Hey! Im Jessica! I am 17 years old, and i love helping people out, my friends say i am good at giving advice b/c i am a good listener.. If i can help anyone let me know. Just ask and i guarantee i will give u an honest answer, b/c that is what u r looking for:)
Gender: Female
Location: Tennessee
Age: 17
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Yahoo: misspimpinthang69
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Member Since: June 23, 2004
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I need help on kissing. When i kiss a girl, im always worried about hittin her teeth with mine, and i was wonderin how to avoid that. (link)
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to be honest, i worried about the same thing!! trust me, when u start kissing, it wont happen.. but to avoid it, dont like press ur mouth so hard against her, focus on the lips and the tounge.. but im tellin u, it wont happen.. it just dont work that way
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i have this boyfriend. but hes black. i really really like him and we`ve been on and off for like a while now im just afraid my family wont approve..they arent racist they jus dont exactly approve of this kind of thing maybe because the only black man brought into out family happened to be involved with drugs and violence pleasee help me i dont want to listen to my family bcause i care for him so much isnt that what counts? (link)
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hey, i have had this same problem. talk to your parents bout this situation and try to convince them that he is a good guy and he isnt like that one who was brought into ya family. If they dont approve ask ya self if ya family is worth giving up and not havin them approve of what u do. and if they approve go for it, but think long and hard if they dont.. just go with what ya heart tells u to do. hope i helped
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I got caught having sex with my girlfriend, and now her parents are making us break up. They wont allow her to see me or talk to me anymore. the only reason why i had sex with her is because i feel that she is going to be the one i spend the rest of my life with. it would be ironic that the first time i have sex i get caught, please help (link)
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first of all how old r u? and if ur sure like 100% sure that u r gonna b with her the rest of ur life, dont listen to ya parents.. i mean like if ur like under 16, then listen to em.. other than that, do what ur heart tells u to do, and b with her no matter what.. what do her parents say about this? or do they know? i need more info about u and how both sides feel..
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hey its tj again obviously im not your favorite person rite now but what do i do if i just flipped out on my g/f for somethin that she said she didnt write and i didnt believe her till now and now shes all pissed and tellin me to talk to my ex n shit cuz i really dont wanna lose her shes the coolest girl ive ever met i love her so much words cant explain please help me
thanx love ya tj
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u should just tell her how u feel seriously, just set her down and let her know,even if its going to hurt her. she has to know and u cant hold back feelings forever. and if u want to go back with ya ex tell her b/c u dont wanna make her look like a fool.. b stra8 up
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ok.. ive been going out with this gurl for quite awhile and i dumped her and now im going out with someone else.. but just the other day i heard my exs song.. and all my feeling are back for her. i want to tell my gf but i just cant. WHAT should I do!? (link)
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i mean if u still like her give her another change and tell that other girl how u feel
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hey jessica its your man tj and i need to know what do i do if my girlfriend thinks im gonna cheat on her i mean i know i wont i love her and i never wanna do that to her but shes worried because ive done it before what do u think i should do to get her to trust me? thanx love ya (link)
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well i think u should tell her straight up, look, i love u too much to cheat on u and stuff like that, be faithful to her, talk to her and see her as much as possible, just let her know how it is.. and girls r always goin to b worried, if u tell them u cheated on a past gf..so just tell her
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I dont know you, but i can see you can help people. i am 18 and i have more hair on my chest then my father. Its not a good thing, the last 4 g/f's i have had dumped me because of it. i tried shaving, but it hurts REALLY BAD, and tried waxing it (dont even wanna know how girls do it) but NeWays, and because of that i have not had luck with girls, there is this girl i like and she "says" she feels the same, but i dont know how it will go, she doesn't know about it, and i wanna tell her, but scared she will run off!! CAN YOU HELP !!! (link)
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well, waxing does hurt, and shaving is gives irritation!! so use nair, nair is hair removal, its just u put it on the spots, leave it there for i think 10-15 minutes, and then u take a warm cloth and wipe the lotion off, and its gone, its not irritating, and it w*ont cause rash. Or get the =nair for sensitive skin, and there is one called sally hansen that is a hair removal, jus put it on a lil place where it isnt noticable, try it, and make sure it dont mess up ya skin b4 u use it all over!! HOPE I HELPED.
