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Why do you like your boyfriend/girlfriend?
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Something more than looks, please. (link)
I like my boyfriend because he is able to put up with me and all of my crazy ways. That alone says a lot. When I say my little rude remarks to him he doesn't snap like most would. He respects me and I respect him in return. He uses heavy sarcasm and I love that. He makes me laugh all the time. But I especially like my boyfriend because he is a true friend.


Anyone who has the LG Verizon phone "The V" the one where you flip it and there's a keyboard inside. I was wondering if that phone was able to transfer songs that you recorded as voice memos, to be your actual ringtone. Only answer if you have that phone. (link)
Yeah it does.


how acceptable are erections on nude beaches how do i keep from getting one? (link)
Its simple, just don't go to one! You horny little animal.


in the music video 'i write sins not tragedies' by panic! at the disco, what is the guy's name who plays the groom??? (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=429068

Look at the questions already asked before you ask another one! Especially for a question that isn't even asking for advice.


people's away messages say that they are going to 't.i.t.s.' does anyone know what this means?
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I'm not sure what that one means but below is a website with a lot of other instant messaging acronyms.

http://www.aim.com/acronyms.adp?aolp=0


how do you flirt with random guys at the mall. Like, if you don't know them and you walk by them and you totally know they're looking at you. Please no advice saying talk to them unless you add more detail to it- like how to start a conversation. Also, how can I try to walk by them in the mall with out making it seem like I'm a stalker? Thanx tons.
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Give them a smile and wave. Most likely they will smile back. You could also just give them a couple of glances when you know they are looking at you.

If you want to start a conversation then you are going to need to be a little bit more courageous. You can walk up to them and introduce yourself, compliment him, ask them him his name, tell him what school you go to, ask them what school he goes to, or if he lives around the area the mall is at.
Below is an example conversation
you: Hey you're kinda cute, my name is [your name]
guy: Hey you are to and thanks, my name is [his name]
you: So you live around here
guy: Yeah
you: Oh what school do you go to
guy: [name of school] what school do you go to
you: [name of school]
the conversation continues...the next part is for if you want to ask for his number (that is if he doesn't ask you for your's first)
you: Well its been nice talking to you but I guess I should get going
guy: It was real good talking to you to
you: Why don't we exchange numbers so we can finish this conversation some other time



i know this isn't an advice question, but i was just wondering who was out of school already. it seems like rhode island is the only place going until the end of june. also, when did you get out.
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I live in Virginia and we get out of school next week.


how long does it take for cement to dry? (link)
only search advicenators.com

The first site has your answer.


I am 14 years old and I was always good at doing makeup on myself and others. I went to MAC the other day and I got a lesson there and they said that I should get a job with some type of company like MAC or Chanel when I am in highschool, my question is how old do you have to be? What type of test do you have to do? I know you have to be able to apply makeup onto someone.


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Unless you work at MAC or Chanel you probably wouldn't be able to answer your questions off hand. So common sense would tell you that when you go back ask the employees.


When you shave your legs, are you supposed to shave your thighes as well? (link)
If you are going to be showing your thighs in whatever outfit you plan to wear then yes you should shave your thighs as well.


Today I was shopping with my mom, and i was picking out some clothes, i went over to show her what I found. & the first thing she says is "no black" and she walks away. So I like black clothes, so what?

And maybe I'm not the preppiest girl ever, and maybe I don't have the style that she wants me to have. But I should be allowed to wear what I want. I don't know what her problem is, at least I'm not walking around with bondage pants with 65486465 chains; (if thats what she is worried about)

So the thing is, I want to be able to wear the style of clothes I want. And how am I supposed to express myself if she won't let me buy the things I want? How do I explain to her?

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You should say...
"Mom let me wear black. How am I supposed to express myself if you won't let me buy things I want."

It wasn't that hard to think of, genius.


I have a really huge problem.

Anytime I ever see a picture of myself, I feel so sick and I want to cry because I look so awful. I know I'm not beautiful but the way I look in pictures is so hideous compared to the way I look when I see myself in the mirror. And it's destroying me emotionally. My friend took a picture of me last night and brought it to school this morning and showed it to me and I had to run to the bathroom and cry because I was so upset. I already have so much trouble with self-esteem and this isn't helping. I don't know what to do. I've spoken to my mom but she's gotten so tired of hearing me talk bad about myself that she just ignores me.

