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because..I had a dream that I kissed a previous crush...previous to my actual boyfriend..meaning that..i didn't kiss my boyfriend in my dream..but kissed someone who I used to like. =X And I mean..I still like him..but I have a boyfriend..and this just makes me doubt my relationship with my boyfriend even more! (We're having some trouble in our relationship, actually...)
can it mean anything? 16/f. my boyfriend's 16 and the guy in the dream is 16..lol this is a bit ridiculous..but it might mean something..o_o

Your dream means that you still have slight feelings for your previous crush. If you still like your crush, and you are having difficulty with your boyfriend right now, then i suggest that you take a while off from having a boyfriend and think long and hard about who you like more, then if your up to it..try again. If you are doubting the relationship then you should be thinking if you actually like your boyfriend anymore.

I dont think that this would be cheating, even subconsciously, because technically your just dreaming about it, you havnt actually done anything in real life.

Hope I Helped &
Good Luck =]

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hi there,

I am currently doing a survey for my college and would like to ask this question on advicenators

Would you as a girl,confess to guy about your feelings first? or would you prefer for the guy to do it?

and why would you prefer the guy or yourself to say it first?

this is in context of assuming that you both are great friends,mutual friends or strangers,,you can reply based on any situation.thanks again!

Though might having to wait much longer, In my opinion i would much rather wait for the guy to confess first, because if he does it first and you like him than it can all work out. But if you would confess first and the guy doesnt have the same feeling you are left to feel embarrassed and such.

Hope I Helped =]

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ok so i have non this guy for a lil bit and i really like him. and we have gone to the movies and he has held my hand and he has given me a piggy back rid and all kinds of things i have sat on him to. ok so i want to ask him out now!but every time i call i get his answering thing so i left a message and no call back? and i herd he likes me from my best guy friend who goes to the guy i lies school but he also says hes been talking to his ex gf and to me thats not good at all.
so i want him to go to the movies with me and my friends bc they all have dates but me!!!!
so what do i do???how do i ask him out how do i know that he likes me!?

Well, if he lets you hold his hand, and sit on him...then there could be a chance that he likes you.

For the calling thing..he might have Caller ID and if he sees its you then he might be to nervous to pick up, and when you leave a message he probably listens to it and debates whether he wants to call you back.
So he might just be nervous.

If you want to ask him out...Check if there is a carnival, or a dance or anything going on - Either ask him to be your date before you go -or- Over cotton candy or when your dancing with him just look him in the eye and be like "can i tell you something?" and when he asks what just explain to him that you like him as a little more than a friend, it wont come as much as a shock to him because he will be having fun.but then he will know.

After what you said sank in than take the dive and go ask him out!

Hope I Helped&Good Luck:)
Go Gettem Tiger!

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ok i was with this guy dylan and cody and becca and then zac had to come too
dylan put his arm around me and it was cute and we held hands and then he pullled me into the guys bath room and we got kicked out of the mall so we went out side and it was so cold! so he sat on a bentch and hes like rachel coem here i have to tell you somethin so i walk over to dylan adn he pulls me down on his lap i dint really care so now we are all waiting for beccas mom to poick us up and when she gets there he started text n zac and wouldnt let me see so i didnt care but whne i tryed to give him a hug good bye he blew me off kinda so i was like ok but then i relized his dad was in the drive way so i understood why ok soo all that night me adn becca were talkin about dylan and shes like hang out i got a texted from zac and im liek okkkk and he was liek me andvgirl friend just broke up!and im liek aww so

saturday we wake up at like 10 and codys like you guys need to ccome over so we did and thhen zac was there too!and im like hi hi and i huged him and then so we watched a movie and i like feel asleep on zac and he strated kissing me so i woke up and kissed him back!and then he like pulled me on top of him and we started makeing out and it was amaizng!like it was so wow! and then he got a text from dylan asking him what he was up too and he was like um with rachel and becca and cody and dylan was like can i come over i want to see rachel and zacs like no so me and zac strated makeing out again!and it was better then befor too and then he put a blanket over us and he kinda liek felt me up!!!!!!!! and yeah he gave me my first hickey!!!!!!

ok sunday hmm no call from ither guys!and i think i was a rebond for zac but when i left he was like rachel i will call you later to night!but he didnt!ahhh!what does that mean???

Sorry but ...whattt....???
maybe you should re-word the question a little and maybe check your spelling....

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13/f

I'm in 8th grade and have a crush on this boy. He is nice to me and he talks to me sometimes and we have assigned seating so he sits behind me and he pulls my hair and stuff but he talks to other girls too. So its not just me. I don't know what to do. I like him but I've told two of my friends and they promised not to tell anyone. I don't think any other girls like him but you never know. He jokes around with too but I want him to ask me out. And I usually don't talk a whole lot so me telling him how I feel would be the most embarrassing thing ever. So any advice for me? Thanks!

