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I don't have time for a shower in the morning, so I take one before bed. And sometimes I'll wake up and my hair is frizzy. Is there a quick way to bring down the frizz????

maybe try not to take one exactly before bed. i have the same thing .. i go to bed at about 10:30 on a schoolday so i shower at about 8 so my hair is quite dry when i go to bed & doesnt fizz too much.
plus it feels better because going to bed with wet hair is really annoying i think :/
i'd say try showering about 2 hours before you go to bed cause then your hair will be dry.
& of course you can use anti frizz spray etc..

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i'm so nervous for tomorrow, i'm getting my picture re-taken. i don't know what to do or wear or anything- the last one i got was so incredibly awful. but maybe i just think i'm ugly or something? i don't know.

here's the thing, when i look in the mirror, i don't look great but i look okay. then when i see myself in pictures i look so awful, and other times i look even better than i normally do. it makes no sense. i know this is going to sound silly, but my face is really lopsided. people say no one's face is perfectly symmetrical, but mine is sooo noticeable. my left eye like, droops down and so does my eyebrow which causes me to constantly wear my side bangs in my face covering that eye so no one notices. in my last school photo, the one that was originally taken, (tomorrow is re-takes like i said), my hair is covering the other eye and i look really bad. but i've seen myself in other photos with it out of my face and i look really, bad too.
ugh i'm just so nervous and freaking out, i really want to look my best and get a nice photo. any tips? & should i wear my hair in my face or out of it?

hii(:
noones face is perfect.
& i wouldnt worry too much about the picture. i bet noones gonna notice it as much as you because most people are too busy looking at their own pic.
but as the person below said, try wearing something bright.
you can also maybe put on eyeliner & mascara cause that'll draw attention to your eyes.
and why dont you just smilee? cause then people cant really say anything against it if you look happy. a happy picture often looks better then some supermodel pouting.

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Does anyone know any good songs about a guy you like dating another girl?
Or him choosing her over you?

Pop, rock, or alternitive gernres, please.

Also, don't list songs that are extremely popular. I've most likely heard them already.

maybe 'learning to fall' - boys like girls
its from the guys point of view though.
hope you didnt know it already :P
xx

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I use to love the Disney Channel and could sit for hours watching it. On the weekends I would be glued to that television! When I was little I watched things like The Care Bears, My Little Pony, and The Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh but later I watched The Proud Family, That's So Raven, and Even Stevens (Shia LaBeouf is awesome). Now, I can't stand to watch that stuff! Especially with the Jonas brothers and Hannah Montana / Miley Cyrus. I can't even STAND to watch The Suite Life of Zack & Cody!

I'm 14 though and, like I'm saying, I use to LOVE Disney. Why don't I any more? My friends like it...

its normal. i used to watch disney channel as well & i still watch 'thats so raven' sometimes even though i'm turning 17 in a few weeks haha [:
but the shows are aimed at people with a certain age. winnie the pooh, care bears etc are aimed at children who are like 6-10 years old. it's normal that you dont like them anymore because your brain works differently now.
i used to watch winnie the pooh as well when i was about 10. & i always found it sooo exciting etc. and then recently when i was babysitting I watched it again & i found it really really boring.
it's because my brain is 'older' now and handles it differently.
& thats probably what's happening to you. 'age' doesnt always matter. i mean i know this guy who is also 14 and looks & acts like 18.
it's just like playing with barbies or something x]
you just reach a certain age where it's not exciting anymore. it always depends on the person.
i stopped playing with barbie when i was 11. all my friends did when they where like 8 [ or at least thats what they said]
i guess youre just ahead of your friends but thats not bad.
just try finding different TV shows that you like.
its not the end of the world [:
hope i helped. good luck!

