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after you give a guy head are you not supposed makeout witht him again after? idk if they wouldnt want to because they would basically be tasting their nastyyyy or does it depend on the guy? thankyou in advancedd
it pretty much depends on the guy you are with. most guys dont mind. when your done go for the kiss if they back away they dont like it if they kiss back they dont mind. hope i could help
Well I had a crush on this guy for 2 years and he dosnt know. Hes smart and quie hansome and loyal. Just the person i like but i just dont know how to tell him. All my friends like him to i just dont know how to tell him my 2 most trusted friends know i have a crush on this guy and so do thet i dont know how to react or tell him.
well i wouldnt just walk up to him and be like i think your cute i like you. i would maybe pass him a note in class asking him if he wants to hang out sometime, or you can bring it uo in a conversation. who knows he might like you just as much. hope i could help
Alright. So there is this guy and his name is Kyle. He is unlike anyone i ever met before. and he is really funny and cute. I really like him, but I am really good friends with his sister. and I know if I tell her. I think she will think i am using her for her brother. which is not true. I am just confussed :\
if i was you i would just give her little hint that you think hes cute. im sure she onlt think you are using her. just remember dont talk about him allll the time. maybe she will even want to help you out. hope i could help you.
i don't know why i do it, but i always seem to cheat on my boyfriend. how can i resist temptation? i try but its so hard!!!
if you really like a guy there shoudlnt be any temptaion for others. There is no reason for anyone to ever cheat on someone they are with. think about the other peoples feelings. would you want him cheating on you? how would that make you feel? also you ahve to think is that the image you want for yourself? as a girl that cheats on her boyfriends. just think about the other persons feelings and learn hoe to say "no"
hope i could help
Well i was just wondering if it was ok to have sex with my girlfriend when she's having her period if i wear a condom?
yeah its ok. no harm will be done. but it can get really messy so do it in the beginning or the end its a slower flow meaning less blood.
if you and your boyfriend is going out for 3 weeks and you guys were arguing a lot and he breaks up with you even though he still likes you and he wants you back after 5 days of break up would you still get back with him?
part of being in a relationship is going through tough times. you really have to ask your self if you want to be with someone who might brake up with you everytime things get a little rough. on the other hand people make mistakes, sometimes you dont realize what you have till its gone. if you really like him forgive him and give him another chance but have your gaurd up because he may do it again and you dont want to be the one getting hurt. hope i could help.
I have this ex and we recently broke up and he got back on the dating scene. Well after about a month I started being strangely jealous about him dating her. Now they broke up because she was saying at lunch that they were gonna break-up. So now he is single and he has been flirting with me a lot, and just the other day he told his friend something when I was next to him and the guy got all wide eyed and stared at me? I don't know whether I should confess my love to him and possibly get turned down or should I stay in my dumb shell and know that I will always love him?
my advice to you would be to tell him, because if you dont you might always wonder what if.
hope i could help
15/f.
I'm in the 9th grade and I really like this guy. Well, V-day passed and I didn't even bother asking him out or anything....and he didn't make a move either. I know that he likes me as much as I like him. Should I wait for him to make a move? and meanwhile, dress a little more...em..."open?" and flirt around to attract attention..?..or should I just ask him out? :S :S :S
well since you know he likes you he probably hasn't made a move yet because he's nervous. Don't start dressing open. t will attract other guys and send a wrong message about yourself as in being slutty. flirt with him not every other guy but him. again, you don't want him thinking or anyone else thinking you are a slut when you are not. its really not a good image.Ask him out! you waited long enough for him to make a move.
15/m my really good friend,probly best friend in the whole world, who i really like is really depressed. her ex made her feal bad and she thinks its her fault and i never really have seen her happy since. Anyway what can i tell her that would help her. ive tried telling her it wasnt her fault and tried to cheer her up and it wont work. p.s. her name is christy and she is 14. no smartassy answers please and i rate high so please give me suggestions.
all you can really do is tell her it wasnt her fault and give it time and eventually she will get over it. in the mean time help her to keep her mind off it like make plans to go to the movies or shoppin or a sleep over or waht ever you guys enjoy doin. maybe try and meet new people like a new boy probly could really help her get over the old one or atleast keep him off her mind for awhile
i dont know if you guys are familiar with myspace..and tila tequila in particular but my boyfriend is always lookin at her pics. should i be jealous or what? he tells all his friends how perfect she is and shes like half naked in all her pics! im not even half as pretty as her and shes soo pretty grr.
