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my bf and i have been going out for over a year and i really love him. the problem is that lots of other girls like him too. girls are always calling and texting him, inviting him to do stuff, and hanging all over him, even in front of me. i always hear rumors about girls saying they like my bf and wish we'd break up. some of these girls are even my "friends." and im thinking HELLO, he has a girlfriend!!! is that normal behavior? becuz i just dont get it. i would never, ever throw myself at a guy who is taken. my dad says i should get mad at them and say something like "hey, stay away from my bf!" but im just not like that... i dont want to start any drama or seem like im jealous or overprotective. but i feel that way inside, and im tired of worrying about losing my bf or being betrayed by a supposed friend.
You know most girls are like that with their boyfriends. But really he knows that hes not single. He's just a girl magnet and he can't help the fact that he is one. He wouldnt turn you down just because a lot of girls flirt with him. But I know how you feel. And you should feel that way its normal for people to feel like that.. because it is not right for them to do that especially if its right in front of you. You will not lose your boyfriend unless those girls go beyond the top with him. The most important thing with you and your boyfriend is trust. And if he breaks that then you can start to worry. But if you guys are honest and you know you wont lose him and everythings going fine then it will be ok. Try not to be jealous of your boyfriend, guys really really hate it when girls are jealous because they get a lot of girls flirting with them. Try not to show it and everything will be fine. Just think if you and your boyfriend switched tables and you would be seeing him jealous because of all these boys flirting with you. Have a positive attitude around your him, and show him that you are the only one he can flirt with :)
ive been going out with this guy for 2 months and its been okay but hes in a different grade and i hardly get to talk to him. my mom took my phone away before i went out with him and i still havnt gotten it back but he has a cell phone. the problem is my parents wont let me talk on the house phone so i have to call him when my parents arent around which is hardly ever! the problem is that every time i get to call him(which is hardly ever)he ethier has his phone off or he wants me to call him back. the longest phone conversation was maby 16 min and then he said to call him tomoro.every conversation we have ends with him saying can you call me later and its so annoying.i called him today and he asked could he call me later and i told him he couldnt because it was my house phone then he told me to call him later and i asked him when and he said he didnt care just to call him later. i was sooo mad that he would say he didnt care. i understand sometimes your doing something important and arent able to talk on the phone but this is EVERY time i call him! i hardly know him because i can never talk to him for more than 2 min.
Thats a problem right there him not talking to you very long or saying that he doenst care. Well if you guys are having a good conversation and then he says oh can you call me back or later. Then that would be good, meaning he's still interested in you. Maybe he's just trying to say 'sorry I'm not interested, or I'm going to break up with you.' But you never really know until you find out. So why dont you try to call him and say
"(his name) Hey I have been feeling a little sad, that we never talk that long or not at all. It's been 2 freaking months. Don't you think I have been worrying about this? I would like to know whats up with you and me and I would really want to know when would be a better time to call since you are always busy."
Just say that. Maybe when he said he didnt care, it just came out of his mouth and he didnt really mean it just then. I bet you he's feeling sorry for himself for doing this to you. Everything will be better if you just talk to him about it. It will clear up all this and you can have a much longer phone conversations from now on I promise. I have been through this too :)
okay so ijust broke up with my boyfriend a couple days ago cause he cheated on me.
so tonight i decide to go out on a date with another guy. Turns out hes really nice and sweet, but im not going to rush into a relationship. But if
i do decide to go for this boy theres a problem hes 15 and im 13 and hes black and im white.
my mom woulldddd flip see i dont care about the whole white black relationship im not rasict and my mom isnt either she just has always said she didnt want me to date black guys idk why so what do i do
Since your mom doesnt want you to date black guys and the age difference is kind of not the same, your intuition is telling you that its probably not going to work out. Why not follow it? My mom said that too its not good to date black guys, whats funny is this one guy asked me out (im white) and I just said no. I'm just doing what my mom told me to do, and plus the guy was totally ugly. So if you really like this new guy, then talk to your mom about it before you commit a relationship. It wont cause anymore problems if you just tell her about it.
Hey,
There is this guy i really really like at school, but i dunno if he likes me.Last semester we had a class together and he would talk to me and smile at me alot, but he would like talk to me one day and ignore me the next, but i would sometimes catch him looking at me. So does he like me or is he just being nice.....?
thanks
I think personally he's just being a friendly guy to you. But also as well giving you mixed messages so you dont know if he likes you or not. Guys never want the girl to know they like her. If he talks to you, then ignores you then he might just be being nice to you. Try doing the same thing he does to you and see how it goes from there. You will be able to find out if he likes you.
i have an amazing boyfriend, he does everything you could emagine a wonderful boyfriend doing. we've been together 5 and a half months now. i used to be so happy with everything, but he's 3 years older than me. i'm only 15 and everything is so serious now. he also get VERY jealous, and i'm not allowed to talk to other guy, text any other guys or anything, i barely even get to hang out with my friends. i really love my boyfriend but i keep thinking do i really want to be so serious, i'm only 15 i need freedom.
i need some advice on what to do here?
Since hes probably an amazing boyfriend, he's trying everything for you guys not to break up or to be a good relationship. He really really likes you. He's protective around you, also because he's the older one. Its a bad trait for him to be extremely jealous, but really you need some freedom I agree. You need to have a serious talk so you guys can sort this sticky situation out. You dont even need to be in a serious relationship. He's 18 no wonder why he's serious, hes like an adult now. What I would do is to just sort it out by saying "Can you let me have my time, and space and do what I would like to do, and when I have time for you I will spend it with you" something like that. He must understand this, if not, then its time to find someone your own age who is better for you. Age doesnt really matter. It's just whats right for the both of you is what does matter!
my friend told me that she overheard my crush saying that he might try to kiss me at a party coming up that we're both going to. What should i do?? Like i no im supposed to just...kiss him (cus i really want to)....but i dont know if ill be a bad kisser or something. Also, after we kiss, what do i do or say? Will it be awkward? I really love him. Advice, please! :)
Aww how cute and romantic is that going to be! You just have to enjoy the moment when it comes, for all I have to say. I mean its going to be your first kiss, think about it. Let him kiss you, dont kiss him first. It totally ruins it. Make sure its a good time and maybe if you are alone he will make the move. You dont have to say anything... if you dont want to just smile at him, or even kiss him back. Of course it might be awkward, but you know, its going to be special. Wait for him to kiss you whenever he does and then just say 'I like/love you too'. Good luck and be suprised when you guys do kiss!!
I like this guy and I dont think he knows I even exist, hes hard to get to because hes not in my class,hes always with his friends,and he hangs out with my worst enemys!! anyways he likes sports (hes always playing basketball, or dogeball, trowing a tennis ball ect) and Im weak ant cant even shoot a hoop! how do i get his attention?
im 13
and a girl
please answer.. TT.TT
Start out being friendly to him. Introduce yourself. You dont have to get his attention, there are other ways to do things. Whenever you see him at school, say hi to him and wave. Then, start up conversations with him such as sports. Ask him if you could go to one of his games, and hang out. Maybe try out for a sport to see him even more since you said you dont have any classes with this guy. Before you do all of this make sure you build up your confidence. Unless it come natural for you then you are ok. Practice makes perfect!
EDIT- Do something clever for the # part like for example write it on a slip of paper and slip it in his backpack or whatever. Introduce yourself first before you do that. You might not think you are interesting to yourself, but he might think you are if you just be yourself. =]