I'm not sure what I'm asking for, here, but I'd like some advice on how to deal with this. I'm starting to consider platic surgery and this problem with my looks has become an obsession. What do I do? (link)
Everyone has flaws that they wish they could get rid of. But plastic surgery is not the answer. One's self is always the biggest critic. You have to take what you were given and make the best of it. If you want you can put a little make up on, exercise more, eat healthy, and there is a lot of more things that you can do to help you look and feel better. I think you should go visit your school's guidance counselor. Because that's what he/she is there for; to help you with your problems.


theres this guy that loves to hang out with me. id hang out with him too but he stinks.. i mean really really stinks. its a horrible smell!!! and he's always always following me... so since he's always around me, is there a nice way i can tell him that he smells really bad? lol. thanks xoxo (link)
If his birthday or something is coming up you can get him a gift bag full of hygiene products. But don't put all hygiene products in there because he may take offense. Put something simple like a hat in there also. If there is no holiday of any type coming up then just say its for being a good friend.


hey! So heres my question, I am in 8th grade and my school has this "end of the year 8th grade formal"-ish thing. I just recently(as in like the last 3 days) started going out with this really great guy, and we are going to formal together. He is very nice and really sweet and isn't a perv like most 14 year old guys. So anyway, at this dance I think I might be wearing a strapless dress, and because im kinda skinny and dont have much boobs(im in like the biggest size you can be in a A cup, small I know ok geez) Do you think a strapless push up bra will make it look like i have more boobs? I know this guy wont care casue he is really nice, but I dunno I just want to look "sexy" haha. thnx so much! -marsbars (link)
Whether a bra has straps or not doesn't determine if it will make your brest look bigger. Its the thickness and texture of the bra. So if you want one that makes your brest look bigger than buy a bra especially made for that.


I just registered to this site, and this is my first question type thing, so i dont really know what to put as my "subject" or what to put it under.

so.. this weekend, im goin to see some1,&i want to look good, so i picked out an outfit& everything, the only thing is.. i got my period this morning and i dont wear tampons,and the pants im wearing are pretty tight, but i dont want my underwear line to show?and i dont want to pick another outfit,so if any1 has any suggestions on what i should do.. i would really appreciate it... sorry if its a stupid question.! (link)
You should wear the seenless underwear. They are elastic and they don't show with almost anything you wear. You can find them in just about any department store or regular store.
Here are some places that I know sale them.
-JCPenny's
-Heicht's
-Wal-Mart
-K-Mart
If you can't find them in these stores then you should browse around in stores that sales Hanes under gourmets. Because Hanes makes them in all colors and sizes.


4 some reason everyone thinks I'm a baby. I don't really get it. I'm in high school, I drive, I have my own responsibilities. But today this lady actually came up to me while I was doing my nails to tell me that I was an itty bitty baby. Is it just me or is something going on here? I wouldn't be asking if it happened more than once. But is there a reason that everyone is telling me this? Its just really really weird. Thanks. (link)
Do you have a baby face?
Are you really short?

If you answered yes then that could be why.


The books Gossip Girls.
Do you need to read the first one? or can you skip around and read the 2nd one first? does it matter? (link)
I have never read those series of books but COMMON SENSE would tell me that its only logical to read the first one FIRST!

edit: Yeah right, give me an example.


can you send me all the paris hilton quotes you got.
thanks i rate high (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=395281

Look at the questions that were already asked before asking another one!


i really need to know some good love songs!!!! so if oyu have ne good ones please reply!!!! (link)
We Belong Together- Mariah Carey
My Boo- Usher and Alecia Keys
You're Beautiful- James Blunt
What I Need - Ray J
Girlfriend- Paul Wall
Yo- Chris Brown
Young Love- Chris Brown
Be Without You- Mary J Blige
Sugar We're Going Down- Fall Out Boy


*heiwa* (japanese) means *peace* in english, correct? thanks (link)
Yes it does.

Below is a website that isn't a translator, its the Children Singing Peace Around the World (CSPAW) website.

http://childrensingingpeace.com/CSPAWhawaiian.html




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