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Q: Hi :)
The thing is that I really really like being sick. (Having a cold/fever etc.) It worries me a little. I don't really get much attention to be honest so I don't think that it has to do anything with that. My mom works most of the time so nobody takes care of me. But I still love it. I currently have a cold and I don't want it to go away. I actually kept my old tissues so I can sniff them to keep my cold ._. I know it's weird, please don't be mean about it :/ Whenever someone close to me gets sick I get really jealous :( I do admit that I don't like myself very much so is this some sort of self harm? I do have the feeling that I have more of a right to live when I'm sick. Usually I'm just ashamed of being there but when I'm sick it's not that bad ._. When I'm sick I don't feel as empty and sad as I usually do. But I've had this since I was really young. When I was a child my mom used to take care of me and I liked that. But now she doesn't do that anymore so I don't think that I like it just for attention. Can anyone help me? ._.
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Hey, I strongly recommend therapy, what you are going through could be treated for sure. Pay a look at this and check whether this is similar to what is happening to tou. Hope you get better soon!!! :http://health.howstuffworks.com/mental-health/mental-disorders/munchausen.htm)
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Q: Hello. I usually have a lot of trouble sleeping and I've had nightmares before, but last night I had a really awful nightmare. I'm not sure of all of it, but I remember this really distorted face and I'm guessing it was a woman in the corner of my room and she kept coming closer and closer and her mouth was opening and I was terrified. It took me a moment to realize I was half awake and screaming. It was even worse that I was home alone, so I ran out of my room and to my kitchen where the light was.
I'm wondering if it's the medication I took, "hydroxyzine", that my doctor prescribed to help me sleep, but my mother's taken it before and said she never had nightmares and I can't find anything in the side effects. And while I only plan to take this once a week, I'm almost scared to go to sleep tonight because of how severe the nightmare was. I'm also prone to continuing dreams or repeating dreams, usually within that same week, so I'm not sure what to do. I really do not want this nightmare to come back because I've never been so scared in my life. I was in tears because it was so scary and I couldn't get back to sleep after I woke up. I want to know if there's a way to keep this dream away or if it has anything to do with my medication. If it's the medication, is there anything else I can do to help my insomnia aside from using prescriptions?
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Well,to start with, I'd like to know your age. You're probably too young to take sleeping pills. Maybe, this causes this disorder into your brain. I wish I had the accurate medical knowledge so I could help you more appropiately. But I'm pretty sure this is something caused by those pills. Remember that all brain medicaton drugs are supposed to be prescribed by your doctor before you take them. Good luck! And calm down! It'll be fine!
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Q: i feel as i have no soul i feel like someon estole my feelings i dont even care about my family and the boyfriend i loved to death, i just cant seem to love anymore is their anyone who feels the same???
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I have chronically the same problem. It's up to you to change it. Of course you can try therapy,but you can also try to control it. I bet you still have your feelings inside there in your heart,they cannot forsake you,they never go away. They're just confused because of a certain problem you must be enduring. Hope it helps:)
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Q: Does that even make sense? I mean, I'm a woman and currently in a relationship with a man. And that's fine by me. I'm attracted to men, but at the same time, I want to be a man. I've always been a bit of a tomboy and I'm not shy about a man's body at all or the way it works. These thoughts have been in my head for years now, this is the seventh year, but I'm not sure if I should act on this or find something to purge the thoughts. I've never told anyone this, not my family or my therapist. What should I do??
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There's nothing wrong with being a tomboy and being a straight woman at the same time. My question would be: WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY WANTING TO BE A MAN? would you like to have a man's sexual organs? If that is your actual wish,then I think it's high time you went to your theapist.
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Q: I've put this under mental health, because I wasn't sure what else to : please don't get offended by that.
Now, we all know that your sexuality isn't a choice. But what determines whether you are homosexual? Nature (you are born homosexual) or nurture (your surroundings) ?
I know people who say they remember being gay forever. I know of others who turn, when they go to same-sex boarding schools. I read a book about one of the most famous all-boy schools in the world. The guy was saying how they didn't know a world outside of the school, and growing up meant they had urges. Because of this, they experimented sexually, and this is where many people 'turned'.
