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my name iS Rachel and I go to a mental health center 5 days a week monday through Friday but anyways here is my problem they let us smoke at the center and there are a bunch of people that smoke and I don't mind giving out ciggerates once in a while and everybody gives them back to me except this one girl who lives in a group home and I understand that she only gets $31.00 a month out of her social sucurity check but it never fails she always asks me for at least 6 or 7 smokes a day and I know she can't afford to pay me back should I mention it to a staff member or would I be a snitch? (link)
you can always just tell her you cant afford to be handing out smokes and leave it at that.the staff wont do nothing you gave her the the smokes.i wouldnt call it snitching more like resolving a small disagreement.aaaa..program drama i miss it sometimes.


i have been through so much in the past year, that the truth is, i just don't know how i've been able to do it all. I've been trying to fight an eating disorder for the past year. Close to full recovery, right after the day I graduated from high school, my mother decides to tell me that i'm adopted. i started college in the summer, because i enrolled for summer b, before i knew my mom was going to tell me that. so, right after graduation, she tells me that, i get back into my eating disorder, and i have to start school right away. i started school extremely depressed. i didn't know who i was anymore, or where i came from. two weeks after that, i find my biological family, and i discovered way too many things. some were good, some were bad. but the bottom line is, that i'm a little bit depressed. there has been a lot more going on in my life. this is just an overview. i can't do it anymore. sometimes, i get so depressed, i can't go to school. my mother treats me like an infant. i'm in freakin college, and i love my mother so much, but it pisses me off. i constantly have to remind her that i'm not a baby. i'm so upset and i hate my life so much. its like nothing makes me happy. i honestly don't know what to do, and i wish i could just not go to school or anything, but i fear that it will make it worst. can anyone give me any type of advice? i use to be a happy girl... and i now i can barely remember what it feels like to be happy. (link)
i can relate.not so much the eating disorder but depresion.we all go thru it from time to time but its part of what makes us who we are. im 25 years old and ive already been incarcerated 7 years since i was 16.you have to look at the good things your freedoom,your future i see your in college.you cant let saddness fill your days when your life is free.


i smoke so much

is there a reason ?

i love the feeling but could it be more?

am i depressed? (link)
i wouldnt know if your depressed because i dont know you. i dont believe pot causes depression or any harm to anyone. to get more effect smoke less.lower tollerance.


theyre not horrible but i had to take tylenol n i usually don't take tylenol anymore.
my period will be starting and i doubt it is associated with my period because this would be the first time getting a headache like this


okay so i took speed at 10 pm
and i was awake all till the next day of 9:30 am
i chewed gum during most of that time

my body ached
for two days
it doesnt ache anymore
but i still get headaches - (this is three days after taking speed)

when will they leave?
my cousin said a couple weeks the most,
and my friends say a couple days
and the chatroom people, as rude as they are say it will last for the rest of my life.

this is the first time ive taken speed
it was in a blue and red capsule

i look up red and blue
and there are weird results .
its like reddd and blue
like
as red as blood and as blue as crip
seriously
half and half
please help me
when will my headaches leave ? im worried ill have them for the rest of my life, im still scared i could have them for weeks.
am i inernally bleeding from speed?!
i am freaking out
my friend took speed all the time and she took x and all that she has no effects from the speed.
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dont use speed is my advice. if you want a life.


The next doomsday is December 21st, 2012, in 3 years, and I know it's stupid, but I'm REALLY freaked out because there's lots of proof. All I do is worry now! ( Stuff at http://movies.yahoo.com/feature/2012-roland-emmerich.html)

Can anyone help me? (link)
dont believe everything you hear.


i always have this feeling, i dunno if theres something wrong with me or its all in my head. i feel like i am always waiting.. like when i'm hanging out with friends or just home alone. its like a waiting anxiety feeling but i dont like it.

any help, should i go to a doctor or is it nothing to be worried about? (link)
you have to stop waiting and start doing


i don't remember my dreams.
i haven't been able to in years.
do i even have dreams?
is this not normal?
unhealthy?
i'm concerned and not sure why i don't remember them.
thanks. (link)
thats normal


Im always deppresed and I want it to stop. I cant aford theropy and I refuse to take pills. Any ideas? (link)
i suffer from deppresion also ive taken pills and been thru years of therapy and pills dont work or therapy i realized you just have to deal with the feelings its life.sometimes you feel good sometimes you dont.thats just what i tell myself.if i feel bad i tell myself it feels so good to feel bad because im lucky to be feeling anything at all.


So I just got to college about 13 hours ago... Im about 4 hours from home and I feel so depressed. I have never felt this way before and I just want to go home. I don't have the strength to do anything. I miss everyone. I feel empty I know no one here and it just hurts!! I have been crying ever since my mom went back home!!! what to do? (link)
I know the feeling.it well pass.


Okay, so the deffinition of physcopath is someone who doesn't have a conciouns (this is what my mom told me). So I think I am, because I don't feel bad about anything I do, period. I know right from wrong and all that, and I know what I should feel bad about and what not, I just don't. I'm in tharapy, but it's never very regular, I've been 2 times in like 3 months. Next time I go should I like mention this or something ? (link)
you have to think of your future cause if you do something against the law it stays on your record and is near impossible to get a job.


Please dont tell me other wise. I want so badly to be happy and live a long healthy life but honestly everything I have done in my life makes me so unworthy of life. I know I need help but I dont trust anyone with this problem. I go to doctors for help but theyre hopeless and take for ever, Im unabled to open up to absolutely anyone. I want it all to end so bad RIGHT NOW!!! I hate myself I hate my life. Im making everyone around me miserable. (link)
things get better maybe worse but if u end it you well never know


I'm so depressed.I can't bear it anymore. I've donea lot of research but it's not helping me.

What's other ways I can treat/better my depression without anti-depressants or therapy.
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I feel that way sometimes,and i dont use medication, i just deal with it and stay busy remember its all in your head.




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