he had a big nose, and look at him before he died. He barely had a nose. I've also heard stories that his brothers would bring girls home at night, and Michael would hear them because he shared a room with them...that's gotta mess a kid up.
I don't think he was a pedophile. I think that the whole Neverland/Peter Pan/hanging out with kids thing was because he was trying to live out the childhood he never had. There's no proof that he did anything bad to those boys. Sure the whole "share your bed" thing was really weird, but I really think that that was all it was to him.
I watched his funeral and I think it was Brooke Shields who said that when she was with Michael they were like two kids, always laughing and having fun. That shows that 'normal' to Michael was acting like a kid.
I think he really wanted to be a normal guy. Yes, he was a musician, but he was also a father, a brother, and a son. He was a musical icon and legend. So many artists today have been influenced and inspired by his work and I think it really is a shame that he died. He left behind three kids and an unbelievable legacy.
xxtiffany
I need to make birthday invitations for my girlfriends suprise birthday party. I got the paper I want to use picked out I just need to find a place where I can use col fonts and stuff my computer doesnt have it on it where can I go?
You can download fonts for any kind of word processing program you have. Google search: free font download for ___________ (if you have microsoft word, then put free font download for microsoft word...haha)
You can also hand write them depending on how many you have to make. But other than that, the answer below mine covered pretty much everything.
xxtiffany
hey i want to try something new - art of photography.
what site has all the editing i need to have the best pictures taken and also has tips on using the camera and a lot of stuff i should learn about photogrpahy. Thanks! =)
it depends on what kind of camera you are using
are you taking digital photos? or are you using a 35mm? if you are using a digital you could probably just google photography tips or something along those lines. if you are using a 35mm youll have to learn how to develop film (although im sure you can send it in somewhere to be developed)
when you figure out what kind of camera you want to use, write back in my inbox
xxtiffany
13/f
what can i read for the summer thats somewhere from 200-500 pages long? i need some good quality interesting books that ill like
Snow Flower and the Secret Fan - Sara Lee
Nineteen Minutes - Jodi Piccoult
The Harry Potter Series
xxtiffany
EDIT:
Also try Twilight and the other books in the series by Stephanie Meyers.
I don't have much of a sweat problem, but my some of my shirts tell otherwise. I'm 100% sure it's not because i'm sweating, but it's my deoderant. I have stains on the underarms of my shirts that look like patches of sweat. So, my question is, is there any way possible to get rid of these stains?
You could be putting too much deodorant on. Also, try a deodorant thats like invisible. I use dove ultimate clear and I dont have any problems.
xxtiffany
I need some really easy to do, really quick gorgeous hairdos that i can do before school. I want something different, but still really easy. Only Straightening (No Curling etc...) (I only have straighteners lol)
I usually have it down, or in a bun, so something a bit different from that please!
I have about 10mins max. in the mornings to do my hair, so not long. I will practise so that it comes naturally, but i also want something i could wear non-school?
My Hair:
Straight, about 2/3 inches past my shoulders, and blonde/chestnut. I have Layers, and a small side fringe put in.
Sorry to be fussy lol ! Thanks in advance for you help! (Websites that show how to so it, and what it looks like would be great!)
Ponytail, pigtails, braids, scrunch it, half ponytail.
xxtiffany
I've been wanting to try the Mineral Power makeup from Maybelline. Alot of people say that this perticular makeup feels great on your skin, and it suppost to cover up like crazy. I now use the Pure Makeup. I'm just looking to try a new product. I like something that dosent feel thick, looks really natural, and covers up pretty good. Like blemishes and dark circles. I have maybe...medium dark circles. But, just tell me on what you think of the line. I'm thinking of using the foundation, loose powder, concealer, and blush. Does it really cover well? And does it feel good on your skin? Does it go on really natural? But, just give me your opinion on the product, if you use it. Thanks so much for all your help!
Bare minerals stuff is awesome. I suggest that.
xxtiffany
I'm 17 years old. How can I convince my mom to let me get it done? I'm a ggood kid never in trouble. I think they're cute! At first she was like suuure. Then she started asking her friends and says "it leads to sex." YEA RITE. Omg. I can't believe she said that! My older brother told her "Well if she wants it, let her get it!" I really want it done! Any suggestions??
