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well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.
on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!
well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.
my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.
well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata
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k this guy asks me out then like he doesnt call me for 12 friggen days then he calls me wat should i thikn of this guy hes really hott and i like im a lot and he claims he likes me wat do i do?
it sounds like hes just shy you probley need to make the first move call him don't make him call u hes probley just shy thats all.
y did your frend do that
y did you help
y am i the 1 thay all ways pick on
this is kingdrew825/drew
i don't no i didn't help i don't no an ok but i really don't know so don't ask me drew b/c i can't help you b/c i'm not the one who idd it
well my mom wont really let me see my g/f any more soo im really sad cuz i really loved her and i still wanna see her but idk help me please help me
your mom has no right at all telling you that you can't see your g/f. sit down with your mom and ask her why she won't let your g/f anymore. and if she doesn't answer then i would go and see her.
I need major help!! Ok....This boy named Rylee he has liked me sence 4th grade and i never liked him untill this year...which im in 7th grade now...well We have went out 4 times now!! Well we were going out for the 4th time now for 2 months and i dumped him because i was being dumb!! ANd i still like him a lot and love him!!!! I dont know what to do!! I think he hates my life...but IDK...I really wanna go back out with him...and he is like the ONLY person I like...SoOoO What should I do?? Give it time....Or talk to him or what?!?!?! PLEASE HELP!!!!! Katie Backus
well if i was u i would talk it out with him and find out if he really hates your guts. you never know until you ask. to admit it i learned that today and i found out that my b/f wasn't ignoring me. so just ask him.
Hey i'm 17 years old and i've been going out with this grl for 4 years and we were talking about having sex sometime soon. she's given me oral and she's afraid to have sex cause i'm "too big" for her if you know what i mean... well, i dont wanna preasure her but i love her alot and, lets face it, im horny. i dont know what to tell her. you have any advice?
well the good thing is that she wants to have sex hehehe but i thought gurls liked big well i no i do. does she think it will hurt or something? of course its going to hurt the first time. even if it was small. try to proswave her. don't like beg that makes u look bad. just try and tell her everythings gunna be alright. and also be like lets just try it and see what will happen and if you wanna keep going we can if you don't then we can stop.
hope i helped
airhead
Okay well i really like my best friend and idk if he feals the same what do i do?
xO, Disaturis
well since hes your best friend then it really doesn't matter if you just tell him how you feel. if yall are such good of friends he will totally understand. and he may even like you too. take action now before its to late. so ask him if he likes you!
wat do i do if i like sumone but they dont like me
HMMMMMM well you can't help it if your not his kinda girl/guy. it would help if you gave me some details.
What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?
The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago.
well i think that if they can make it work out and that they are happy then thats fine since its not illigal
ok, i am in love with a beautiful girl. but i love her for her personality and the way she asks and shes just perfect! i would like do anything she asked and would take a shot for her. but then comes the problem. i moved to africa about 6 weeks ago. i wake up at like 3 am every morning to talk to her but this move is still breakin my heart. i never actually go the chance to ask her out be for i moved cause i new it would make it all more painful for her. so my questions are, what should i do about this move because i'm goin to give her up and second, i wanna ask her how she feels about me but i dont wanna ask cause idk how she'ld react. i'll rate if u show me you gave this sum thought...
ummm well yeah africa is really far away. well its not your fault that you moved and well long distance relation ships don't work i should know i've had enough of them. yall sound more like best friends. i think you should ask her how she feels about you but if she likes you and you like her then what are you going to do? like i said long distance doesn't work for everyone but it may work for you. hope i helped. sorry if i didn't.
kay well, my (old) best friend was a guy his name was ryan.. he liked me..but he loved his ex girlfriend victorea (they were going out for a year on and off) me and him were soo close.. i liked him too.. but he is going back out with victoera. me and her are not friends AT ALL, she told ryan he cant hang out with me,But he still does but he tells people he hates me,and when i ask him he said brb to me (online) and idk who to belivie my other friends or ryan. but anyway i really really wanna be his friend is there a way maybe i can say something to him that can make us friends again? or tell him i love him or some thing?? please help
I RATE HIGH!!
well since there on and off well all you can do so you don't get on his nerves and agervate him is to just be there for him when they aren't going out. and just to let you know that girl has not right to tell him that he can't hang out with you. the only reason she did that was b/c shes jelous and scared that that friend of yours will like you instead of her.
