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I am always always depressed. I find myself constantly upset and moody. I have very little self confidence and right now I am in a rocky patch with my friends so I feel even worse. My boyfriend and everyone around me tells me that I am pretty and people like me but I don't feel that way. (link)
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well being self confidence is something u have to do by ur self to get over just keep tellin ur self that u are and u gotta belive that u are pretty cause i used to be the same way but it took awhile for me to actully believe that i was pretty but now that i do i get somewhere in live by believein my self so try ur hardest to get over that.
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What do I do when everything is way too much for me and I'm so angry that I'm afraid I'll hurt my friends, I never get this angry, it's driving me nuts, I have always been so calm and sweet, now I'm some bitch that goes with the crowd. What do I do now? (link)
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ur growing up and u don't mean to be but mood swings are makin u do that so just try to be nice and if some one is getting on ur nevers just walk away instead of flipen out thats the best thing or talk to ur parents..
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OK Well, I am depressed, like i know i am... my mom does too (which is who i live with) and i dunno if i should be put on meds, because i heard that they can make u randomly want to kill yourself and stuff like that. and i've been seeing counslers all my life, and as a matter of fact they are more wacked out than me, its totall crap, i mean they get me to answer questions, which i can't do without crying, because its yearss and yearsss of crap in my life, i mean most of the tim ei just say i don't remebr what happened and stuff, because i start crying and i hate that because then they are like oh i ahve to keep another appt. and so i leave. i mean its not my choice to be there its part of the court order, frum the my parents divorce and stuff. I mean one counsler i saw actually started crying, after tlaking with me...but i sleep way to much, i mean i don't see the harm in that really, its just its gotten so bad that i can't sleep at night and i sit there for 2 hours looking at the ceiling. I mean i questioning everything, io don't really care what happens to me really. what do u do whne u realize your friends and most people are fake. So what the hell should I do. So many people go on meds for being depressed, honestly i can't see how my mind would just change about everything. I mean i am depressed but i don't think i am wrong bout things, I just finally came to the realaity bout people, and life, and how things freakin suck. (link)
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well thats what i said when i was depressed i slept alot more than usually than i was put on effexor 120 mg and i am still on and to tell u the truth i feel so better and i like i am like my self again so goin on meds arn't as bad as u think and what the do is ur brain is chemically umbalanced so the meds fix that to not make u depressed trust me meds do work
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Hey, i'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 n a few months. I'v never had confidence in myself and to be conpletely honest i kinda hate myself. I think im fat and ugly and i try to lose weight but nothings good enough.I'v never had a boyfriend in my life let alone had a guy tell me im pretty. My friends are pretty and they always have guys asking them out but i juss feel stupid hangin with them sometimes, like i dont belong. For the past few years i have resorted to cuttig myself. I'v only done it 3 times but i dont wanna go to counscling or anything cuz my parents and every1 will think im crazy i dunno what to do can you help me? (link)
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well first off u arn't ugly or fat ur beatuiful with in ur wself and u have to keep tellin ur self that right now i wouldn't be worry about a boyfriend all guys are dicks and they just want sex and ur turn will come when u find the most prfect boyfriend and all ur friends will be jelous when u find some one who like u for u and about cutttin it don't help much it hurts u more in the end i should know i did it and some guys get turned off when u tell them u cut ur self so i would stop and about the counslor thing if u really have to go them tell ur parents be like mom dad i think i need to see a conslor and if they ask y be like i need some one to talk to beside u guys and hopefully they will understand just plz stop cuttin u are beatuiful u don't need scares to prove that hope this helps
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this has really been getting on my nerves lately. and i just dont know if this should be going on. this is the thing: i could do anything little thing and i end up thinking about it for the rest of the day. like if i do something and it wont even have to be a "bad thing" then i think back on it and im like i should of done this or i should have done that and then i can never et it out of my system. its the most annoying thing ever. is somethin wrong or does n e one have advice for helping me loose this "concious" bc i think thats it... PLEASE HELP! (link)
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well next time this happens be like yeah that could of happen yeah i should of did that but i didn't and just try to let it go u shouldn't put ur self in this position like don't make ur mind go throw this stress it is ok to think about what could of happen but focas on what happen..
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Ok i only want answers from someone who cuts/ used to cut. Why do you do it? I cut so often and I'm really depressed and it just makes me feel so good. But what specifically for you was it that made you want to cut? I think getting ideas from others would help me. Thank you. (link)
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i used to cut to take the pain that i had inside of me out cause there was no other way to do it i wouldn't tell anyone how i felt i keep it in and cryed every night and cut my self also i didn't it b.c the boyfriend i had was always puttin me down and made me feel so bad but i loved him in every way also friends wasn't helpin ethier they were made cause i was cuttin that didn't make it better but one day i got sick of holdin in my feelings that i went to mental health and got treated i am so glad that i was able to admit this problem that i had i haven't cut for 6 months.. need any help gettin over this im me or email me i would love to help
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okay i have a problem.... i cut myself... and i dont know how to stop.. its just that i get all jittery and the room spins but as soon as i cut myself i feel normal again and i get a major high off of it.... i want to stop because i know that someone is going to find out and than my life wil be over... so i guess my question is how do i stop without my friends or family ever finding out??? (link)
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i had the same problem i know hoe u feel and what i did is went to a hosptal like in mental health and i ain't tryin to be a bad person but u need to tell some one i was like u and held it in and than i had to tell someone not only does cuttin hurt u it hurts ur whole family and it took me a while to figure that out so plz plz will u tell someone or find different ways to take out anger or get the high feeling and cuttin ur self and not tellin anyone u might even cut ur self too deep and die not wanting too plz email me back and plz tell some one
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How should you go about treating an addiction (I don't want to be specific so just say in general) Please help! I'll rate anyone who answers back. Thanks so much. (link)
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well it really depends on what addition u have if it is really serious than go to ur mom or doctors to see if u can go to a help center to get help or stay in the hospital over night and get treated
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