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I have a question that i hope someone can help me with. Is it right to change for a guy? I use to have this one boyfriend that was a punk and I was jusst a normal 13 year old girl. all of his friends were punks to and at that time I was overwhieght and diddn't care about what I looked. Well then all of a sudden my boyfriend just dummped me w/no explanation. And a little while later I started getting into the punk music and cloths and i lost 20 pounds. Now I'm obsessed w/punk music and cloths but i don't know if it's b/c i want him to see what he missed out on or if it's really what i want. About 6 months have passed since my break up w/him. Since our breakup was just b4 the summer no body not even my friends have seen me, so I can't wait till school starts so i can see everyone's reaction esspecially his. But do n-e-of you think this is righ? Pleae someone help me.
Always
Nat (link)
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no u dont change for anyone but yourself! and if a guy dont like u for who u r, and wants u to change, he isnt worth your time.. and if u go back to school and that guy wants u back, dont go for it b/c hes just usin u for looks!!
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ok well, me (a guy, 16) and one of my best friends (a girl, 16)have been friends for over 10 years, since elementary school. Recently we have gotten really close and we really like eachother. we talk all night on the phone and we fall asleep on the phone together and we talk like half the day everday. today at 7 she left to california from florida and she'll be there for a week or so. we really care about eachother but i dont know how to proceed with the relationship. we both know just about everything you can imagine about eachother and we talk about anything that comes to mind. we havent gotten a change to see eachother since the 12th and ill probaly see her the day after she gets back from cali. we havent kissed or anything yet. im not sure how to proceed with the relationship becuase i dont want to mess up our relationship and friendship. she means the world to me and thats the last thing i would want to happen. If you could help me out id greatly appreciate it.
thanks for any help, brandon
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you know what they say! friends make good lovers:) maybe, if you get together, ya will find out that you were meant to be with each other. she might b the one for you:) just give it a go, and if it dont work out that good then call it quits and still be friends:)
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Hey..I got a long story, but I'ma try to make it short! Me and my ex were going out for 6 months...I fell in love with him, and he meant the world to me! But I had a little secret..& I felt guilty and thought maybe the best thing to do was be honest with him, and tell him the truth. It took me awhile, but I finally gained enough courage to tell him. At first he was kind of okay with it..since I told him nothing is ever gonna happen like that again, and blah blah..and he was str8 cuz i was honest w/ him. WELL a few days later he starts freakin out! like crazy..he was like "ive been thinkin and i jus cant be with a girl who cheated on me..yadda yadda" i was speechless. I know I made a mistake..a big one. Because I honestly think this guy was the perfect one:( But doesnt everyone make mistakes? YES..but is everyone honest and truthful anout their mistakes? not exactly..but i was..and what did i get out of it? nothing. i lost the one guy i ever gave my heart to. what should i do? (link)
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maybe you should tell him how u really feel about him, and tell him that at least u were honest, and didnt keep it from him:) if he liked u as much as he ever said he did, he should forgive you. honesty is the key, and girl u have it! so just b like hey, i like u alot im sorry.. and it wont happen again.and if he dont like you bein honest, then dont waste ya time, he isnt the perfect one, there is someone out there better if he dont wanna associate with u.
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i am gay and i think my mum knows, what do i do? (link)
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first of all, if your gay, you shouldnt hide it, unless u have a really good reason to. just tell her and dont be scared, she wouldnt be dissapointed b/c ur her son, and she wont disown u
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okay i asked a question earlier bout my girl friend cheatin on me well i went over to her house to talk and she wasnt there i went u to her room to see if she and saw her fuc**** with the same guy she looked at me and was suprised i ran out the door upset as i could be then to make matters worse that guy came out and said "guess the better guy won" and that was fighting words so i went up to him and said ur right u can have her and tuned around to leave and the guy sucker punched me so i turned around and knocked the sh** out of him.
did i do the right thing?