Okay this is all very confusing, I'm sorry and I hope it doesn't make ya'lls head spin but here is my problem.
I made out with a guy totally unaware that he had a girlfriend.
Well recently, I got in contact with his brother, and she was over there. I mentioned something to his brother about us making out, in jest. She got on and immediatly asked me if whatI say is true.
I said, yes. It was. I wasn't gonna lie.
She told me that they'd been dating for three years straight, and she thought she might be prengnat. HE told me nothing of the sort, that she was just a friend.
After much hassle, she called me and told me she'd confront him about it. She did, and he denied it, and she told me "I don't believe you, I trust him."
Things are blowing up, random friends of hers are IMing me like crazy, and his brother is sort of half and half beleving me, yet feeling dedication towards his brother.
Of course the whole attention thing is on them..its oh "Krista* made a big deal about it.." "OH krista is trying to ruin a relationship" when that totally wasn't my view or anything.
How can I help what she saw? I think its been hurting me more then it has them. What do I do?
I want a logical way to get back at them, or to show them that I don't give two dead rats.
I want the girlfriend to know that it IS true no matter how much he denies it, though it doesnt matter much to me if we messed around or not.
HELP!
xxthanksxx
just forget about what u did with him. its his fualt and when she finds out hes been screwing around with other people then she will apoligize. just forget about it thats what i would do. ignore what people are saying. it will blow over.
I really like this one guy in our school...But i dont know if he likes me back.. All of my friends has talked to him about it but all he says is "i dont know" I guess he knows how i feel about him..But i am not sure..what should i do about this and how do i know if he likes me..If he does..What should i say??? please help me..Thanks..
hmmmm well i would go up to him and start talking to him, but thats just me i'm really outgoing if your shy then write him a note asking if he likes anyone and tell him how you feel about him and say something like maybe if we get to know each other alittle better we could go out or something like that. now adays you have know clue if a guy likes you because they lie a lot and they are having crazy hormones. don't be shy to ask him how you feel about him. you never know what could happen. hope i helped if not i'm really sorry.
breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?
OR
still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?
OR
what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!
well its not your fault if hes depressed because you don't have feeling for him anymore. if you have feeling for his best friend then try going out with his friend if you find out you still like your boyfriend then maybe he will take you back.
well me and my b/f have been goin out for like a little more than 2 months i like him so much and he likes me alot to ... i think... wel anyway me and him and my friend and her bf always hang out on weekends and this weekend my bestfriends bf told me that my bf wanted to make-out with me i kinda do to but he always says stuff like this just never stuff that "intense" i guess u could call it... well everytime we do hang out my bf never acts like he wants to kiss me or anything and i dont kno if he does or not...how would i tell if he does? (sry if its kinda confusing and thats its really long)
ok well you can't really tell with guys now a days. if you want to make out with him then tell him and hell tell you if he wants to make out with you. don't make out until you have kissed though. i hope i helped sorry if i didn't.
airhead
how many finger do u suggest for a girl who has been fingered but only once?????i need to know asap
start with 2
Today i found out from alot of people that my boyfriends been cheating on me with this girl that i absolutly hate and wen i asked my boyfriend about it he sed it wasnt true and they are lying to me, but i dont know wether to trust him or not because he has cheated on me before and tryed to hide it but i found out and idk why but i let it slide (plz noone give me a lecture on that). His bestfriend even told me that which is why im questioning him but he keeps on saying its not true. I dont know what to do, should i break up with him even though hes saying it not true or should i stay with him? someone please help me! btw me and him are both 15 and weve been together for 10 months, and we also dont go to the same school. thanks for your helf
hmmmmm well you don't really know if he is because you don't go to his school. if everyone is saying he is cheating on you then you should spy on him some how. i know its wrong. even his best friend told you hes cheating on you. thats kinda weird i would find out some way. if i was you i would dump him. because something like that happend to me about a year ago. i was going out with a guy and he didn't go to my school but i new his cousin because he went to my school and i new a lot of peeps at his school and i found out hed been cheating on me with one of my best friends from his school. i didn't let him know i new and i just dumped him but he found out that i new and that pissed him off not at me but at his friends who told me. but i mean i had a right to know and you do too.
