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i never know what to talk about with guys either on the phone or in person. anyone have some simple ideas. this sounds dumb i know but i could really use the help. thanks

talk about movies that are coming out. you could talk for hours about a movie you both want to see or one of you has seen and maybe you'll end up going together.
talk about music. it doesn't matter if he's into punk and your a pop princess, other way around, whatever =D... you can experiment in a guy's music. maybe you'll like it. and it's a great topic.
also, ask him about places he's been, thing's he's done. things like that
and about what he'd like to do/ accomplish.
hope I helped.

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There is this boy at school, lets call him Joe(his name really isn't Joe), that i really really like! But i dont even think Joe knows my name! How do I get him to notice me? Also to make the problem worse he likes my best friend Karlee. And i know he does cause he told her. I am really shy and dont want to go up there and tell him i like him because i am afraid he will think i am a dork! To top it off all of my friends think i am childish because i have only had 1 boyfriend! Ohh and if this helps i am 13/f. Please HELP!!!!!!!!

first off, you are so not childish fer having only one bf! gosh! lol. seriously, though, you should find out his screenname or something because it would be easier to talk to him online. Or if he shares any of your classes, ask him for homework or help with SOMETHING! Or if you know one of his friends, you could ask him/her to mention you to "joe".
Confront your friend, Karlee. And ask her to tell him that she doesn't like him so he will give up on her and be ready for you.
Hope SOME of this helped.
let me know and do rate!

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Ok, so theres this guy whom i am so inlove with and have been for almost a year, of course hes known all this time and he still treats me like a reeli gd mate and stuff...but now all my friends are starting to like him to cos hes just such a nice guy and hes so funny...hes realy attractive but thats not why i feel for him. im going to see him at the weekend to go to the cinema but my friends are also going to be there. the ones that have started to like him as much as i do, over the past year hes had girlfriends it killed me inside but ive never felt as bad as this, now that everyone im close to likes him...i just want him to like me. he sed he liked emos, so i went emo for a few weeks. he didnt care much and my friends got realy worried about me changing myself for him so they made me stop. i was just wondering if u had some advice to find out if he liked me even the slitest bit? or if u knew how i could make him like me. x

first off, you should never change yourself for a guy. really, you gotta be your own person. i dont think he should be like "i like emos" because im sure he doesn't like every emo in the world and he may like, say, a jock or a girly person. if you like him that much, sit next to him at the cinema and get your flirt on. don't overwhelm him though. you should really tell him how you feel, too. if he feels the same about you, than ask him out just the two of you. let me know what happens.

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I sent a sorry message to a boy today
he hasnt read it yet but im so scared.
I dont know if hes going to write back or not.
and no , i cant talk to him in person , becuase he wont look at me or he'll be with his girlfriend.
I didnt do anything that bad, but i know he hates me and we used to be friends.
And normally id let it go, but i like ,love him.
My question is, do you think he will respond?
And do you think its going to be nice or mean?
thanks

you really never know.
im sure if you guys are good frends he will forgiv you for whatever it is that you did.
im pretty sure he'll be nice about it, but if not, prepare yourself, and DO NOT be defensive and get into a bigger fight. i hope you guys make up.

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13/f

k well theres this guy that likes me. the thing is that i dont know if i like him or not. one day ill be like in love with him and the next ill be like ew gross. i dont know why im acting like this. what do i do?

I know I say this a lot, but it is so true, you HAVE to get to know the guy before you judge him. if he asks you out, go on one date with the guy. what's the worst that will happen:: you don't like him at all. that's it. see what happens.

Hope I helped =D

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okay yeah well there is this guy that i pranked a couple of times...like really bad they weren't at school they just were like little inside things exept one was like really big and now the problem is i really like him...i think he knows i do but how do i find out what he thinks of me since what i did to him?

you should apologize first of all. tell him that you never meant any of the pranks. then get to know him a little more. once you do, you'll be able to talk and if he doesn't want to take your relationship to the next level, it's not all bad. you two could end up being friends. if he feels the same way after you apologize, YAY! score for you.
btw: notes work too, if you don't want to directly confront him. hope i helped

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14/f. i like my guy best friend. he's so awesome and i feel like we can have a really good relationship, but i don't know if he likes me. plus, there's this other girl he's friends with, and during a field trip we had friday, they were together the whole time. they're not going out, but it really made me SOO JEALOUS. and i don't like feeling jealous, but what can i do?! there's times that i feel like asking him out to make sure he's mine and cuz i've been waiting for so long. i really really do like him. the people who knows that i like him told me to just tell him, but i'm scared as hell. this is not like the other boys that i've liked, cuz i wasn't such great friends with them, and i don't wanna ruin our friendship. so what should i do?

I liked my guy best frend a few years ago and hes been obsessed with this girl since forever. So I tried to stop liking him and told myself its not worth it and now i wonder "what if..."
I dont think you should leave yourself wondering. but if u think the frendship is too close to jeopardize, dont go for it!! maybe ur better off as frends
then agen, maybe not. if you REALLY like him ASK HIM OUT!! if you are jealous of a girl he hangs out with, i think you really like him. flirt with him and hint A LITTLE that you like him. c what happens.
hoped i helped

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13/m
Hi, i really like this girl but i dont know if she likes me. idk if i shud try to ask her out and maybe get lucky or just wait. but the problem is that i cant wait, i love her to much and i dont think i can keep goin on without her knowing that i like her. So the main part of the question is "how could i tell that she likes me or not, or how shud i ask her out"

Thanx

Has this girl ever had a boyfriend? If not, I think you have better chances of her saying yes. That's only cuz iv nevr had a bf and id go out with anyone just to c if there is more. You should ask someone to find out who she likes, and it doesnt matter if the person you asked told because she'll be flattered.

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