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hey everyone!!i love giving advice and helping people. i want to be a psychologist when i'm older... also, my friends tell me that i give really good advice, so just ask me some questions and i'll answer them the best that i can! =)
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Me (14) and my current boyfriend(14) have a had an on and off kind of relationship. like we've broken up 3 different times, but things seem like they're going down hill again for a 4th time. He's stopped saying he loves me when we get off the phone or off line. We dont' see each other all that much cuz he lives 45 minutes away from me ... and that kind of presents a problem. Especially now that im going into highschool. Its like a whole new world of oppurtunitys. He to is going into in highschool adn i think things are pretty much coming to an end between us, and that breaks my heart but at the same time im relived because i can be open to new experiences ... i love him but im not sure he's feeling what he says he feelings, how he says he feels and how he acts on those feelings are to different things .. i just don't know anymore ...
seeing other people might be a good idea. it doesn't seem like your relationship will work out, because you've already broken up a few times. and since you're going into high school, it's probably better to take a break from each other. you might meet new people, and maybe you'll find a guy who you KNOW likes you and you won't ever have to doubt him! talk to your boyfriend, and if you decide to separate for awhile, be nice about it, and try to remain friends! good luck babe! =)
OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!!
if he has a girlfriend and he's flirting with another girl, then that's not a good sign. if he breaks up with his girlfriend for you, then be prepared for her to be very jealous and say things about you.. depending on how cool she is about the whole situation. well good luck, hope it all works out! =)
i know this boy and we dated for 8 months 2 years ago then we didnt talk for 2 years and then we started talking and we botrh started liking each other and like i moved to vegas from ga and im goioing bak in about 10 montha and we decieded to have sex then we got in a huge fighta nd he still thinks i will have sex with him whne i come bak what sohuld i do i really do love him im not sure if he loves me
don't feel pressured to have sex with him! if you feel like it isn't right, or you're not ready, or have any doubts AT ALL, then don't do it. and i'm assuming you haven't seen him in awhile, so you don't know what he's like or who he's been with. in the end, if you decide to have sex with him, use a condom! be safe! hope that helped you! =)
ok....theres this kid that is going out w/ the girl i love...and he knows that i still love her...(she's my ex)....and he makes fun of me b cuz he's going out w/ her and im not....he makes up all these lies saying that she said them...but she didnt just to piss me off. i want to kick his ass...but then she'll hate me forever....every one else says to forget what she thinks about it and just do it....but i dont know what to do.....HELP ME!!
if you beat him up, chances are you're ex won't be too happy with you... maybe talk to her and find out if what he's telling you she said really is true. and as much as you like her, try not to come between them. in the meantime, keep yourself occupied with other friends or activities. that way you'll get your mind off of it for awhile. good luck =)
There is this guy that I REALLY like a lot, he's my friend and all and he said that he would hook up with me and he's hooked up with my other friend before and it meant nothing to him, I'm afraid of hooking up with him in case I get my hopes too high just to have them crash and burn. I really like this guy but I am afraid of getting hurt because it will mean nothing to him if I hook up with him and I really don't like that fact. PLEASE HELP!
before you even think of hooking up with him, you should talk to your friend and see if she would mind. now if his relationship with your friend wasn't serious, then i don't think she would mind too much, but just make sure!! just remember, chicks before dicks! hope it all works out for you hun! =)
I think I like one of my closest friends and I think she just might like me back. But it's tough because I don't really want to say anything me being a girl myself... Should I tell her how I feel and risk our friendship or just ignore it?
i think you should definitely tell her. if she's your close friend, you should be able to be open with her. and you shouldn't have to keep things from her. you'll never know what could have been if you don't tell her houw you feel. who knows? maybe she'll end up liking you back! =)