what should i do.. :\
i looked up tila tequia and if i got the right girl i wouldnt be to worried. you boyfriend has a very slim chance of even ever meeting this girl. let him look at her all he wants it would be stupid to start a fight over this im sure theres guys u think are hot to and look at. hope i could help
What are some cute ideas to get your boyfriend??? I want somthin' cute but maybe a lil original. Nothing like a pic together but idk. He dances a lot and it abuot always lissening to music.. Im not to great at buying CDS and he has a lot maybe another idea? Please Help!!!
-13/f-
well maybe you can make him a mix cd of all his favorite song
hope i could help
alright so me and my boyfriend have been together for a month. but we don't tend to talk a lot wich kind of upsets me,i was thinking on ending the realtion ship but i truly do like him a lot. we went out once over the summer for quite a period of time but broke up over a silly reason. but now were together again and i don't want it to get messed up again.how could i talk to him about this?
well its obvious that you two like each other so i wouldnt end it b/c you would probly regret it in the end. make plans with him on the weekends or after school to hang out at your house or his. you guys will get closer and can ave time to talk. if you both have things to do maybe call each other when you have free time or write each other notes.
hope i could help
there is this boy at school that i like. He has a girlfriend but one of his friends told me that he said if he broke up with her than he would go out with me. Should i stay with it or no?????????
lost,
pickme111
umm im not to sure if i really understand whats going on but ill try anyway. if hes going to brake up with her right away for you then sure stay with it he probly likes you alot. but if you have to wait around for awhile for him to this, it kinda just seems like you a back up girlfriend so he has one when him and his current girl brake up, if thats the case you can find someone better.
hope i could help
my best friends boyfriend likes me what should i do ?
well how do you know he likes you, did he tell you stright up i like you? or do u just think he likes you if so i wouldnt jump to conclusions and ruin your friends relationship. however if he did tell you i like you its important that you tell your friend.
hope i could help
my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me for no reason at all.. well i love him.. but i am trying to get over him. i met this other boy and he already loves me.. but hes going way to quick. and i still love my ex. what should i do? i dotn wanna hurt this guy.
you need to tell this guy that you want to take it slow and to slow down because he is scaring you and goin way to fast. start out as being just friends for awhile maybe you like him alot to, and he may be just what you need to get over your ex.
hope i could help
Do guys just want girls who are hot? Or something more?
it really depends on the guy. most guys like only hot girls, some like ones that have more then just looks, and thers a few that like girls for who they are and not just how they look.
hope i could help
Does anyone know any good websites, chatrooms, and basically anything that might help me get in touch with someone with the same interests as I? I'm a 16 year old Asian, yeah pretty sick huh? oh wellz
um you can try myspace.com
okay i like this guy well i dont know if i like him cuz we dont really talk but i wanna get to know him but i cant cuz we never talk hes online all the time but im too scared to IM him becuase we never have anything to talk about its so wired its just always quite and i hate it and keeping the convo. going isnt my only promblem how do i IM him first? if someone can answer both of thoes qustions that would be great thanks!!
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just IM him and say hi and the conversation will be started its not that hard. then just talk like you would with ur other friends. ask him what hes up to. what he did over the weekend, stuff like that.
hope i could help
14/female
okay this boy likes me but he doesnt want to ask me out yet because he thinks im prude and well i only had one other boyfriend before and we only kissed like once but it was like a second. and i dont want a reputation as prude! so i would like to know some tips for kissing someone like much longer than a second ! like making out ! =)
so please leave tips pleasee !! or just anything about kissing that could help me
thanks !
well i dont think i would want to go out with someone if they wonlt go out with me because they think im prude. he kind of makes it seem like he only wants one thing.
theres a guy that I really like. We havent slept together yet but I was hoping that one day we could be more than friends. Anyways I just found out from one of his friends that he spent a year in jail when he was 18, but wouldnt tell me what for. Anyways, that was a long time ago, he is in his 40's now.
He is a really nice guy and I know he would never hurt me. But I'm really curious as to why he was in jail.
Should I ask him or wait for him to tell me?
i think it is important that you ask him for your own good, somtimes people turn out different then they seem. also if you want a relationship both of you should be open and have no secrets.
hope i could help