my friend has kissed my very "friendly" friend and we have gone out a couple time and we still kiss occasionaly...but we havnt made out. the friend that has kissed him said he is the best kisser..and she has kised a lot of guys and said he was the best. i know he wants to do things with me but i get really nervous. should i just let him go for it? cuz i am very "blonde" and i tend to mess things up.a nd this is really important to me. my girl friend said she would teach me how..but i dont know what to do.
HELP!! I RATE HIGH!!
hehehehehehehe i like this question because i am the same. my friend tought me how to kiss it was a disaster. try and make out with the shower wall if its tiles it helps i mean it i know it sounds reaaallllllly stupid but it works i'm not kidding. i use to suck at making out but not anymore i'm like realllllly good now. my friend didn't help she just made me laugh because she was like puck ur lips like this and like kiss your hand or whatever its stupid. you will only mess up if your nerves and try to hard. just go with the flow. he will understand if your not the best at first because its like your first. every person makes out diffrently you have to get the flow of the person you are making out with and move along with him. hope i helped
airhead
okay well i reall hate living at my house..my mom has told me she dont want me here and my step dad has also i've been cryin for the past two nights and the only comfort i've had was my boyfriend he's the greatest well my friend toni wants to runaway and she one my best friends and she asked if i'd go with her...well i've gave this so much thought and i really want to but the reason i wont is cause of my boyfriend well he asked me to marry him and i said yes.. but he kinda felt bad after he told me cause he said he cant do it right now or anything cause were only 16..well i know were young and everything but my friend toni said we should run off and get married..though bout that also but i dont wanna do that then like get caught and his grandma or my mom can get it undone anyways which i know my mom won't cause she really could care less.. but like can anybody gimma advice on how i can try and stand my parents.. ill rate high if its good.. and i also need advice on if you think i should marry him.. i love him more then anything we been through alot together like his mother's deather me havin a miscarriage me havin my airway disease my mom losing her baby and jus a whole bunch of other stuff and i know he will always be there or atleast i think he will.. he hasnt gave up on me yet in the past year and a lil bit longer..and dont tell me im too young cause i know that but lota people get married young and things work out..much luv and thanks ahead of time for anybody who helps..
yeah well don't run away thats stupid. i think you should marry your boyfriend. if your mom doesn't want you there and neither does your step dad then ask your boyfriend if his parents would let you live with him. i mean your old enough too pick where you want to live. and your mom can't stop you and if you take it to court just tell the judge that your mom said she didn't want you there. the judge will do whats best for you just dont' run away and marry that other guy your in love with your boyfriend marry him.
Okay. i just broke up with my man coz it was waaaaaaaay too serious a relationship. i'm 17 him 18 me a virgin him a well a slut. he was always wanting serious conversations and we started fighting coz i'd joke aroud too much and 'hurt his feelings' so yeah. i dumped him. now i want a guy that is fun and stuff but i have no way to meet one! i'm out of school with a full time - 6days a week- job so i barely even have time for my friends. it sux! how can i meet a fun guy??? i know i'll be fine in july coz it's my 18th so i can actually go night clubbing. but what do i do in the meantime? does anyone know a place where heaps of guys hang out? plz help i rate!
no i don't know where a heap of guys hang out. i think you should take these months till you can go night clubbing to have your own space and if you can't handle being single then thats just weird. so just take sometime and think about your life and have fun with your girlfriends and your job.
Ive asked my gf to make out and she said yes, and one time we were at the movies and we went behind a building and i was ya still wanna make out and she said yes. so i said im kinda nervous, she said the same because we both havnt made out before. so how should i start just making out.
lol wow thats a funni question. you don't ask the girl if you wanna make out you just lean in closley and slowley and if she wants to make out with you then she will move in with you and you just start uhhh making out.