But is it both? Is it different for different people?
I also heard that those who lack a father figure are more likely to be homosexual. This is obviously a generalization, but is there any merit to that statement?
Thanks!
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OMG!!What is this guy before me thinking about?In my opinion all gay people were born homosexual,if homosexuality was due to sorrounding factors,then kids who were born in family of boxers would be straight because of the masculine influence.Or all boys raised in a family of homosexual parents would end up being gay as well;and one of my best friends is an example,and he is STRAIGHT!People who are homosexual definitely were born gay and there's nothing wrong about that.It's just a sexual orientation different from that of straight people.So the nature vs nurture question is definitely out of the question.
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Q: i have a diaper fetish was told if forced to wear them 24/7 it would go away
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Who told you that?Diaper fetishism or nappy fetishism,according to what I read,tends to produce a sense of being set free from social pressures,or from personal responsibilities.If you really want it to stop I'd recommend therapy,I don't think it's wrong,though.Hope it helps
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Q: God? Family? Friends? BF/GF?
Hahaha...
I can't trust anyone...
and i'm just so plain old alone.
So trapped here.
Nobody even knows the real me.
I DON'T EVEN know who i am anymore.
And i would end my life... except i fear death...
Ironic, huh?
So i'm stuck here.
And my only question is...
not what can i do to feel better
or can someone help me...
but...
my question is
simply
has anybody else felt like this?
This lost? this broken? this empty? this alone?
Well, have you?
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Yes,I have...tons of times,I still continue to be really introverted and shy though, but I'm just pleased to know who I really am ,I don't actually care much about the others because it's them who have to accept me and be around me if they like to.What's actually more important,is to get to know yourself and care about yourself,fall in love and trust yourself,by doing this,you'll start building confidence and a high self-esteem,like Ru Paul says,'if you can't love yourself,how the hell are you gonna love somebody else?
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Q: Father:
My husband donbt love me anymore, I really want to leave from his life.
I am fed up with his anger, his hate his silence.
Help me
I have a son of 3 years, I want to kill myself but whenever I look at his face, I cant do it.
But I cant live such life .
Help me
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Come on!!He's not worth it!It's your little angel who actually cares from now on!So cheer up and move on wiith your life,along with your son of course,anybody else will come one day,but let things flow,let life flow and don't get desperate in the process,these things are proves for you to overcome so think that you are gonna make it!There's a whole world in front of you waiting for you to take advantage of it;)YOU worth it!!!
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Q: sir,actually i was in depression before some months
and in that mental sate doctar gave me such medicine so that every one can hear my thoughs whatever is going on in my mind after that i m getting frustated because of this problem anyone who see me or hear my thoughts spit it seems that such as he is spitting on me.because of this problem i m tending towards to commit sucide.i have tried 4 times to commit sucide but i was saved.is my problem can be solved?give me advice that what should do i?
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I totally agree with Delight,you need to see some really good and qualified Psychiatrist,we just don't have the proper knowledge to help others on this sort of issues.
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Q: I want to die as there is no reason for my life on this earth..My life is shit..im a loser.n i feel its better to die than to care about some shit..idc about who feels bad coz idk who really will feel..all i know is i want to kill myself n is there any way by which i can die painlessly? please help me
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Look,I think it's wrong to ask for such kind of help,af if people who are member of this site were killers or something,you do know very well that what you want to do is coward and silly.Have you ever thought about disabled people?or people from underdeveloped countries?kids starving to death,or people begging for a sip of water?what are your problems?so you think you are a loser?you know?I'm the biggest loser on earth and still do think I have a mission in life,I have to deal with it,I have to face up difficult things of life,many times I thought about dying 'cause I knew how convenient that way was,just stop fighting and put an end to everything,get some professional help and try to help others instead of asking such things and discouraging those who have a positive view of life!!!
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Don't follow any advice,no matter how good,until you feel as deeply in your spirit as you think in your mind that the counsel is wise...Take it easy...but take it!! My aim here is to give good advice,not gentle words,but what I think is best for you to do;)
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Occupation: student Age: 27 Member Since: March 20, 2012 Answers: 166 Last Update: June 21, 2015 Visitors: 12726
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