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Heyyy my name is brittany, I'm from Maine. I love hearing about people's problems and questions so feel free to ask me ANYTHING. I'm a very understanding person and a very good listener. I hope that people on here trust me enough to open up to me. Drop one in my inbox anytime!
E-mail: brittypxo@yahoo.com
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Ok me and my b.f are pretty into each other and i was just wondering can he still finger me when i have my period...i mean it would be my last day of my period but i was just wondering what i should do, cuz i want to, any advice. (link)
Of course he can still finger you! As long as you are comfortable with it.. he can finger you any time of the month. FYI though... consider putting a towel down or something just incase it gets messy. Even if it is your last day of your period..stuff is still coming out. Take into consideration stains.. blood does stain. Take into consideration, as well, that when women are on their period.. it tends to get a little stinky 'down there'. As long as you and your guy are totally okay with everything, then go for it girl! Just giving you some precautions to watch out for. Have fun!


hey im 15/f theres this guy in one of my classes that i have liked for a little over a year now. His locker is right by mine to. One of his friends said that he'd "bang me" so as in im okay. And he always grabs my butt, and says like nice a** and stuff. He really doesn't ever talk to me though like doesn't flirt. Does he like me? But then again he does this too all other girls too. What do i do? I really like him and i want to go out with him possibly. but we barely ever talk and if we do its about stupid stuff. PLezz help (link)
Hunni... why do you wanna date a guy who walks by and slaps ur ass, says he'd bang you and doesn't even take time out to TALK to you?

He sounds like a big waste of time. Especially since you said he does that to all the other girls too. I'm serious... don't waste your time because he will only hurt you. Guys like this are NOT worth it.

If theres no way of getting around the fact that you're crazy about him.. then go for it. Feel special when he grabs your ass for that split second... get the glory. And if he turns out to be a keeper then props, and good for you! Congrats..

but if he turns out to be a slime ball player... you can't say no one warned you.

that wasnt much help.. but it was advice.
goodluck!
-brittany


alright so i guess this is for guys to answer but girls can too..
when guys ask girls to homecoming how long do they normally wait to ask, like our homecomingis october 15th and idk i just wanna know like when to expect to get asked if i do..please and thanks!:)
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I would say the soonest you will get asked if 2 weeks. and if you don't get asked, stag is way more fun because you get to dance with anyone you want instead of one person.

hope i helped
-brittany


What are some things that turn on a guy whenever a girl does something?
[Example: Biting ear, kissing neck?] (link)
everyone who has answered your question so far have basically said all of the same things so let me try to broaden their horizon's and elaborate for you. Biting ears and kissing neck is hot, definately, and guys love it. As weird as it is for the first time, when your kissing your guy's neck gentle suck, BUT NOT TOO MUCH, it causes the dreaded hickies and no one likes those, and drawing little circles or figure 8's with ur tounge right under/behind his ear on his neck is definately a wicked turn on, you might even give him goosebumps ;) nibbling the ear is hot too, gentle obviously, and gently breathe warm breath onto/into his ear. its sexy. leg massages are weird, maybe its just me but who wants to massage a guys calf muscle? haha and the lean in for a kiss but backing off is really hot because he will lean in and pucker up but you back off and giggle, it makes him want you. That's pretty much it for the on top of the clothes stuff. goodluck experimenting with your guy ;)

hope i helped
-brittany


My best/only real friend just said he likes me, but i dont like him like that what do i do?

He is always depressed and i dont want to hurt him.
Help fast!

I'll rate 5's (link)
Under NO circumstances should you tell him you like him if you don't, or date him out of pity. Even if he is unimaginably depressed and is upset, you cannot lie to him just to make him feel better cuz in the longrun you will only be hurting him more and ruining the friendship you two have together. If he is your BEST friend he'll understand when you tell him you just enjoy him being there as a best friend rather than a boyfriend. Guys don't usually like hearing the horrible words: "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS". its like nails on a chalkboard to them, but in this situation, he's your best friend. It would be 100 times better to tell him how you feel and explain things to him. If he's really your friend, he'll understand and let it go, and appreciate having you as, at least, a friend!

Goodluck, hope i helped :)


sorry this is so long

(15/f)

alright well I like this guy but he's known to just get w/ girls for sex and I know that that's true w/ some of the girls he's been with but not all of them.. I like him a lot and I always think about him and like he's one of the only guys I love to hang out with that I like... if that makes any sense... and well he was smoking in front of me and I was like THATS DISGUSTING and he was like ... well then I'll stop, just for u.. and well when ever we hang out he always like rubs my back and is really flirty and when I was drunk he helped me around (not taking advantage of me in any way) bc I couldnt walk very well and he like made sure i was ok and stuff and then the next day he asked how i felt and made sure i was ok... and well he told my brother that hes liked me since the 7th grade and he normally doesnt like girls for that long, he just fucks them and leaves them and hes always like.. i love hangin out w/ ur so awesome and its a lot of fun, and now i cant keep my mind off him and i hate being away from him...... ok well should i take a chance with him if he likes me? or just let it go?




once again... im so sorry its long.. (link)
First of all, you NEVERRR wanna judge a guy just from what "you've heard he's done", if this guy sleeps around with girls then thats not exactly a fantastic quality. He seems nice tho, not to mention caring. If this guy just wanted to have sex with you, he would've done it that night you were drunk and couldn't walk. Maybe you should give it a try. Whats the worst that could happen? Him turn into an asshole and try to have sex with you? so say no if he turns into a big jerk and kick him to the curb. No harm in giving him a whirl, girl :) Talk to him about it though, he seems sweet and totally understanding.

Goodluck babe!


Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 years now and i love him soo much. Well we got into a REALLY REALLY big fight, and he said really mean things to me so I broke up with him and when he came to my house the next day we talked and he told me that he thinks alot different of me now and he made it pretty clear that he didn't want to get back together with me at all. I didn't mean to break up with him and I want him back, the problem is, he doesn't want me back. My heart is broken and I'm really lonely. He was my life, I was with him EVERY SINGLE DAY. I feel lonely and I don't have anyone I can really talk to about it. What should I do? How can I get him to want me back as much as I want him back? (link)
First of all, I know how it feels to have a boyfriend there basically 24/7 and then a sudden cliff fall breakup so let me try and help you out here. Now, if he thinks different of you, ask him why and what made him change the way he thought about you after knowing you sooo well for 2+ years. If he tries telling you its because of the breakup, you need to reassure him that the reason for all of YOUR reactions was due to his arrogance and him being a jerk to you. Make sure he isn't turning you into the bad guy hun, if he is.. then maybe you deserved better in the first place.




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