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This boy


Question Posted Sunday January 20 2008, 4:43 pm

13/f

I'm in 8th grade and have a crush on this boy. He is nice to me and he talks to me sometimes and we have assigned seating so he sits behind me and he pulls my hair and stuff but he talks to other girls too. So its not just me. I don't know what to do. I like him but I've told two of my friends and they promised not to tell anyone. I don't think any other girls like him but you never know. He jokes around with too but I want him to ask me out. And I usually don't talk a whole lot so me telling him how I feel would be the most embarrassing thing ever. So any advice for me? Thanks!


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katiebug12 answered Monday January 21 2008, 12:01 am:
o honey i am right there with you. guys are kinda confusing if you think about it. he more than likely likes you. even though he messes with other girls just means hes holdin back (or hes a player) ive seen this happen so many times to great girls. what i would do is try to stick out make him olny think about you. if he puts back effort that means he LIKES you but you never know you may make a lasting impression..

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xomuffinn answered Sunday January 20 2008, 8:36 pm:
Communication!
If you want him to notice you as more of a friend then start talking to him more, even if its just random conversation like "what classes do we have today?" "Uhmm [insert classes here]" "aww man..."

Flirting!
Start to giggle more at what he says, even if its not really that funny! and when he looks at you stare him right in the eyes and hold it for a second, then break it and look away.

Confidence!
Don't think of yourself as fat;ugly etc. because that will show when you talk to the guys, if you come off as confident and outgoing to a guy there will be more of a chance.

Don't Worry!
Don't worry if he talks to other girls.. (jealousy is poisonous) and maybe you want your friends to kind of hint at him that you like him..because he will become more interested in you if he knows.

Hope I Helped
and good luck with the guy :)

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GApeach1395 answered Sunday January 20 2008, 8:33 pm:
i'm 13 also so i would try and flirt with him a little bit here and there by like softly hitting him in a sweet kind of playful girly way like when he says something funny. Hope it works!

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