Hello my children,
I am the incredible Mable.
I was blessed with the gift to see the right answer to most moral questions (basically I am psychic). I do not tell futures, but I do have visions. I also have great life experience.I have a very strong taste in music. Mostly bands from the 1980's to now. Even though I am almost 70 (yikes) I still know how to have a good time. I would love to be of assistance to you my pretty pets!
Love From,
Mable
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It's so weird, for some reason tonight, I'm so nervous, I can't eat, I can't sit still, and I keep on thinking about what's going to happen at school tomorrow.
The problem is, I have n-o-t-h-i-n-g to be nervous about.
Any advice on how to
a.) calm myself
b.) figure out why I'm so tense/nervous
Thanks! (link)
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This happened to me all the time in my school days. I was nervous that I didn't have all of my homework finished, or that there was a test.
Make a list of things that you had to do. Then cross out each thing that you have completed. This might 1) help you see something that you have not finished, and your subconcios is trying to tell you that. 2) see that you are all set for tomorrow.
To relax listen to some calming female vocals like: Neko Case, Cat Power or Imogen Heap.
Lie down and breathe deeply.
You are probably so nervous because it is the end of the year.
Love
Mable
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Hey guys,
ok I've hit a real low-point in life.
I've already tried killing myself, and that's not it..it's over the stupidest thing ever; looks. I hate myself so much. I'd do anything to be pretty, I've seriously begged my mom for plastic surgery 20 times a day for this whole year. I need to change. It's not that I care what others think cause they seem to think I'm pretty, it's myself, my inner-critic. I won't be happy until I change completely, but my mom made it clear plastic surgery is not an option, so what do I do? I don't remember the last time I was happy, seriously, every time I finally wake up happy, I look in the mirror..and all I see is: bulging stomach, big nose, hairy + manly face, disgusting face, short legs, unproportionate upper-body, tiny feet, weird ears, ugly + uneven skincolour, everything is just humiliating!! I hate myself sooo much, I just don't want to be me anymore, and please don't tell me to seek help or just accept who I am, I don't want to. I want to change. How though? What are some major things I can do to just completely change without plastic surgery? (link)
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Hello Dear,
I am sorry that you are so unhappy. I used to think that I was ugly, myself. I was very popular, and everyone told my that I was very beautiful, but I didn't see myself that way.
I did change a few things about my apperance, and then I saw myself as different, and beautiful.
Don't pester your mother about surgery anymore, the more you bother her, the less she will consider it. Surgery is not the answer for a child.
Now from what you have said about your appereance I have a few suggestions.
My first suggestion comes from your title. If you feel like dying, then dye. In my time, it was inapropriate for young girls to dye their hair, so I wore a wig. Youcan very cheaply chande the colour of your hair at home. This will change your image enough.
Another thing would be to style your hair so that it covers your "wierd ears"
You can shave your face if it is hairy, and put makeup on the uneven parts.
Good luck, you ARE beautiful!
-MABLE
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I think that I need a psychiatrist. I know that I do, I feel very depressed and I cut myself. My mom sees a psychiatrist. I'm just afraid of asking my mom and dad (they are divorced, so I can't sit them down together) if I can go to a therapist. I was wondering of anyone knew any ways of bringing it up or any suggestions of how to talk about it. I'm uncomfortable bringing it up and I really don't want my parents to know how depressed and frightend I feel. If you have any ideas I would really appreciate it. (link)
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First of all, I want to commend you for realizing that you have a problem.
I think that you need to be very straightforward with your mother. Just tell her about your feelings, and asks her if you could see her phsychiatrist sometime. In the meantime, it is VERY important that you stop cutting yourself.
I see no reason why your mom would say that you couldn't get help for your problem.
I hope that every thing turns out all right for you. It saddens my soul when I hear stories of sad young people.
Love From,
Mable
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I bit my lowerlip a lot out of habit. It used to only be when I was nervous, but it seems that I've gotten so used to it, that I don't even notice anymore! It's not that I bite it hard or anything, but it makes me look nervous all the time. Does anyone have an good solutions to this? Thanks! (link)
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Dear "Bitey"
One of my great nephews used to bite his lower lip, and it really worried my neice, so every time he did it she would slap him on the face, but this method could not be used when he was at school so she started to rub vinigar and tobasco sauce on his lip. Then when he bit it it would taste quite bad. Try putting some totally nausiating fluid on your lip, it will stop your bad little habbit!
-Mable
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