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Iv been here for a few months and I belive that helping others is a way give others hope in there lives my advice is straight forward .I have my own problems like anyone eles out there but I keep looking for the answers .sometimes life isn't easy or not fair but you live and learn every day .I hope that anyone looking for the advice they need truly helps and if you need my advice I'm here for you .I might not have all the answers but I will do my best with this said good luck to all
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19/f i feel tired all the time. my weight is pretty low, like 94 pounds. i am 5"4. i have been put on remeron by my psychiatrist and it works, however i am still sleepy. i feel like its been getting worse. i think a lot of it is my diet. i eat junk food and a lot of meat. yesterday i took a 2 hour nap. i woke up and i was okay for a while but then i was extremely sleepy again. on Saturday night i felt sleepy at around 8 o clock, and i usually sleep a little later on the weekends. yesterday i was sleepy at 9, and this was even after i took a nap. so i don't know what to do. what's wrong with me? help! (link)
Well here's your problem its the side affects from the medications .I used to take remeron for my depresion but. Had to take other medications on top of the remeron to couteract the side efects from the remeron and then I had to take another medcation to counteract the side efect of that medcation and so on and so on its a never ending cycle .I literealy had a local pharmacy right at home .but to the point its the remeron and other medications your tacking .you are takng other medications right ??I'm telling you get off of that stuff before you realy go crazzy .it cost my mairage and my family .but that's why you are sleepy all the time and have weird sleeping patterns .ts the sde efects ....


I am suffering from bipolar disorder. I cannot concentrate on one thing. Because at one moment i feel that it is a very good thing and i get very much interested and the next minute i get bored from that thing and get least interested in that thing. I want to stop that task at that time and want to do something different. The same thing happens with that task also and evenually i keep bouncing from one task to the other, be it studies or any other thing, any thought. It goes with money, girls, internet, everything. For example, At once i get interested in making money, i make many plans of making money, read as many articles as i can, and am very very interested. Then after few minutes i get bored and come to the conclusion that making money is not a good thing or is a very boring thing. Then i go making girlfriends. Same thing happens with it. Eventually i waste my time doing nothing worthwhile. Please help. (link)
I don't think you have bipolar diorder I think you have adhd diorder because people with bipolar diorder can be happy one minute then pissed off the next and they also engage in risky behavior like for instnce gambling shoplifting multiple sex partners etc people with adhd can't concentrate and git bored vary easy not able to complete tasks and are preocupied with two many things .I don't know who diagnosed you with bipolar but I do belive its the wrong diagnosses .you need a second opnion defanatly .


Ok so I have been masterbating for about 2-3 months and its making me feel horiable like i stop a day or 2 at a time then just start up again i realy need help i know people will say its good for you but it makes me feel horiable plz help (link)
You shouldt be asamed of masterbating .its human nature to explore yourself and a desier for doing what feels good .I can't tell you who dosent masterbate .you should only feel guilty if you do it obsesivly .then there's a problem .and that's your personal thing nobody needs to know about it .my opinon is you are mormal and no need to feel guilty about it just be yourself and do what you do and be happy loosen up your fine !!


Lately alot of people have been treating me like dirt, like after I leave some where they go and party it up I don't go because they only invite me if I overhear them talkin about it, I also get thrown aside after I do somethin to help someone in need of it. I'm not the most handsome of guys in high school but when I meet a new cute girl I like I usually introduce her to some friends within days her and someone close are together already. I have lost self will to go on I've tried to stick up for myself grow a back bone but it's all the same, making new honest friends isn't easy in school so I hardly have anyone to talk to. How should I approach my problems?
-Thank you (link)
Hey man don't try so hard !!! Friends will come .and the people you hang around are not true friends .you know the old saying with friends like this who needs enemys well ther you have it .don't waste your time trying to impress people who clearly don't give a shit anyways .if they don't like you for who you are then screw them .look at me I'm 39 I have no friends at all period .don't need them .of course that's not for everybody sure but don't try to help people out especaly if they take you for grannet .do something for your self think of what benefets you and seeize the day .I'm not telling you to be selfish but what do you think everyone eles is doing .go to the lbrariy find you a girl that you might like and talk to her .if she's with someone already then find someone eles there is plenty of fish out in the sea so go shoping .I hope this brings a light into the subject


Is there a name for what I have?
I am so bored of my life, theres nothing exciting. I hate it, i am depressed at the fact of how boring things are. I feel stressed out with everything. Someone, please give me an answer on what to do. (link)
I know what you are going through .I strugle every day to rid myself of boredem .I work 2 jobs and its always the same thing every day it seems like nothing changes work go home sleep work go home sleep .and it gets tiering depressing but what you need to do is find something different to do .I know that its hard to do sometimes and don't know where to even begin especaly when the things you used to do doesn't satisfy anymore .what you need to do is find a support group that is fufiling hang out with different people that has the same problem they are out there look on the internet and get out ther and have fun otherwise it will only get worse trust me iv been there and it is not a way to live .you live in the here and now don't waste time years go by way too fast make a change now while you can and enjoy life its what we all live for


So I've been feeling kind of down for about 4 years. Recently it has gotten worse...I just broke up with my boyfriend because I've been so stressed about everything. I snap at a lot of people it could be anyone...I have so much anger and I've been crying a lot. I've pushed away all my friends and have no determination or drive. I don't know what to possibly do.
Any advice? (link)
Ok from what you are telling me you might be bipoler and you should get checked out by a doctor you might have a chemecal inbalance . People that are bipolar do things out of inpulse and can get angery one moment and ok the next and withdraw from people to . There are medications out there like SRI [seritoin reuptake inhibiters] that will help you along with counceling . But becareful about taking these medications because they cause side efects. But please don't. Let this go on without any help because your problem can get worse . Take my advice and go see a doctor you owe to your self and the people you care for




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