Communication!
If you want him to notice you as more of a friend then start talking to him more, even if its just random conversation like "what classes do we have today?" "Uhmm [insert classes here]" "aww man..."

Flirting!
Start to giggle more at what he says, even if its not really that funny! and when he looks at you stare him right in the eyes and hold it for a second, then break it and look away.

Confidence!
Don't think of yourself as fat;ugly etc. because that will show when you talk to the guys, if you come off as confident and outgoing to a guy there will be more of a chance.

Don't Worry!
Don't worry if he talks to other girls.. (jealousy is poisonous) and maybe you want your friends to kind of hint at him that you like him..because he will become more interested in you if he knows.

Hope I Helped
and good luck with the guy :)

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why are teen girls so obsessed with boys i mean all my friend talks about is this one boy she has a crush on and she has only seen him 4 times in her life and is already planning there wedding im tierd of all my friends talking about crushes so why are teen girls so obsessed with boys i really wanna know

Its just something in the girl mind...They'll grow out of it and you will eventually grow into it when you have a huge huge crush. Its the same with guys thinking girls are hot and have only seen them one time.
hope i helped:)

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I am a junior and a girl. I have never had a relationship with a guy, I've never kissed a guy, i have never been on a date. I consider myself to be a very pretty, nice girl, a bit shy or reserved, but i talk to boys all of the time.I talk to them, but i don't know how to...flirt, attract them, etc. I keep convincing myself that it's no big deal after each of my friends has their first kiss or boyfriend, and that my time will come eventually, i keep going places, on vacation or school trips and saying to myself, this is the time for you, then they pass, and my life remains lovless. As much as i would like to think that it doesn't matter that i can't get guys, I know I'm wrong, because i;ll only live once, and i want to expierience all things wonderful, ecspecially love. Part of my problem could be is that i am not, to put it bluntly, a slut or an in your face flirt. What can I do? Thanks, any advice, tips, suggestions or words of support would help.

you have to take risks...wear skirts v-neck shirts to attract the guys..and then with the flirting just giggle alot and toss your hair..lol even if they tell a stupid joke, laugh at it (like not hysterical...but
a light giggle) when the guy that interests you looks at you make eye contact for a second and then break it. but do remember to keep your self-confidence up, dont bring yourself down because you cant get a date, just live your life day by day and see what comes out of it...if you have confidence in things you do then it will attract anybody (not meaning that in a bad way lol)
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/how-to-get-a-guy-to-notice-you.html
hope i helped:)

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when dancing, what's the best way to grind? like not sexually grinding. but grinding in a way that makes me a good dancer. and look like a good dancer. thanks for the help!

grinding isnt really "not sexual" but here are a few tips:

http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/ib/topic.cgi?forum=33&topic=16

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I broke off a seven month relationship about two months ago. I used to be a flirting machine, but lately its like I've almost forgotten how to be flirty around cute guys.

I was curious, could you guys give me some tips on how to be flirty and confident? My last relationship was verbally abusive, so my confidence level is way low and I've developed BDD. I really want to be the happy, flirty girl I used to be. Any ideas?

1) if a guy talks to you and tells like the stupidest joke ever just be like "omg thats so dumb" but giggle at the same time.
2) wear skirts and low cut shirts that make the guys stare.
3) when a guy makes eye contact, make eye contact with him to, then break it and walk away..its make you seem mysterious.
4) the 4 main things to do are : GIGGLE
HAIR FLIPPING
EYE CONTACT
TAKE RISKS

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For the past month or two I have liked this guy. His name is Riley and he is very sweet. We talk all the time and we always flirt and joke around and compliment eachother. He always tells me how awesome I am and how he thinks I am one of the nicest girls ever and how I am alot of fun. I think he is really sweet, funny and understands me. He is a grade older than me and he goes to another school.

My best friend is really good friends with him so she talks to him alot. She found out he really likes me, but there is one problem. He also likes 4 other girls. Hes not sure who he likes more so he doesnt want a girlfriend right now cause he doesnt want to end up hurting anyone. Im not supposed to know any of this. Ive never told him straight out I like him but I want to. I was going to last night but I chickened out because I was afraid of being hurt. Should I tell him how I feel? Or try to move on and the girls at his school have him? Any ideas? Thanks

I think that you should go for it and ask him, the worst he could say is no, it might sting a bit if he says no, but hes not the only guy out there, so i say go for it and ask him, you've got nothing to lose. Good Luck!!

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