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15 and still haven't developed boobs?
(as in completely flatchested, not small)
i know its completely repulsive and im so worried,i feel so self conscious and hate my body because of it
im 107 lbs, almost 5'4, have my period and all other signs of puberty (including hips and an otherwise curvy figure), and my mom started developing in junior high
ive also heard that you develop boobs a year or two before your period,and i've already had mine and they're still not here
i've asked this question a lot on here and no answers seem to be from people in the same position as me
thats why im so completely obsessive and worried over this is because there seems to be no one out there like me
is anyone else like me?/has anyone else been like me in the past and eventually got them?

dont worry. when i was 14/15 i didnt have big boobs either. dont worry too much, they'll eventually start developing. you can try seeing a doctor if youre worried smth is wrong with you (:

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Okay heres the thing I know that this is gonna sound wierd but I keep smelling the smell of death it can be off my clothes or if I am walking in the street or my house at random points and I am the only one that can smell it, Does anyone know what can be causing this??
All help is appreciated on this as I feel that I am going insane!!
lxxxx

lOl i dont think its that serious. sometimes people go through this. but what does 'death' smell like to you? like maybe its not death, maybe its just the scent of your washingmashine or something. i bet everyone things death smells differently as well. like i'd think it smells the way old people smell like. dont ask me why haha.
but honestly, i dont think its serious, cause death doesnt have a smell besides the smell that a dead body gets but thats not death, its bacteria. if it bothers you too much, try wearing perfume (:

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how do i turn myself fully anime like an anime character and not just change my face to look anime my whole body?? if anyone knows how please tell me how.

well it's quite unlikely to do that no offence :S

but i guess you could use certain make up to make your eyes look anime. and maybe contacts that give you a special eyecolor!?

anime characters mostly have longish hair right? [sry not too sure] so i guess you could let it grow and dye it purple or smth :P since many anime characters have purple, blue, green, pink hair.
you can also go to a hairdresser and ask for a certain haircut that looks anime.

and animes have a very toned and slim figure right? you could just work out to get that.

but it's unlikely to look completely anime.

i dont know if this helped a lot :S

good luck though

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Everytime I look in the mirror, I see white stuff on the tip of my eyelashes and it's driving me crazy! I don' know what it is and it certainly isn't normal because i don't see anyone with white stuff at the tip of their eyelashes. And I doubt that it's dandruff.

Does anyone know?

It's actually quite normal. the tip of my eyelashes are whitish as well. do you have black eyelashes? becaus ethen it's easier to see. but you might also not see it by others because it's very light, almost transparent.
just put mascara on them because the paint will cover it.
but it's no big deal really. some have it more, some less and some dont have it at all.

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ok so i have a 'msg me' button from whateverlife on myspace and lately it quit working. the add me one still works, but the msg me always goes to a page sayin "an error occured while.. " somethin somethin. is anyone else having this problem and how can i fix it? i've gone to whateverlife and tried a few different buttons but all the msg me ones are saying that.

i think it has nothing to do with your page because it also happenes to me sometimes. or other stuff doenst always work. myspace is a bit random when it comes to these things. but i think it should be okai again in a few days. if not try getting a new banner maybe.
:]]

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i have trouble dealing with embarrassment. like if i do something that i find even slightly weird, it'll haunt me for weeks. for example, at my school they were walking around interviewing people about april fools jokes, so i randomly walk up to them after my friend and told them, which after i felt like a complete loser because idk i thought i looked weird or whatever. so part of me is like, come on its nothing! but then the other part is like, wow im embarrassed. so what is a good way to deal with embarrassment?

thanks :)

dont worry too much about it. i have the same problem though. haha
well why don't you try doing something you can be really proud of? cos that way you'll think more of that stituation than the embarrassing one.
and also , TRUST ME people don't see you like you see yourself. it's a lil sad but most people care more about themselves and what they do. just like youre thinking what you did was stupid, another person might feel the same way about something he/she did [maybe even a similar situation] but noone actually noticed because they think about what THEY do while others struggle with themselves as well and didnt even notice. basicly just like you. and i'm not saying that's bad or anything. it's just natural and i'm trying to say that maybe noone actually realised youre embarressed unless you of course ACT embarresed. so just try and hide it, laugh it off and nobodys gonna notice. sorry if that was a bit confusing haha
good luck tho :)

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hi!
does anybody here know where i can find some of those cute quizzes online
that you somtimes get in chain emails
that ask you like,
your walking through the woods, who are you walking with? what animals do you find? you see a table, is it empty or does it have food and people around it? you see a lake, how much water is in it?

and then it tells you what it means about you. does anyone know where i could find some of these? thnx so much!

try googleing it [:
i think if you write 'surveys' or 'myspace quizzes' something will come up [it's quite popular to write bulletins when you have myspace lol]
or try 'personality quizzes'.
and also, if you have facebook you'll find loads of those quizzes/applications.
hope i helped a little [: xx

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