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OK, this is complicated...
14/F
I had a boyfriend. I HAD. Let's say his name is Collin.
I saw him making out with this other girl after school, though. In public, like, right out the school doors, at the stairs. He and that girl didn't even try to hide behind anything, pretty thoughtless. So I told him I'd seen what he did the next day, and his only excuse is, "I'm sorry... I couldn't help it." I guess he expected me to forgive him because he looked seriously freaked when I dumped him right there.
I got over him, and he kept apologizing to me (probably because THAT GIRL turned out to be taken) and begging me to go out with him again. I know he's not loyal. I had a major heartbreak because I thought I was special to him but he just goes whatever about me to kiss THAT GIRL.
I started going out with this other guy, say... Brent. I'm really starting to love Brent alot. He helped me out of my depression and he;s really sweet... but then Collin shows up with slit wrists and tells me he'd keep cutting himself if I don't go back to him. I told him I really like Brent and even though I hate Collin, I don't want him to hurt himself because he's still a human being.
What should I do?

well you should tell collin that he shouldnt hurt himself because of you..
tell him that he really hurt you and that hurting himslef isint going to make it better and maybe tell someone about him hurting himself.

hes tenically emotionally abusing you.
hes playing with your emotions by hurting himself.
maybe get someone like his best friend to talk to him.

hope all goes well.

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Hey, I'm 14 years old, a freshman in highschool. So there's this boy i really really like, we just met this year and are firends. I can't tell if he likes me back though. Sometimes he talks to me, sometimes i tlak to him, and now we've been walking to classes with one another ( he's in four of my classes, three of them are right after eachother)

I've caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me looking at him a few times. We joke around modestly, as he's pretty quiet. But he seems to like talking with me...he usually will make a comment to me if we're near eachother and spark up conversation. I try to stay back and walk with him, and sometimes he appears to walk with me by his own choice. And lately he's been looking at me more than usual and sparking up more conversation with me. But the thing is, if i try to talk to him online , he just doesnt seem interested. I'll get so far as to ask "whats up" and he wont reply. But he will reply to questions relating to school work etc. Does he like me? thanks for your help

well i have preety much the same thing happening to me.

it depends on the guy and you i cant be 100% sure but theres a preety good chance he likes you.

what i do is ask him one day be like do you wanna play questions, and if he says yes dont just be like who do youlike and get to know him well, like ask random questions like shoe size and stuff like that. he could like you or he could not it depends. he might just be flirting and not know that hes making it seem like more.

well i hope i helped, if theres anything else i can help you with i will.

good luck

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ok well..i was with my bf for about a year and a half..and he accused me of calling him all the time..and we broke up and got back together yesterday and then i called him last night to leave him a voice mail to say goodnight..not wanting him to pick up and he didn't so i just left him a voice mail (he was at work) and then he just got done telling me that he wants me to grow up and not to ever call him ever again and he doesn't want to talk to me ever again..and i just dont know what to do..i really love this guy and when we talked yesterday he really loved me to..but what do i do..i really need help! please help me!!

i think he does like you alot cos u were going out for a while but maybe you shouldnt call him everyday especially for something just like goodnight. some guys think its sweet but maybe he doesnt so maybe try not calling him so much.

hope it works.

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boys dont like me im not sure why, how do you get boys to like you more? how do you act and stuff and dress? dont say be yourself i just want some tips

well i dont know about your school but in my school 90% of the guys are really shallow. but just look presentable, that means dont dress like a slut just jeans and a nice shirt or something, also you can try talking to them, flirt.

and if you talk to some of them alot and really get to know them and be yourself theyll start to like you for just being your self and confident.

hope it works.

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So me and this guy are planning on going to a haunted house next weeked, the thing is I get scared really really easily and i don't want to look stupid. Me and him aren't going out but I kind of dout he likes me but I like him. Also It'll be kind of cold, what should I wear to still look cute? And how can I look mature and not freak out?

F/15

okay well i have like the same problem and wear what you usually wear dont change just for some guy and if you have to just to impress him hes not worth it and for the scary part just remember its not real like srsly people will pop out at you and stuff but they are just like teenagers and stuff.

good luck.

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What are some good excuses to get a guy's number or screen name that you like?

you can alwasy be like i lost my sim card and trying to get phone numbers whats yours orr.. you can say whats your number like ask others in that class so he doesnt know its just him and like say just incase your sick or miss the hw.

and sn- just be like whats your sn. simple as that.


good luck.

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