P.S thanks 4 helping me with my problem u dont know how much it helped (link)
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in a way yea but in a way no.. the guy isnt at fault.. that bitch is. he prolly didnt know that she was with you, so it really isnt ur place to hit him.
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okay my girlfriend and i were very close she was beautiful and funny and just an all around good girrl i love her so much 2 monthes ago she was killed some 1 came to her house murdered her and robbed her i feel really bad because the night that happened we got into a huge fight i cant stop blaming myself for wat happened i keep beatin my self up physically and mentally about this wat do i do i cant move on and its screwin uo my life (link)
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all you have to do is think about the good times you and her had. and NO its not ya fault that happened. im really sorry that it did though. maybe you should talk to someone about it and maybe it wont b as much pressure once u get it off ya chest.
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me and this gurl have been friends for years snd know shes hittin on me like askin me out on dates and even spending the night which all the fellas know i love and dont get me wrong its nice she is really hot and is the works
wat do i do by the way im 15
Sincerly:The pimp (link)
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well i think you should go for it. if she likes you and you like her then there shouldnt be anything stopping you
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jessica, alright the same girl that i am in love wit and "cheated on" kinda well were not exactly together ne more but shes still gonna flip out when i tell her bout that but ne way shes back with her ex but she still talks to me and seems like she wants to be with me and i dont know what to do o and when i get off probation im gonna beat her b/f ass but she doesnt want me too. and last but definitely not least when are you gonna come over her so we can fuck? (link)
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well, seems to me,that girl is just trying to make you jealous by going back out with her ex. and she shouldnt flip out over it if you not together no more. i think you should just forget about her, she isnt worth it. AND ILL COME OVER AND FUCK ANYTIME U NEED ME TOO:)
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hey i have been kind of seeing this girl for about 6 months now and it kinda is comin to an end but i really love this girl and i had sex with another girl the other day. i dont know what to do should i tell her and hope she forgives me or what? (link)
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well you cant base your relationship on lies. your supposed to be honest.. honesty is the answer. and if you tell her, tell her the truth, just tell her that u love her and that ur sorry and hope she forgives you:) i hope i helped
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Ok, I personally think this is total bull shit but, there's this girl I went out with for 6 months and shit and shes a twin. She broke up with me a little bit ago, maybe about 4 weeks. Anyway, we broke up and shit, and then I had feelings for her sister. I mean like deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep serious feelings. I don't know if I should tell her or not say anything so their relationship won't be worried. What the hell should I do? (link)
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damn, that was alot of deeps... but maybe you should tell her but ask her not to tell her.. who cares what her sister says. just tell her u dont want it to ruin her and her sisters relationshi
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Hey! iight, i had this friend who was a girl who i used to like, and see, i didnt know she liked me, until i got a gf and she just came out and told me that she liked me, i still want to be her friend, but everytime i talk to her it seems awkward.what should i do? oh, and, all my friends and family met my gf, who i like alot, and they dont like her b/c they say she is a bitch. my cuzzin dont like her at all.. what should i do about that? (link)
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if you have ya gf that u like.. then whats the problem, and if she is a bitch to you then drop her, and talk to the girl who isnt a bitch.
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my sis has many friends that i like and a fyew that i think like me! -_-;
im not sure what 2 do... (link)
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actually to be honest, i think u should flirt wit em. and if they flirt back they like you.. but u should definetly go for it as long as it dont ruin theirs and ya sisters friendship
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well,theres is this guy that i like , and im pretty sure he likes me!but when i talked to him hes like "Ur kool and all but ur a little to young"!i dont get it!im not even 2 years younger than him!wats the deal,is it cause hes my brothers friend or sumthing?
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yea most likely it is b/c its your brothers friend. i mean, think of it like this, would u get mad b/c ya brother dates one of ya friends. im guessin u might. maybe, he dont want ur brother thinkin that he is only hangin out with him b/c of you. just talk to him about it
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