I have spent my entire life analyzing the human mind and social situations. When I give advice, it's like I am helping them and myself. I will never judge you , I will never tell you anything that I am unsure of. I have taken many sociology, and psychology classes in pursuit of becomming a profiler. Please feel free to ask me anything. And if you are interested on my site I have many blogs that show how I see life and the human mind.
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During the course of my college dwelling, I took a few courses in psychology, there are two subjects that intrest me psychology and english.
Personally I can see my self fitting the same portrait of a schizoid, just by the characteristics and appearance they put down.
"A person with schizoid personality disorder:
Does not desire nor enjoy close relationships, even with family members
Avoids social activities that involve significant interpersonal contact
Appears aloof and detached People with schizoid personality disorder are loners and show little interest in developing close relationships.
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I'm serious though its a hell of a thought go look at this site and read a little you will feel like one of this disorders describes you.
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/mentalhealthandbehavior.html (link)
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Well that may be SOME symptoms. Schizophrenia also consists of...
feeling paranoid of any or ALL relationships.
Voices hallucinations.
Making up a special purpose or reason for their existance.
Anxiety in social situations.
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I have been depressed for a very long time. I want to die. And I get that if I do kill myself, people will miss me or whatever. I do want to find help, but I am not sure how exactly. And you can simply tell me to see a school counselor but just read this..
*I already went to one back in December. My parents got mad because I had to go to the ER for my depression, and they got all pissed because they got a big bill from it.
*My mom has a neurological problem, so they (my parents) already have thousands of dollars to pay right now for treatment.
*Seeing a Psychologist can't happen because my insurance won't support it. So my parents are mad that they would have to pay that off on their own.
*The nearest free clinic is like 50 miles away. I would not have any ride to get there, either.
I don't know what to do!! Someone please give me some advice. Thanks. (link)
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Regardless of the circumstances of their other bills your parents need to be there for you. I had depression and lot more than just that. My parents didnt have the money either.In fact my mother had just had a heart attack. If i were you i would sit one of your parents down OR your favorite teacher. A school councilor is the best person to see. Now hold on because i know you are thinking "yeah yeah yea i tried that" But in reality you havent. Back then you told someone you were depressed and your parents got upset. You need to talk to them and tell them the WHOLE story. That your parents dont have the money and that you dont know what to do. You have to understand depression is not something that should be taken lightly. Its a very serious thing, and they are right people would miss you. Your parents need to understand that. A school councilor needs to talk to them about it. I know it seems hard but in the end it could save your life. Keep your head up. You arent alone.
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I guess lately I've been having self esteem issues.
See, the begining of the year, I got really sick, with something almost like the chicken pox, it wasnt that though, it was something rare. It left deep scabs, and they left deep scars, on my back, legs, pretty much everywhere, including my face.
The face part is really what bothers me, I have deep scars, not really horribly deep. But its like an indent.
And whenever I see pictures of myself before that,
it makes me feel really ugly, in fact, I have looking at pictures of me before that, because I know I will never look like that again.
:( (link)
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scars make us unique , and scars also heal over time. I speak personally. I had a heat rash that would form all over me. I looked like a leopard. It was embarassing. It would scab up then fall off leaving scars all over my shoulders back and arms. It bothered me, until a friend told me "it is a characteristic of who you are and your past." Dont cake it with makeup . Think of it this way. Some women get burned and half their face is a big scar. So it could be worse right. Remember that not every person sees things the same. Who knows maybe you will meet a guy with a scar fetish ;) Your beautiful no matter what, dont be ashamed of yourself anyone that judges you for it, is obviously a self loathing, self hating moron anyway.
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hey i am 15/f and i am a really depressed person i have a really really low self esteme and i don't know why i mean i am not ugly but sometimes i feel like i am and feel that i can't go anywhere because of the way i look i feel like i would look grose to people even though there is nothing wrong with me and alot of people like me and alot of people think i am really pretty but sometimes i just don't see it
can you help me find someways that will help me see that i am not ugly
how can i look at myself and actually like the way i look for once (link)
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Dont be afraid of who you are. TV and magazine ads make us think we have to be a supermodel to be pretty. I know how you feel. You could get dressed up, look in the mirror and think you look so great. But when you go outside and you see a girl that you want to look like , you hang your head down because in YOUR head she is better than you and you feel stupid for trying. Sometimes a makeover can help boost confidence. Try doing something new. Do something different than everyone else with your hair, or clothes. Keep your head up when you cross paths with them. Nothing is more attractive than a girl with confidence. There are plenty of women out there who are beautiful and they arent 100 pounds 5'7 blonde hair blue eyes. They are beautiful because they hold their heads high. Do the same.
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Okay, so lately I have been feeling very apathetic about things like; school, relationships, friendships, and my family. I used to be such a 'nice' person according to my friends and family. But then suddenly my personality's changing, and I really don't know why. It's not an existential kind of problem, but more of 'I don't know who I am as a person' kind of problem. It's been really bothering my lately, and it has been deteriorating the relationships I have made around the people that I really care about. I didn't think that I needed help for this, but it's really bugging me. How can I know who I really am as a person? (link)
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Close your eyes. Imagine something. A situation. Picture yourself in it. Are you wearing black, white, pink? Is your hair long or short? Whats your hobbies? Form a perfect image of yourself FOR yourself. Sometimes music can help you set the scene for yourself. When you think of yourself in the future, how do YOU see yourself? You will be amazed at what you will learn about yourself sometimes.
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14yr old female..... ok so i get hard core mood swings, i will be like happy about something for a minit but like in a split second i get super depresed and i meen DEPRESSED. then angry against everything!!!! i dont know what to do?!?!?!
thank you for your help = ) (link)
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Right now you are going to go through a lot of horomonal mood swings. Your best bet when you get upset is to listen to something that makes you happy. Sometimes even listening to music that matches your mood and then slowly progressing happier songs help. Day dream when you listen to it, make your own music video's in your head and make yourself the star in them. I know that burst of anger your talking about. It shoots up from your gut into your chest and gives you chills of anger. And when you cry, you dont know why, but you are just so upset. Music is the antidote. Consider it a form of meditation. If you EVER feel it is out of your control tell someone so you can get some help. Sometimes medication really does help.
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my parents say that my brother and i have obsessive personalities. what are some ways that i can overcome my obsessive side? its starting to tear apart my life. (link)
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To be obsessive is usually a control issue. However there are different types of obsession. If you are talking about obsessing over a person in a relationship, it is usually due to the fact you dont like to be alone. An insecurity that you could lose that person at any minute causes you to NEED to be with them. The best way to control it is to always see the other options out there. Instead of making that person your world, make them 1/3rd.
If it comes to cleaning or being clean, usually medication helps that. We call them "ticks" It can feel overwhelming. Think of how you are feeling as a fear, and face it. If you can't see past it, then seek help, sometimes you can get through emotional ticks easier when you have something to mellow you out. :)
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