Don't bring it up too often, or she'll get annoyed. Talk to her again and it won't hurt to remind her that you are a good kid, get good grades, etc. Offer to pay for half of it. If she won't let you, you have one more year until you can just get it done yourself. haha
xxtiffany
For our project we have to present 8-10 senteces of any topic we want, memorized! And we must have something to show or pass around, whether it's an item or a picture. Any ideas on what i can do mine on? My friends from last semester said they did their's on sports but i don't do sports...
Talk about how to make a french food, and bring it in. Or a family member or friend. Something like that, but the food is good cause then the class can eat it haha.
xxtiffany
Ok remember the Zenon movies on Disney Channel??? Well is there any way to get those songs, (like the ones by Protozoa) from the movies????
I've searched Everywhere and I cant find them!
Thanks a bunch!
Did you try iTunes? Or google searching them to find links to buying them. There is always limewire, but thats illegal.. You can look for Zenon CDs in like the disney store or any store that sells cds and stuff
xxtiffany
my face is really oily, even though I wash it twice a day!!!
is there any kind of lotion or anything to keep it from being oily??
Keeps your hands off your face
I don't know about lotion, but there are oil sheets that you can buy to wipe the oil off of your face, they work well
xxtiffany
Hey, my name is kendraa and I need a new sn for aim. im 14/f
It could have to do with my name or include fiaa. I need an acronym for Fia, im a girly girl into showbiz any ideaS?
omg x kendraa
itsxkendraa
I don't understand what you mean by needing an acronym for fia.
When you go to AIM to create a sn, they have a sn "generator" if you will, where you can insert words and things and it'll give you ideas.
xxtiffany
This is going to sound gross, but I really need some help, because I have a singing test coming up. Ya'll know when you have that mucus stuff in your throat? Well, I know you're supposed to cough it up, but I'm not sure how. Like, if i clear my troat, it comes into the very back of my mouth at most, and I think it'd be too gross to spit that.
It's been like this for a whileee now, and I'd really appreciate any help with this!
Don't eat or drink dairy before your singing test, it causes more mucus, I believe.
Maybe this will help:
http://www.ehow.com/how_2099907_eliminate-mucus.html
xxtiffany
from huntington beach california
im a minor,16
how would i get transportation there with no adult?
and what would the costs be
You can probably get a bus there.
Just look up your local bus schedulings. I know its not much help, but thats what you should do.
xxtiffany
So to delete your website history i know you have to go to tools, and then like internet options. But one problem, i can't find the thing that says "tools." THANKS.
At the top of your internet window, it says:
file, edit, view, history, bookmarks, then tools.
haha
xxtiffany
My History teacher was talking about Kosovo [Serbia], and some guy says [as a joke] 'So we probably shouldn't go there during spring break?' [Since tons of countries are getting involved, rioting, ect.] She also briefly mentioned something about a website where you can go and see the places where the government doesn't want you to visit to. She didn't mention anything else about it because the bell had just rung.
I'm really not too sure of what to search for on Google, and I'm getting pretty weird results..
Does anyone know of a site like this?
I have never heard of a site, but the easiest thing to do would be to ask your teacher.
xxtiffany
Next year I'm going to be taking a Social Psych class in school and I was wondering if anyone knew any websites that had stuff all about it, like an example of what I want is:
When two people are holding hands, the person who is holding their hand on top is the more dominant one in the relationship.
I want to know stuff like that.
Thanks! :)
http://www.socialpsychology.org/expts.htm
I just google searched it, and it gave me tons of web sites.
xxtiffany
16/f
I have long (midback), wavy, thick hair. I straighten my hair about 2-3 times a week. My current straightener (http://www.folica.com/Maxiglide_Hair__d1778.html) just isn't working anymore. It leaves my hair straight, yeah, but a less defined straight. I'm looking for a straightener that will leave my hair pin straight and that will show off my angles and layers.
Any straightener ideas?
Get the chi, its the most amazing hair straightener out there :)
xxtiffany