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i don't know if this is in the right subject. hahaha.
but i saw a question on here about seances.
and i searched it on google to read experiences with it.
i eventually got to reading about ouija board experiences.
if you've ever had an experience or have a friend whos had an experience with one i'd LOVE to hear about it.
i think they are very cool! (link)
I dont believe in them, but I figured you can't speak about one until you play yourself so my friend and I played on a Friday night. She asked if I would get into a car accident and it said "yes" then she asked if she would total her car and it also said "yes".

Three days later I got hit.
Two weeks later she wrecked her car.

Then I played it with my cousin and in the middle of playing eight glasses fell off a shelf and shattered in the room next to us and it was just us two in her apartment.

But I think it's all coincidence.


I cut myself.
I need help.
I can't tell my parents.
Where can I get help? (link)
I recently stopped about 2 weeks. I told my nana because we are close and I couldnt tell my parents. You can go to guidance at school but they will call your parents but in the long run I know my mom now is for the thought of me getting better.


This question is just to get opinions:
If someone you knew told you that they cut themselves, what would your first reaction be? Would you think they were crazy, would you try to help them, would you be scared of them, or what? (link)
I used to and I told my best friend and she wasn't angry or thinking I was crazy. She was more concerned about helping me and being there for me less so worrying about my every move. I also told my boyfriend so he wouldn't be shocked because I have scars and he was shocked but he said he wouldn't like me any less and he knows what Ive been through and understands. My close guy friends told me he cut and I was worried and I talked to him and we got him help and hes doing good now so it depends on the person I suppose.


i need a way to cope with stress i have no one to talk to know one gets me im emo and im 14 female and all alone i'm a cutter and i hate myself and it seems like im the only one thats like this because everyones so preppy help also i get depressed alot (link)
One you arent emo. Emo is a type of music to clearify that. You arent alone you just wont open up. Make friends. I was the same way. Once you get over the cutting stage you will hate all the cuts and will most likely be ashamed. Its a lifetime problem with a temporary situation.


This is NOT a joke. I seriously think my house is haunted. Tonight I saw something (a black figure out of the corner of my eye) walk past my room. The reason why I dont think it was "just my eyes playing a trick on me" is because I felt a prescence, like there was someone there. When I looked down the hall, there was no one there. I asked my Dad who was watching TV in another room if it was him and he said, "No." And my Mom was sleeping in her room and no one else was home. Please help! This has happened 3 or 4 times and I cant sleep at night! What should I do?? Has this happened to anyone else? How did you feel less scared? :( (link)
Well, I have ghosts in my house. I have seen them before. Just think of it as a blessing to have someone with you because they could be evil. Most likely if you dont go searching or saying stuff about it you will be fine. I just dont go in my attic when im alone. Other then that i basically just look at it as a blessing and a good thing.


Ive always had low self-esteem but for the past few weeks it has really hit a high point. About two weeks ago I ate too much after being on a great diet and losing almost 15 pounds and I weighed myself for the first time then since I had lost weight and i already gained 2 pounds back. I know it wasnt much but it made me so upset that I decided that I would just throw it up and just not eat for the rest of the night. Since then its become a habit. Ill eat a regular sized meal and then throw it up, eat later in the day, keep it and just not eat again. Some days I dont eat at all because I know that I will just want to throw it up later. I really scared myself and Ive been okay for the past few days, but I dont want to feel like I need to throw up again. I know the health issues with it and I know it is very damaging both physically and mentally. I dont want my mom to worry about me any more than she already has to, shes dealing with a lot of stress right now and so I was just wondering if there are any ways that would help me to deal with this or if there is anywhere I could get help. Any advice would be helpful. Thank you (link)
Actually, throwing up doesnt help. The more food that goes in you, the faster your matabilism ( sp?) and yeah. thats it. So good luck.


hey, i was wondering if weed will show up in a blood test. I'm probably going to have one for something completely un-related to drugs. i mean like, they aren't looking for weed or anything. So, i guess i'm wondering if it will show up at all and if they have to be specifically looking for it to find it. How long does it stay in your system? I've heard 38 days, but i've only smoked twice (yesterday and three days ago) and i didn't smoke very much at all. Between both days, i probably didn't even have a bowl. Thanks (link)
yea it probably will but if you drink vinager it wont * good luck


A few years back I had this friend who was really nice. But then after a while she started acting strange. If she saw me talking with another person she'd get all mad and butt in and tell them I was her best friend, and her only best friend. And then she started getting weird and always wanted me over, and if I couldn't come she'd start yelling at my Mom.

So my Mom made me break off the friendship with her in fear of my own health. I did. And she was devistated at the time, but when I changed schools and moved across town, I stopped hearing from her.

But now, three years later, she's sending me threatening mail, she's calling my house, and she won't stop IMing me on different accounts after I block her. I'm pretty creeped out, and I would go to the police, but she hasn't said anything too threatening. She's just calling me bad names and all that.

I really, really want her to stop. What should I do?

Thanks. Sorry this was so long!

~KaT (link)
In prefences it allows you to 'allow only users on your buddylist' so you can block her, set that, then she cant talk to you on IMs anymore. sorry i couldnt help more. * sara


Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks (link)
Well i used to cut too. it is a bad thing to start and a very difficult thing to stop. I tolded my sister who is 15 years old and she got me to stop. you could tell your parent/s and if not them then a close friend or an adult you trust or consleor. hope i helped




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